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Basically, even though i am only 16 tender years old age, i am already stuck in my ways and 1 of them being view to woman and the appropriate ways

being in college i hear all the talk, from my fellow students, and one being the way that they talk about their girl friends (aka missis, bitch etc.) they come in on a monday morning "i bashed the granny out of her" "all weekend" and i think to myself wow you had sex, i spent my weekend with the most wonderful girl doing nothing but talking and hugging, walking round town holding hands..

all they ever seem to talk about is sex,

and they talk about they gf as if they are a prize, as do all you lot on here (post a pic of your missus) acting like your not a man if you don't get sex, and taking the piss out of Member1492 the fact he wants to celebrate the fact he has been going out his gf for 9 months

at 16 years old, that is something to celebrate, and your virginity, act as i your wierd if you don't loss it by the time your 13, is no longer something to look forward to sharing with someone special

so it apears i'm set in my ways, and i am classed as odd for being a romantic and so is everyone else

am i wierd..????

thats my rant over, and i'll add more, when more than likely i am slated or something in the trials-forum bitchyness

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Haha, just had a bit of a discussion about this on msn havent we :rolleyes: ?

Yeah I enjoy hugging and kissing and just generally hanging around with girlfriends, infact if I cant have that then I wont be going out with them for long.

Last girlfriend was good for that, we used to hang around and chat, kiss, hig and had a laugh.

Probably the reason I miss her so much.

Sex is important to a relationship yes, but its not the main thing.

Its just guys showing off.

Gaz.... I'll be the one for you :wub:

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bet your girlfriends dying for a proper f**k :P ...... lol

Just joking my friend. Im 23 and my friends call me '2 week tommy' as i never seem to date girls for longer than that, the problem i find is never weather im attracted to them or not, its their whole demenour and how they are, the last girl i dated was not the most attractive ive ever been with by my god we just had a blast everytime we were in each others company, she was a great girl, we went out for about 9weeks :$ . We all like attention and when its reciprocated its a great feeling. Girls are to be appreciated but then i find its always the age old question.......'' f**k or marry?'' you can never have both .

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to be 100% honest, and i know ALOT of people (most) on here say im a mug for going back with louise, but, i think, that was the best thing we have done for a while (splitting up) because, its actualy made her realise how much she likes and how much i like her...

We have been seeing each other ever night all night for like 3 weeks now, and i love it :)

I dont get a shag every night (aint had one for like 2-3 weeks now, but im not too bothered really :ermm: )

Recently though, iv been acting really weird with her, and she isnt liking it...

Iv told her why, and hopefully she has understood...

For you lot who doesnt know (no one knows) i just got bad news about my uncle mike has cought cancer :( its really f**ked my mind up :(

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that's some nasty shit - my mum came down with cancer a couple of years back but she's come through it ok so far. It scared me so much I quit my job and moved back to the UK. nasty business.

still think you're a mug though :P

"i bashed the granny out of her"

that's f**king hilarious (Y)

f**k or marry?'' you can never have both

7 years and no sign of a church (Y)

blokes spout that sort of stuff because we're uncomfortable with the fact we're all actually pussywhipped. You, on the other hand appear to be comfortable with the idea so good luck to you.

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me drunk, with shoe on hand (probably the closest I have gotten to nice ladies for years!)

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me with my beard on fire

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and finally a normal pic

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I dont think I am bad looking, BUT I am very shy when talking to females and I never go out (I mean NEVER) so I havnt actually spoken to a girl my age for months.

meh

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Go to that riders night out with Dave etc and get laid (Y)

its SO hard to believe that dave has ever got laid :P the idea is just wrong.....

mind you, got must have made chavettes for a reason.... :-

I am 22 and never had one, never had a kiss or anything more.

thats just silly man!

not from a 'you gay you havnt kissed someone' point of veiw.

but simply because your hardly an ugly f**ker, and your clearly a sound guy :S it just doesnt add up.....

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am i wierd..????

No you just have respect for women. And will probably have great relationships thoughout your life, get married, and never get divorced. And live happilly ever after. (Y)

As for the rest of the topic, it's not unusesual for someone to have not lost their virginity by their mid twentys. I just seems that way becuase people brag about loosing their virginity when they were 16 / 17, and people who haven't keep quiet about it, making it seem like the average age was about 17. When statisticly, it is not.

I'd personaly never show my 'missus' on my msn pic, avatar and the post a picture of your girlfriend topic, becuase it just seems weird. I mean, think about it.

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Good topic , I find that all this malarky of oh go out an meet some girl get laid and move on just a bit sh*t really. I personally can't and won't do it. I prefer there to be some basis behind everything and meaning. Ali dude dont worry man your best without them half the time and I dont exactly go out , especially as Im too busy working and stuff. It's just a front with these lads , yeah maybe they have but who gives one when there 19 and have a child because of it!! Get out there enjoy yourself dont worry about those narrow minded wan**rs.

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but simply because your hardly an ugly f**ker, and your clearly a sound guy :S it just doesnt add up.....

I'm a shy person, well, not so much anymore because I sort of out grew it with going to work and things where I have to talk to complete strangers on a day-to-day basis, and the only way to get through the day is to have a laugh with them and stuff.

This as also paid off as I now have a complete disregard for the general public :)

Anyways, Ali, get out to your local city centre one Friday night. I don't know what the view is, but some people think people only go out on a Friday night to get laid...WRONG. Yes, some people do, I try to, but you do meet some really nice, genuine people in pubs.

A bit of booze breaks down the social barriers and you can talk and talk about any old crap and maybe get yourself a missus :)

But for bonus points, ring around people you went to school with! I've met up with a few people I went to school with, some that I never even spoke a word to, and it was great! You talk about school, teachers, your mates, what you do now ect.

You're not an ugly f**ker, your not a bad person, the problem is your not much of a socialist, if you went out on the piss a few times with your mates, you'll be fine :)

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lol, I aint too bothered, means more time for riding (Y)

I only went to school for two years, never really got along with anyone there so I dont think meeting up with old class mates would work :-

Also I hate going to pubs, nightclubs etc, I dont drink, I hate the smoky atmosphere and I hate all the dicks and chavs that are in there.

I'll just carry on waiting for some random beautiful girl to walk into my house and fall in love with me :rolleyes:

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Anyways, back on topic.

I've made a clever little calender over a year to help you with your relationships...

January

Went out on Friday, met this girl and we got talking. Got her number and we text each other occasionally. Shes got an ex boyfriend still lurking about but 'nothings going on' so she says, but I believe her.

We went out the other night, it was great, just me and her, we held hands and kissed a few times but nothing too serious, I'm not like that.

I asked her out today and she said yes. We meet up about everyday now and its loadsa fun, we just sit about holding hands and talking.

February

We've been together nearly a month now! Shes met my parents and they love her! Shes stopped at my house a few times aswell, but we didnt do anything, I'm not like that. I don't want her to think I'm only with her for sex.

We went out to (can't think of anywhere, lol, I dunno, f**king bingo or something) it was great! I had the time of my life. I love her to bits and she loves me as well. I want to be with her forever and blah blah blah.

We had sex last night, it was so nice and then we just lay together all night :)

March

We had a bit of an argument this morning, she didn't want to stop at my house tonight because she was seeing her mate, oh well, I still love her and we're friends again now...according to her text message, I've told her to ring me when shes home so I know shes ok.

She didn't ring me last night, but I fell asleep. I rang her earlier to make sure she was ok and to ask why she didn't call me because I was worried. She accused me of being over protective but I'm not quite sure what she meant.

We're ok now though, and she stopping at my house again tonight...Its her birthday next month so I better start saving and get hinting at what she wants.

April

The sex has become a regular thing now, its quite good. I saved 150 quid for her birthday, I went out and bought her a phone and ipod for her birthday, she'll love it! She's promised to stop at my house on her birthday have have a night in, sounds good:D

Its her birthday today and she can't stop at my house now, shes off out with her mates into town so she can't see me. Shes not invited me or anything like that, but I'm not fussed, I'd just feel like I was distacting her.

She got a text message from some lad today but tried to hide it from me, I trust her and everything but I have my doubts occasionally, I questioned it but she got a bit defensive about it and accused me of not trusting her, but I had a long talk with her and told her that I did trust her, but was worried that she might leave me, she promised she wouldnt.

May

I bumped into a girl I went to school with in town and we exchanged numbers because we were in a rush, My girlfriend felt my phone vibrate in my pocket and got it out for me, she looked over my shoulder when I read the text and she questioned who it was from, I told her and she got all upset with it. But I've promised to not text her again and have deleted her number from my phone because I don't want to lose her.

I tried to ring her today and she said she could talk because she had a friend round her house and she's been invited to some lads house for a party. I asked if she'd like to stop at my house instead, but she said no.

I rang her the next day to see if she was ok, but she couldnt talk for long because she had a big hang over, last night she got 'wasted' and some lad walked her home to make sure she got home ok, this annoyed me and i made it obvious to her...but shes fallen out with me now because I 'accused her of cheating on me'. I wish I'd never said anything now...

June

I found out that the lad that walked her home kissed her, It really pissed me off but my girlfriend just said 'there was nothing in it'. I can't believe she'd do this to me, but shes promised me that she'll never see him again.

We still have a good time when we see each other but theres not much to do, we usually just sit about and watch a few films and stuff.

July

Shes going out with her mates again tonight, I can't help but think she'll see that lad again, so I reminded her of her promise which annoyed her a lot, I just dont want to lose her.

She came home from her night out early and came round to my house for a bit, which was nice :)

August

My girlfriend text me saying she thinks we should have a break, I don't know why though. According to her we argue too much and stuff, ah well. I've agreed to it because I love her and I dont want to lose her. I asked how long it would be but she just said 'dunno...as long as it takes' but I hope its not long.

September

We've not seen each other for nearly a month now, well, we text and call each other, but I've not seen her. I wonder what shes up to...I don't like not knowing where she is, I hope shes alright.

October

We got back together again today and it was great, shes not having sex with me though because shes 'not ready'...not sure what that means but I'm just glad to have her back.

Shes spent pretty much the whole month in my company but last night she went out with her mates again, she text me because she was pretty drunk, it said something like 'i dont think were gonna work out, soz'. It upset me and I've talked to her and persuaded her to just try it for a bit.

November

We broke up last week, we're still mates though and we still see each other a lot. She sees some other lad a lot too but she insists that nothing is going on because she still loves me and couldn't hurt me like that.

This lad keeps ringing her a lot and they go out places with him and her mate, I don't think anythings happening though because shes not like that.

December

She said she'll go back out with me again today and I said yes..

SEE JUNE AND REPEAT.

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Right, a lot of effort went into that post. Take note, print it off and don't let them piss you about. So basically, keep it going for about 3 months, or, as a rough guide, when you start to get to know her mates well...dump her.

Oh, and by the way, this isn't my life story, but its simular on manny occasions.

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lol, I aint too bothered, means more time for riding (Y)

I only went to school for two years, never really got along with anyone there so I dont think meeting up with old class mates would work :-

Also I hate going to pubs, nightclubs etc, I dont drink, I hate the smoky atmosphere and I hate all the dicks and chavs that are in there.

I'll just carry on waiting for some random beautiful girl to walk into my house and fall in love with me :rolleyes:

im not really going out and ''hunting'' for girls either, ill see how it turns out :o

its alot of fun to go the pub with some friends though, just search for an really unpopulair pub where there are no chavs, great fun :)

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ha, it appears i was wrong about some of the poeple this forum, good job people

but another thing is i absolutely hate it when people talk about me and my gf in a dodgey sexual way, not like that, but

someone said, "she prob just going out with you cause she needs some cock" and to be honest that really really pissed me of, to the point of clenching my fist... i mean does he think he is the only person who can have a happy relationship

ha, really hungry, will reply later (Y)

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Just whip out some moves on your ashton, especially outside a pub/club on a friday night.

They'll literally come crawling out, amazed by your skills on a bike, problem solved.

A car-full of girls said they'd show me their tits if I hopped up a bike-storage-box thing by our local train station.

So close. So close...

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