Up'n'away Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Hey all Apologies if this was supposed to be in random small q's.. but this really isnt small for me..My Gf and i are quite involved with each other now and have been together for quite a while.. Ive had sex.. she hasn't Shes Brought It Up With Me And Ive Agreed If She Feels Its Ok Now..Im just worried as the girls ive previously been with have already lost their virginity.. Soo im aware im going to have to go easy on her but would like to hear from others Thanks, a very embarrased, Jay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Broke my ex in, an I just let her go on top so she could do what's comfortable for her. You'll be fine though buddy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 fingers first as always, get her used to that, after that, just take it steady, plenty of lube(altho if she aint damp, you may have problems), and just take it slow, soft and steady, for the first few times, by which time, shell probably understand whats happening and want it more than you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Cling film everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haz Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 May I be the first to say, Rag Her. I don't see any reason to make it different, any atempts do so could leave for an uncomfortable position later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Up'n'away Posted January 2, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Cling film everything.LOLSoo I geuss the majority say slow and steady pokes the cherry? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Papasnap Maher Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Hell, Put it in as deep as u can...make her f**king scream Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
011001000110010101110010 Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 jesus, some people are so insensivitve loljust dont be a "dick" and you'll be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Hell, Put it in as deep as u can...make her f**king scream and then you scream like even more of a pansy, when u realise that you really shouldnt of had ur skin pulled that far back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Up'n'away Posted January 2, 2007 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Owwwwch! I say the moral to my story is thn.. to let her go at her own pace and advance when ready? Seems the most obvious thing really Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Lie down and let her decide Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Sit her down and f**k her senseless have a serious chat about it, tell her she's completely free to reject it if she wants and you perfectly understand if she does turn you down.Be gentle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willy Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Hell, Put it in as deep as u can...make her f**king scream Joe *** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smo™ Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Just use your common sense mate, when I was with my first girlfriend I just said 'Tell me to stop if I hurt you', and proceeded to go very slowly. Don't push too deep at first, wait a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Papasnap Maher Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Btw..is she of legal age?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 'Breaking her in'..... There's something very wrong with this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pauly Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Joe ***LOL ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 Take it slow, let her be on top so she can go as deep as she likes, and wear a condom! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
br3n Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 just put it in her ass and tell her its standard practise.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt_Tupman Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 My advice is let her get the ball rolling but it won't be to long till she wants more then you can get down to it.just put it in her ass and tell her its standard practise..LMFAO!!!!1!!1 that really made me laugh out loud!! mum just asked what was so funny ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 just put it in her ass and tell her its standard practise..ROFL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matt! Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 dont go easy, show her you mean business, my girlfriend now was a virgin, it "hurt" her at the time and the morning after..text me telling me ever since though she is addicted, and iam not complaining..go for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nuke Bowel Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 fingers first as always, get her used to that, after that, just take it steady, plenty of lube(altho if she aint damp, you may have problems), and just take it slow, soft and steady, for the first few times, by which time, shell probably understand whats happening and want it more than you.Yerr use the fingers first I say, She will easily be wet after you have ragged a couple of fingers up her no problem.Put her on top, you can just lay there then and let her do all of the work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaz M Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 if you value your banjo, go very carefully or there will be blood stains from both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 I've not been in this situation but I would suggest giving her a massage. I'm assuming that half the difficulty for a girl and her first time is that she's nervous and perhaps tense which could potentially lead to additional uncomfortable friction/pressure. My experience with massage is that its a very effective form relaxation for the mind, through the body.It's something I've noticed though, that when my gf has been nervous or stressed, for whatever reason, she i more prone to discomfort regarding penetration. I might be completely off here though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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