Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 (edited) You need to become something she doesn't want to loose.Yeah, by treating her like a princess n stuff, which is what i'm trying to do.I like the Simon Cowel quote too. Edited October 9, 2007 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Yeah, by treating her like a princess n stuff, which is what i'm trying to do.Yes but not overpoweringly mate. I can't explain what I'm trying to say properly and its anoying me because i know what i mean looool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trials rules Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Her friend has clearly hit the nail on the head in my opinion.Saying you like her won't make her like you.Instead of being nice all the time, give her space, give her time to miss you, take the piss out of her and have a laugh.It sounds like COMPLETELY the wrong thing to do, but it works.Just find some munter on a chat room to try busting on and you'll soon see they'll love you for it!Yeah, by treating her like a princess n stuff, which is what i'm trying to do.No! Noooo! NO! NO! NO!Don't do it!Sounds daft but its the WORST thing to do!Get over the weird feeling of having to leave her alone and letting her miss you and you'll most likely see it getting better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Wouldn't she see somethings up?'you're so beautiful'Next day:'you f**king ugly fanny, f**k off'Might be a bit too hard to go back now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Beth BAAABEES (um) eeeeeeee STARTING TO DRIVE. says (18:31):its getting tiring her u keep smothering her.- FAT PANTS™ NEW NUMBER says (18:32)::/Beth BAAABEES (um) eeeeeeee STARTING TO DRIVE. says (18:32):and thats not just me saying itits her tooOh man! I'm glad someone said it and i've never even seen you two together! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 (edited) But like, if i don't show interest and just be normal around her, she's just gonna see me as a mate, nothing more, ever.f**king hell, i can't win., feel so shit. Edited October 9, 2007 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trials rules Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Wouldn't she see somethings up?'you're so beautiful'Next day:'you f**king ugly fanny, f**k off'Might be a bit too hard to go back now.Not that kind of harsh, just play with her.Push the boundaries but dont be plain rude, unless its funny.hard to describe...You need to take the mick a bit, but make it funny.Somebody else must know what i mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Yes, but theres a point where it gets scary and by the looks of it you've already crossed that.Give her space, still speak to her but try to keep the compliments to a minimum, if any, but don't be horrible to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 *tells me she's done something stupid*haha you f**king mug/haha you silly billy, either way it's shit.As i said, i really can't win now.f**k this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downhill_rob2@hotmail.com Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Right, not really a problem, just need some advise...Right, theres this absolute gorgeous lass that works in the pub i go to, i get along with her REALLY well, and i really like her.Gave her a lift home last night, turns out we have alot more in common than i thought!then the question i was hopeing wouldnt pop up... did... "so, how old are you then?" **thinks to himself** "dammit, she works in my fave pub + i dont wanna f**k this up". so i said, "im 18" lol. when really, im 17, and not 18 till july next year (gawd dammit )Advise guys? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 You've gota go with it now. Keep it a secret, or make yourself look like a massive gimp. Know what I'd rather do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Dig Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Fat pants,when i was younger and less of a stud i was in the same position with a girl.I took the advice of her mate and backed off and ended up getting into her quite a few times and we probably could have gone out. I found when i was all over her she ended up seeing me as a mate and didnt see me as a bf candidate. So when i backed off and started to tell her bout other girls i liked, like when having matey convos, she got almost jelous and was like ohh shes no good for u etc. So it works dude. Back off and play it cool man. No one likes to be smothered. Think how youd feel in her shoes, some mate keeps poping up everywhere making it akward to be you. Then when you get the chance nail her proper style. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 mother f**kers, i'm still pissed off/upset but what beth said was her own view, not hayleys, we've just spoken in length about how beths putting words into hayleys mouth, and, hayley doesn't feel like i'm smothering her, and she'd tell me if i was.so i'm not smothering her, forget about that bit please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 I'm always telling the missus she's stupid, maybe that's the key (I mean she still wants to be with me)But say it on a joking way obviously. I think the saying ''women love a b*****d'' holds more truth than people realise, so long as you dont push it too far. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamHolmes Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 mother f**kers, i'm still pissed off/upset but what beth said was her own view, not hayleys, we've just spoken in length about how beths putting words into hayleys mouth, and, hayley doesn't feel like i'm smothering her, and she'd tell me if i was.so i'm not smothering her, forget about that bit please.Well if she's good mates with you she's gonna say that your not smothering herAs everyone elese has said, move on.It's not as though you havn't tried, she know's how you feel so just leave it at thatIf something is going to happen then it will, you can't force her to like youI dont know you/her though so I could be wrong.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 I dont know you/her though so I could be wrong..Are.I'm gonna be arrogant here, but i can trust her;'Glen seriously im a bit pisd with al this smothering shit. Sum of the thngs beth has said are nt true and they have never cme out of my mouth. I knw u wantd to help on fri but i culdnt get a min with beth and beth being protectiv ova me other people have said that too!, she told u to fuk of''jus cary on as normal. U mean alot to me and whilst my mind is al over the place i nd someone to be there. Dnt wori bout anyone else. Trust if i fort u were smothering me i wulda told u'Me: 'oh shit, you probably didnt understand my sceen name because u cant see my personal message? 'I'm holding your lottery ticket that you have won 1 million pounds on' You come over and ask for it back and i say 'no'. You don't just say 'ok thanks anyway!' thats how i feel about people telling me to move on'Her: 'So ur saying giving up on me is like saying no to a mil pounds?'Me: 'pretty much, but its also like, its giving up something that would be f**king amazing to have'Her: 'awh bless u. i do love u glen 'Me: 'i dont just say ok, no worries, then completely forget about u just because someone said i couldnt have you' 'when someone says no to something that awesome, it'd be f**king silly to say ok thanks anyway'then it's like, we're cool then? best friends , my reply: yeah, everythings cool, doesnt mean i don't want to be more than best friends though.Yeah, erm, i'm gonna trust her.I dunno if you people have gathered, but the reason for all this confusion is that she's pretty much buggered, she said today that she just felt like not being f**ked with things, because everything is going shit for her atm, n stuff.Bah, kinda forgot what i was gonna say, and this post is a bit shit, but meh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Sheehan! Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 *tells me she's done something stupid*haha you f**king mug/haha you silly billy, either way it's shit.As i said, i really can't win now.f**k this.those are the two extremes, what about "ahhh you wally!"seeeeeeeeeeeeee!mother f**kers, i'm still pissed off/upset but what beth said was her own view, not hayleys, we've just spoken in length about how beths putting words into hayleys mouth, and, hayley doesn't feel like i'm smothering her, and she'd tell me if i was.so i'm not smothering her, forget about that bit please.No offence, but would you tell a girl if she was smothering you?Personally i think you should tell me the whole lot over msn and go from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Fat Pants: Don't go acting differently around her. If you're not the kinda person that jokes about and mocks people (in the friendly way) then don't do it. If I was you, i'd ignore everyone saying 'do this, do that' just be yourself with her. If she doesn't like you or whatever in the end when you're being yourself, then you should find someone else for a relationship, but keep her as a close friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Nick Riviera Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 joining the fat pants advice bandwagon, ever thought the other bint is jealous and wants you for herself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Oi Glen i hope i get a thanking for giving you the best speech you have ever given her with the lottery ticket example joining the fat pants advice bandwagon, ever thought the other bint is jealous and wants you for herself?Thats what said in my 1st post on the page before this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 You do get a big thank you -Thank youIt really was a very accurate reprsentation, however, it's a bit obselete considering i've been told i wasn't smothering her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
froggy Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 (edited) I worry too much I don't know why, I always think I will f**k something up in my relationship. She is the best I've ever had by far and in a way it just seems to good to be true. Of course when I tell her this she says I'm being silly and that I'm perfect etc. When I'm not with her though sometimes I just feel shitty and worry :\ i don't know it's quite shit, I can't explain itFat Pants, have you ever had someone in primary/high school fancy you, and you basically told them to f**k right off? Or had someone whistle at you when you walk down the street? Or have someone comment on how nice you look? Or maybe someone said you looked really cute or something in a picture?I know I have and it made me feel good, gave me a small confident boost. You're giving this bird exactly that and by the sounds of it she's loving it. Especially because you're always there.Take these guys advice BACK OFF!! give her space next time your at a party stick with your MATES not this bird, she will miss your appreciation and even if she doesn't fancy you I'm pretty sure she will still be dying for you to pay attention to her. Obviously don't ignore her, jsut back off until it's too late..this was a shit post i'm a bit drunk hope it made sence Edited October 9, 2007 by froggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Fatty, i'll be giving you a grilling on msn! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonMack Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Take these guys advice BACK OFF!! give her space next time your at a party stick with your MATES not this bird, she will miss your appreciation and even if she doesn't fancy you I'm pretty sure she will still be dying for you to pay attention to her. Obviously don't ignore her, jsut back off until it's too late..f**king right. There was this girl that I liked for ages and I used to give her loads of attention, and she wouldnt give me any, then as soon as I was like f**k this I cant be f**ked she was all over me and stuff. Girls are head f**ks man it's programmed into them. It's just the way they gotta be really! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Fatty, i'll be giving you a grilling on msn!Do it, please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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