danny B Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 moaning,women, its what they do dood Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Okay, If my girlfriend said I had to go to Church with her Uncle and Auntie that are Jehova's. I'd be like 'nooo way!' because its not my thing and I'd feel pretty out of place, embarrassed and bored. Im guessing that he feels a similar sort of thing abuot going to dinner. The awqwardness.yea but having a fish fingers, chips, and mushy peas on a wednesday evening is a bit different to changin your religion. as thats something you wouldnt normally do. where as he would normally eat, just else where. (unless hes a closet anorexic, in which case, starve on boy, starve on). personally id go for it now like, get the uncomfortableness over and done with. u gotta be used to eating formally with her, otherwise the marriage reception will be a right kefuffle. what with you having to dine in a seperate room, and then come in to listen to the speeches. just face it. but if shes awkward about it, and wants a fight. then just *bang* show her the strong arm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mat hudson Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 get some balls matt i find my GF's family a bit intimidating but i'd have a meal with them because hopefully by the end of it i'd find them less intimidating bearing in mind it isnt just her parents it's her older brother and his gf her 2 older sisters and their bf's her dad and mum. you're being a pussy serious what's the worst thing that can happen. feel free to make up really dramatic versions of what could happen at a sit down dinner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
br3n Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 give up, as soon as you stop playing into their hands they'll stop taking things out of proportion, say your not sorry for what you said just sorry how it came accross, if she cant deal with a difference of opinion then whats the point in arguing, just do your own thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaRtZ Posted February 12, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Its not as if ive never met the family before, Ive met her extended family when we first met and they were fine. Her family's really nice, I have nothing against it at all. I just cant explain it, but i don't like sitting down and being calm and polite with people i can't say "f*ck" infront of for example. People who aren't my mates etc etc.Im not moaning about this, its all sorted now..pretty much but i just dont understand why she'd REALLY have a go at me in the first place instead of talking to me quietly explaining I've insulted her family Im seeing her tomoz, no doubt itll kick off again lolz never mind. OK my problems over Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tipus Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 communication problems..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Broomer Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 becuase they get cranky when they dont get there own way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prawny Baby's Baby Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 I don't see why she told her family (she maybe slightly odd and in that case run away) but..It wasn't as if she was asking all that much, sounds to me like you are the one moaning. Yes it you may have to spend a few whole hours feeling slightly uncomfortable! Oh my! Doesn't sound like the end of the world to me. Then as you get to know the family with more meals etc all akwardness goes. So take the long term view and just get it out of the way now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 If I was you I'd definitely pack my bag and leave. Not because you don't want to be with her, but if you tell that shes being totally unreasonable and that you can't be doing with it, so you want out. She'll sh*t herself and beg for you to come back an she won't go exagerating stupid stuff to her mum again because you've shown her it p*sses you off. If she doesn't beg for you to come back then she doesn't really like you and your better off without her.Solid plan!?Whatever you do, DO NOT HAVE A SITDOWNER! This blatantly shows that your giving in to her, she may be sympathetic and all will be well (this shows that your weak) or she may take that oppurtunity and use it to her power by making you change. You dont want to change right? If she's being the total nob then why should it be you that sorts it out and apologises?My reasoning may be abit bent, but thats how I'd do it.I must add: Partz needs to be the stronger one if he's gonna try make her shit herself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 To answer the original question, girls are ill-logical, have no common sense, and believe the male species has the same brain waves, and therefore thinks the same as the female species. They don't apply logic to any situation, and they've made their mind up on the situation before even entering it.They rush decisions which should be properly thought out, and take years thinking and debating decisions that should take seconds. Because of this, the male species get easily annoyed by them, and when confronting the female, the blame is, for some unbeknown reason to anyone on this here planet, put onto the male for being un-supportive, and counter productive towards the females decision.Because of the inverted decision making, they say things without thinking what, a, the consequences will be, and b, who it may effect, good or bad, or even if it may effect them themselves.They are pedantic, claustrophobic, and yet cling at the same time.PS. I may, or may not of had a shite weekend, and i may, or may not of had a just as shit morning, and therefore, may, or may not be of on a rant. Simon. Shutup. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tipsy Jock Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 I went with my girlfriend to her dads funeral (now thats an awkward uncomfortable situation). If you like her, just do it. just go to dinner you big sissy! and remember, drink from glasses not ashtrays this time Pete Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocktrials Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 No offence, but i don't see the problem, like some others have said, get some balls and go, i used to hate the idea of sitting down with the gf's family, and was always tense etc, but now im as comfortable as ever, have some right laughs Just go for it, and you probably get a B to the J from it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaRtZ Posted February 12, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 and remember, drink from glasses not ashtrays this time Petehaha what you trying to say?Can i point out that i was never pissed off about going to the meal with her? it was just the fact that shes had such a big go at me cos of something I would have thought is quite minor. I don't see why shes blown it up this big. Anyway enoughs enough, im seeing her tomoz to sort it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 To answer the original question, girls are ill-logical, have no common sense, and believe the male species has the same brain waves, and therefore thinks the same as the female species. They don't apply logic to any situation, and they've made their mind up on the situation before even entering it.They rush decisions which should be properly thought out, and take years thinking and debating decisions that should take seconds. Because of this, the male species get easily annoyed by them, and when confronting the female, the blame is, for some unbeknown reason to anyone on this here planet, put onto the male for being un-supportive, and counter productive towards the females decision.Because of the inverted decision making, they say things without thinking what, a, the consequences will be, and b, who it may effect, good or bad, or even if it may effect them themselves.They are pedantic, claustrophobic, and yet cling at the same time.PS. I may, or may not of had a shite weekend, and i may, or may not of had a just as shit morning, and therefore, may, or may not be of on a rant. your either gonna be a....prositute cerial killerwife beaterhomo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 All of the above? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONGO Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 your either gonna be a....prositute cerial killerwife beaterhomo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 (edited) All of the above? a savage women beating prostitue killing homo sexual.what a kool title, better than "diet simon" or what ever u southern boys call him. Edited February 12, 2007 by Davetrials Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Do it properly, or don't do it all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt_Tupman Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 a savage women beating prostitue killing homo sexual.That would look great on a CV! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Haven't read all the thread, but I guess from your post you're young. Say around 14 - 15?Being in a relationship - and I mean a relationship - not a 5 month holding-hands thing you do at 14 - 15, you do things for other people. Eating at your partners house? That's nothing mate.Wait til you're the father and there's all kinds of fluids spraying everywhere and you gotta stand there holding her hand until the little one appears.Wait until you crack the news to her dad that you want to marry her.Wait until she has personal health problems and you have to do very personal things - not of a sexual nature, some things you really wouldn't want to do.Out of all the things stressful / embarrassing / scary in a relationship - you choose a 15 minute food eating session. You're in for a shock m'lad.Maybe i'm just old.Oh I read some more:"Can't say f**k in front of" - Why would you want to? It's about social interaction - you adapt to the situation. If you went for an interview at a bank would you turn up and say "Erm, well I think i'd be good at the job because i'm clever, I like riding my bike with my mates and generally f**king about really mate". No.I can see the point about the g/f spreading crap - I had an ex once that used to do it. We'd have an arguement and i'd say I didn't want to talk to her if she was going to be unreasonable so she'd go and tell her family I called her a bitch or something and her brother would send me nasty texts! He was only 16 so I wasn't exactly intimidated but still, the cheek of it. Needless to say I wasn't with her much longer. (She wasn't even attractive and the sex was crap too - waste of 2 years to be honest.)Anyway, to sum up, if anyone is ever pissed off with someone or not totally happy, end it. I've been with Fran for over two years now and I think we've had one major row in our first year and that's it. (Not bad considering she spends half her time in Lincoln at Uni and I spend loads of time running my own company!)Anyway, wise or not so wise words from me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 He's 18 Mike. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trebor Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 The same logic/common sence still applies? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 (edited) in poopipes absence someone must fill in for the great oneaaaaww andi agree with Mike Edited February 13, 2007 by poopipe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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