Fixed Pants™ Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I want Hayley.This is really getting me down, feel really depressed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 Same. But the difference being i spent a year with Ellie, then a few more months seeing eachover and so now i gutted. I love her so much! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Hitcher Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 I felt myself infront of her.'cuse me?Just go out with the lads, have a phat drinking sess and you'll forget her when a fine looking young fillie walks into the pub/club/back alley. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haz Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 Getting the cold shoulder from a girl you were getting on pretty well with sucks to be honest.Going out tonight though, so we shall see what is up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamAllen Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 Just say you were saying you still waned to be mates etc etc. Are you still mates with ur ex?. Or do what steve and delete her number in front of her. Being mates with your ex can have it bad points, I miss the little things we used to do. hug, cuddle, just be close to eachother watching a film. I felt myself infront of her. I cnt really say I'm over her 'cause in not. I just wana have someone to filll the void. Shes still my best mate, I can tell her anything. But she said something to me the other week which f**ked me up. I'll qoute her "I don't want you, But I dont want anyone else to have you" Since we havent been going out for sometime, I've been "texting" a few lasses, and as soon as she find out about them she goes off on one. I'd have her back, I stilll love her and that. What do I do? leave her be? I no if i ask her back out she'll say no. Or should I say I dont want to be mates??We have been split up 6 months i still love her dearly but like you i find it hard to be around her and not be how we was, she's moved on because i wasn't the nicest of people when we first split up and she would of done anything to have me back, so i f**ked that one up, now I'm mostly over her, and moving on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 'cuse me?I think he means he could be his-self around her, like he was was really comfortable around her.Not he started wanking when he was with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 What do I do? leave her be? I no if i ask her back out she'll say no. Or should I say I dont want to be mates??Just say.... either have me or lose me in the nicest way! no other way to do it! she has to except that she cant f**k you about!! happend to me before... would put it in nicer words but i cant think of a nicer way to put it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted October 19, 2007 Report Share Posted October 19, 2007 Had such a fit girl sat next to me on the bus back from college.My god...fit as. haha.I'm shit at talking to girls though..didn't say anything apart from 'yeah' when she asked if I was getting off at the next stop. Haha.God knows how I became best mates with Sophie. I suck at talking to girls, never know what to say without looking like a twat or making it seem like i'm chatting them up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted October 20, 2007 Report Share Posted October 20, 2007 What's been happening in my gay life!Ellie became really un-talkative for a few days, she had ALOT of work from 6th form. this annoyed me as she was speaking to me the same and it caused me to start a few arguments. This resulted in her saying we have started arguing again and she thinks we should move on.Moving on for me is not an option and please don't say move on, i wont!I want her back help me, i will literally do anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamHolmes Posted October 20, 2007 Report Share Posted October 20, 2007 What's been happening in my gay life!Ellie became really un-talkative for a few days, she had ALOT of work from 6th form. this annoyed me as she was speaking to me the same and it caused me to start a few arguments. This resulted in her saying we have started arguing again and she thinks we should move on.Moving on for me is not an option and please don't say move on, i wont!I want her back help me, i will literally do anything.Just move on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted October 21, 2007 Report Share Posted October 21, 2007 Just move on yeah, move on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted October 21, 2007 Report Share Posted October 21, 2007 Don't talk to her for a while, if she doesn't make the effort to come running back to you, then you know she definitely doesn't wana be with you anymore, then you know she isn't worth having. Unless you don't care whether she likes you or not and you've just got her to get your end away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted October 23, 2007 Report Share Posted October 23, 2007 Don't talk to her for a while, if she doesn't make the effort to come running back to you, then you know she definitely doesn't wana be with you anymore, then you know she isn't worth having. Unless you don't care whether she likes you or not and you've just got her to get your end away?Realy good advice! Im gonna give that a go. Cheers mate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 No reason for post, i just need to vent as its majorly depressing me. Saturday night was going shit so me and a few mates left to go to some house party, we got there quite late so it was pretty much dieing down. Met the few people that were left, including this one stunning girl. Like, completely my taste in women.Anyway, night went on and she got cold so went and got a duvet, i commented on what an awesome idea that was and i was promptly invited under.Everyone was still in room including my best mate who i'd gone out with who was ready to leave. By this time the girl was laying on me and holding my hand that was free as my other was supporting her head on my chest.We talked for a long time and later on we was left together as others went to sleep, we was up talking for another hour atleast, laughing at each others jokes, conversation flowing freely with no pauses. We finally got to sleep about 4-5am. During this time we was doing basically what couples do, holding hands, arm stroking, my hand on her chest, blah blah, you get the picture.So morning came and she couldn't stop smiling at me, we was both quite tired so we again slept some more, her in my arms again. We was both of course sober by this time so i actually thought more of it then a drunken experience. More usual couple stuff ensued and again, every time i looked at her she was smiling at me, we was play fighting as well a little, her doing the cute "i'll hide under the covers" jobby.Anyway, time came to walk home and we said our goodbyes, i asked to meet up and she was happy to.In her drunken state she gave me a completely f**ked number but word filtered through to her that i quite liked her and she text me.Her first text was basically to tell me straight that she'd learnt that my best mate liked her and that she'd like my best mate for a long time...Story of my life.I'm not sure what i feel? Obsolete, replaced, used? Seriously though, any girls that are still left on the forum, why?They are meeting up Sunday and no doubt him being in the same situation as me, single and actively looking for a relationship, and her having such an amazing personality and so good looking will hit it off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamAllen Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 No reason for post, i just need to vent as its majorly depressing me. Saturday night was going shit so me and a few mates left to go to some house party, we got there quite late so it was pretty much dieing down. Met the few people that were left, including this one stunning girl. Like, completely my taste in women.Anyway, night went on and she got cold so went and got a duvet, i commented on what an awesome idea that was and i was promptly invited under.Everyone was still in room including my best mate who i'd gone out with who was ready to leave. By this time the girl was laying on me and holding my hand that was free as my other was supporting her head on my chest.We talked for a long time and later on we was left together as others went to sleep, we was up talking for another hour atleast, laughing at each others jokes, conversation flowing freely with no pauses. We finally got to sleep about 4-5am. During this time we was doing basically what couples do, holding hands, arm stroking, my hand on her chest, blah blah, you get the picture.So morning came and she couldn't stop smiling at me, we was both quite tired so we again slept some more, her in my arms again. We was both of course sober by this time so i actually thought more of it then a drunken experience. More usual couple stuff ensued and again, every time i looked at her she was smiling at me, we was play fighting as well a little, her doing the cute "i'll hide under the covers" jobby.Anyway, time came to walk home and we said our goodbyes, i asked to meet up and she was happy to.In her drunken state she gave me a completely f**ked number but word filtered through to her that i quite liked her and she text me.Her first text was basically to tell me straight that she'd learnt that my best mate liked her and that she'd like my best mate for a long time...Story of my life.I'm not sure what i feel? Obsolete, replaced, used? Seriously though, any girls that are still left on the forum, why?They are meeting up Sunday and no doubt him being in the same situation as me, single and actively looking for a relationship, and her having such an amazing personality and so good looking will hit it off.Why do they do it!? f**k i been in that situation before and i tend to feel "empty" as such god i hate women sometimes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 Dammit Simon.You've had a proper unlucky streak. It's not that you're fugly either, and you seem like a pretty sound guy. Proper unlucky. I'm only young and can't really give valid advice, but, there are plenty of girls out there, better looking and all the shizzle, so don't give up. You never know when you might meet someone again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 I feel your pain Simon, just hope to f**k it doesn't work out between him and her, and if it does, wait until it f**ks up?But yeah, sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 I genuinely hope it works out for him. Me and him are in the same situations, not to blow my own trumpet but i really do believe me and my best mate are sound people, we've never cheated, never f**ked people around, given ex's space, comfort them, buy them stuff, take them out and we've both had it thrown in our faces. He came out of a intense 2 year relationship a while back and has basically had the same experience as me, therefore i do genuinely hope it goes somewhere for them.Don't get me wrong, the whole them not working is also a factor which i'd like to see, (a whole lot less then it working though!), but what would it achieve? Nothing, put me and him back in the same position as we have been for past 3 or 4 years, expect with more bad experiences to cloud our judgment and keep us thinking "why bother".I want it to work for them, even it puts me back into manic depression for another few weeks, i'm used to it and i'll get over it soon enough, i have in the past and my string of endless bad experiences has in a way helped this blow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 Share? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boon racoon Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 Share?I was gonna say the opposite and both leave her alone haha.If you're both tight mates and you both really like her, it aint worth falling out over a girl. Did he/you know her before the party? Or is it a case of you made the effort at the party, and she just decided to fancy him instead? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 Lol we wont fall out over it. Nah, party was first time i met her, she met him a while back while out riding, don't think it went further then that first meet as she was in a relationship then, must of been more of a "i like that guy" and she remembered him, and now shes met him again, well, you know the rest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boon racoon Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 Nah, party was first time i met her, she met him a while back while out riding, don't think it went further then that first meet as she was in a relationship then, must of been more of a "i like that guy" and she remembered him, and now shes met him again, well, you know the rest.That's very odd. Girls are f**king wierd man! Why'd she do that to you if she was only trying to get to your mate?! If he was leaving, what she should have done was told you straight up she liked him - I bet he wouldn't have left then! And you could have found someone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCircus Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 im somewhat pissed, so don't recall coming here consciously, but WHAT THE f**k IS MY EX GIRLFRIEND DOING AT MY f**kING FLAT??????SHE f**kING LIVES IN MANCHESTER I LIVE IN f**kING DUNDEE>!?!?!??!!and why the f**k was i not asked ab0ut her f**king coming??she was asked by my housemate if it was ok for us to f**king live together and it has absoutley nothing to do with the ex. rargh.i feel like walking into the front room whipping my cock out and slapping every girl there.(edit: ith my cock)Sense this does not make young Jakers.Perhaps you need more question marks? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walleee Posted October 25, 2007 Report Share Posted October 25, 2007 (edited) Edited June 11 by Walleee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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