tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 (edited) This has made me crazy. My girlfriend of 4 years has decided she wants to full abstain from sexual contact until marriage. Her mind is fully set, and I don't think I could bare this considering I'm only 22. I love her to bits, and don't want to loose her, but this is crazy.I'm sorry if this is not appropriate, but I needed to get this off my chest, and cannot mention it to close friends for obvious reasons. Edited June 10, 2006 by tuff_runt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyoyo Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Are you engaged?Or is she talking long term. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 she's talking long term, like we are 22 but marriage (in both our minds) is not on cards until at least 26-27, which is a LONG way away. This is like a kick in the bloody face. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoo Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 I've lasted 15 years without it..except with myself..zoo baby! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaffacakes Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 You sure she's not having a laugh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBProductions Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 I'd tell her how you feel man nothing like being honest. A relationship is a two way thing its like you saying sorry I can't kiss you because of my believe's today. Get it off your chest to her and if the shizzle hits the fan then its time to move on which is a bit meh but its life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 I've lasted 15 years without it..except with myself..zoo baby!Yeh, i'm not sure the years between birth and 13 or so count.Is this to do with a religeous belief or what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyoyo Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Does that mean your not kissing, or is that not sexual contact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 religion, yes. She always has been religious but recently started changing (since she hit 21) and in my head seems to be going a little crazy. Her parents put mad pressure on her to perform at uni, and are super strict. They also detest me. I have spoken to her mum once in 3 years (true) and been inside their house once since easter 05.I told her exactly how I feel, but not in a cross way. I love her like crazy, i'd be seriously gutted without her, but do I REALLY want to sign my life away like this at 22?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ARSE! Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Suduce her its the only way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBProductions Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 No you dont want to sign it away if your not happy , Otherwise you will regret when your in a situation where its even harder to get out of Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 oh yeah, kissing, but nothing more full on. It's crap as she has an ass to die for and I'm massively attracted to her sexually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Id be careful she hasnt found a big black man with a cock that would put any human to shame.. im talking 17" ( if you dont believe there are black men with cocks that big....... google insane cock brothers) . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfGussets Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 religion, yes. She always has been religious but recently started changing (since she hit 21) and in my head seems to be going a little crazy. Her parents put mad pressure on her to perform at uni, and are super strict. They also detest me. I have spoken to her mum once in 3 years (true) and been inside their house once since easter 05.I told her exactly how I feel, but not in a cross way. I love her like crazy, i'd be seriously gutted without her, but do I REALLY want to sign my life away like this at 22?!Sounds Catholic... they're religious when it suits them If sex is that much of an issue then you need to sort it. But I would seriously think before eloping just to get a session in. And if you're thinking like this now I bet I can guess what you'll end up doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 (edited) Wait a few days till anzo turns up, he'll tell you all about women My 1am thoughts are: -She want's to see whether you love her because of her personality or not (pretty silly as you're together 4 years). -She want's to break up and is giving you a reason to think about doing the same -She's behaving like a woman (highly improbable) -She's got some secret problems she doesn't want to talk aboutedit: if she's religious, why didn't she mind it in the first place? or have I missed it? Edited June 10, 2006 by Inur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 When she gets on the horn she tends to lose all sense of logic, but then regrets afterwards (which she only told me tonight, that she regretted every time, EVER). So she has decided to not get caught up in it anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 google insane cock brothers f**kING HELL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Cox Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 time of the month?Ben Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 Could just be that it's a "Slow down there" sorta thing? Or that she's trying to see how much you do love her?Either that or she doesn't have a vagina or something. You know, something like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 haha, no, she's proper horny when the painters are in, so I get all the pleasure for no work. But then it crashes the minute she's back to normal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyoyo Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 haha, no, she's proper horny when the painters are in, so I get all the pleasure for no work. But then it crashes the minute she's back to normalThat explains it then, she wants to leave you for the painters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark W Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 That explains it then, she wants to leave you for the painters. Hahaha, I see what you did there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanie-b Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 f**kING HELL!Ditto That's quite f**ked up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuff_runt Posted June 10, 2006 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 right, im off to bed... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si-man Posted June 10, 2006 Report Share Posted June 10, 2006 QUOTE(deanie-b @ Jun 11 2006, 12:22 AM) ← Ditto That's quite f**ked up. Would be shit havin one that big, i bet only a few talented women can get their gobs round that.She would also have to be as slack as a bin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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