PaRtZ Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 Jesus christ. I've actually stopped talking to her so she can't talk anymore. Basically I said something and it came out wrong. Shes told her mum and her mum was a bit offended (basically i don't want to have a meal with her family, it doesn't suit me) shes made it out that her mum and sister make me feel awkward. Shes then GONE AND TOLD THEM so now shes having a go at me for insulting her familyI've explained that I just don't like sit-down-meals with people i cant relax infront of but shes just not having it and just ignoring me. WHY?! I've given her a reason, why doesn't she just accept it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerrie-Anne Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 Its our Job to moan at you.. just tell her your sorry and then give her a bit of time to realise it just came out wrong, to really make it up to her though, go for the meal and try your hardest to make it as comfortable as you can... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ogre Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 i'm disapointed, i was expecting smut haha. girls won't accept being wrong babe 's really poo single ***! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 tell her and her family to get f**ked and then masturbate profusely for a hour and im sure you will feel a million dollars afterwards.. the great thing about porn is.. you can call the women sluts all you want.. and they just keep moaning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaRtZ Posted February 11, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 just tell her your sorry and then give her a bit of time to realise it just came out wrong,Yep tried that, still keeps nit picking about why i said it in the first place. the words "headbutting" and "brick wall" come into mind....to really make it up to her though, go for the meal and try your hardest to make it as comfortable as you can...haha no chance. like i said, i hate sit-down dinners and after this, its probably cheeky to turn up anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 Dude, grab your balls and go!You'll probobly end up enjoying yourself and once it's over with you can bang her all you want on the basis that they muct like you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerrie-Anne Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 lol, she wont see it as cheeky, she'll be impressed you turned up and tried to do something for her... BUT if you really dont wanna go then just try and talk to her, again, and explain what you really meant and stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monkeyseemonkeydo Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 It sounds like you're trying to look at it logically... there's no chance any woman will ever understand that!! Strange creatures... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONGO Posted February 11, 2007 Report Share Posted February 11, 2007 if she ain't happy she won't let you be. If you learn that rule, you can't go wrong. Break it, and you'll not get to live it down.I'm single, it's about 10 million times better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CurtisRider Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 if shes actually worth it...go to her house when shes not about, and explain to her mum and sister, apologise, and if they aren't dicks, they will accept it. if they wont accept that, and she keeps being a gay, tell her to f**k right off itll never work otherwise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Look at it from her point of view, you don't want to have a meal with her parents. If a girl said that to me, i'd be quite gutted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downhill_rob2@hotmail.com Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Look at it from her point of view, you don't want to have a meal with her parents. If a girl said that to me, i'd be quite gutted.Ditto Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich Pearson Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 haha no chance. like i said, i hate sit-down dinners and after this, its probably cheeky to turn up anywayI know what you mean dude.But as Dave pointed out, trying to introduce logic to any situation involving a pissed off woman is just not going to work.Face it; They (women) are all completely, and utterly, psychotic. And you cannot reason with psycho's.Or, the alternative, forget logic and go for brute force and anger, and just scream at her in very basic English until she gets the message.Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaRtZ Posted February 12, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 I don't know what it is though, it seems at times she just wants an argument with me for the hell of it and its not as if she planned the meal for all of us, cos he said "me my mum and my sis are going and you can come too" so i see that as not a big thing if it wasn't a plan for me to be thereAnyway I think its resolved a bit more now but if this carries on, im not too sure if i want to still be with her, cos all this arguing IS pointless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 To answer the original question, girls are ill-logical, have no common sense, and believe the male species has the same brain waves, and therefore thinks the same as the female species. They don't apply logic to any situation, and they've made their mind up on the situation before even entering it.They rush decisions which should be properly thought out, and take years thinking and debating decisions that should take seconds. Because of this, the male species get easily annoyed by them, and when confronting the female, the blame is, for some unbeknown reason to anyone on this here planet, put onto the male for being un-supportive, and counter productive towards the females decision.Because of the inverted decision making, they say things without thinking what, a, the consequences will be, and b, who it may effect, good or bad, or even if it may effect them themselves.They are pedantic, claustrophobic, and yet cling at the same time.PS. I may, or may not of had a shite weekend, and i may, or may not of had a just as shit morning, and therefore, may, or may not be of on a rant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrayvon Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 I may, or may not of had a shite weekend, and i may, or may not of had a just as shit morning, and therefore, may, or may not be of on a rant. Hmmm I think maybe you did Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenn24 Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 unless you explain to her mum and sister etc, it will be too arkward to go now as everyone knows you dont want to be there. Just say you have a problem and people can't watch you eat. Anyway is this a meal for valentines day with her mum and her sister aswell...haha nice! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trebor Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Dude. Go for that meal, prove to the family that you've got a pair. They'll respect you more for it, plus it'll give you a chance to straighten things out without her being the middle lady. Once you've all sat down and hopefully broken the ice, just saying something along the lines of "look, this has been bugging me and I really feel the need to bring it up. Your daughter explained my situation completely differently to how I intended, xxx is what I meant, I didn't mean to offend you and I reaally hope this won't screw up the relationship I have/hope to have with you all". If you avoid the situation it won't get any better...What's the deal with sit-down dinners anyway? Just be charming, take small mouthfulls i.e. so they don't fall from the fork onto your shirt/lap, don't talk with mouth open, and talk only when you have something worth saying. Be courtious? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B.E.A.U Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Dude, grab your balls and go!You'll probobly end up enjoying yourself and once it's over with you can bang her all you want on the basis that they muct like you.agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hill_393 Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Hi guys;I can only put it one way to youCan't live with them, can't live without them!Or is itCan't live with them, can't kill them?Darren Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 in poopipes absence someone must fill in for the great one, with his advice, so here it goes"kick her in the tits"and now for my view on the subject. go explain to her mum, preferably when shes not around and explain. as for the whole sometimes it seems she wants an argument, its cos she probably does. weve got a bloke at work, who will argue for the sake of it, just cos he aint had an argument in an hour or two. and i have to admit, on occassions. Ive so wanted someone to give me an excuse to kick off with them, or for them to kick off with me, just cos ill be in a stinker of a mood, and want to let off some steam, so i should imagine, it may be the same for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Kennard Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 in poopipes absence someone must fill in for the great one, with his advice, so here it goes"kick her in the tits"and now for my view on the subject. go explain to her mum, preferably when shes not around and explain. as for the whole sometimes it seems she wants an argument, its cos she probably does. weve got a bloke at work, who will argue for the sake of it, just cos he aint had an argument in an hour or two. and i have to admit, on occassions. Ive so wanted someone to give me an excuse to kick off with them, or for them to kick off with me, just cos ill be in a stinker of a mood, and want to let off some steam, so i should imagine, it may be the same for her.she could just be a fanny? even if she is, just try and talk to her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 If I was you I'd definitely pack my bag and leave. Not because you don't want to be with her, but if you tell that shes being totally unreasonable and that you can't be doing with it, so you want out. She'll sh*t herself and beg for you to come back an she won't go exagerating stupid stuff to her mum again because you've shown her it p*sses you off. If she doesn't beg for you to come back then she doesn't really like you and your better off without her.Solid plan!?Whatever you do, DO NOT HAVE A SITDOWNER! This blatantly shows that your giving in to her, she may be sympathetic and all will be well (this shows that your weak) or she may take that oppurtunity and use it to her power by making you change. You dont want to change right? If she's being the total nob then why should it be you that sorts it out and apologises?My reasoning may be abit bent, but thats how I'd do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boon racoon Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 no offence but it sounds to me like you're the one moaning about going to dinner, when it's a kinda basic thing that might happen in a relationship with someone..it's expected! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Okay, If my girlfriend said I had to go to Church with her Uncle and Auntie that are Jehova's. I'd be like 'nooo way!' because its not my thing and I'd feel pretty out of place, embarrassed and bored. Im guessing that he feels a similar sort of thing abuot going to dinner. The awqwardness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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