RR_Trials Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Good advice however i just feel like i don't know her enough to call her, we have only met a handful of times however i will thanks dudeJust go for it mate, when is the best time? Is there a best time? Get her now while your still on her mind (if she likes you) and good luck, i know your goner get the dreaded butterflies as the phones ringing.Still don't know where to go tomorrow evening, mate suggested ice skating but it's in an extremely dodgy area, when all the killings went on a few months ago it's where a teenager was shot. (in the actual ice rink)Nah, not a good idea.Man, when this girl of mine eventually texts back, if ever, and asks to meet up, i might just not reply for a week, say i'm busy for another week then just say "sorry, lost interest 3 weeks ago".If i didn't want to give this a go so much i'd be f**king tempted... Mate as harsh as it seems i think she isn't interested, although i could be wrong and she could literally be doing what your describing there, think about it, you just said that you would do that to her to play 'hard to get' (or get her back for playing hard to get). So perhaps this is exactly what she is doing. Either way its taking the piss so text her saying, were do i stand do you want to meet tomorrow at 11 for a coffee.I dont belive this... cinemas are great for 1st dates! cos you dont HAVE to talk! you can sit at the back hold hands blah blah blah, then take her for a meal afterwards. means you can ask her to the cinema... and then mosy on down to the nicest resturant without having to ask her out for a meal which is a bit personal. You can over analyse the film together more holding hands... get you willy wet for your lucky but is pretty $$$ depends what you work as really!!! hahahaYes exactly what i had said, if you are going to go somewhere after you can use the film as an aid for talking. I basically meant because most 15 year old guys (talking from my point of view) don't have a great deal of money so usually it wouldn't be cinema then for a meal usually one or the other, and so i basically meant if your just going to the cinema, DON'T that is if you want to get to know her and talk allot ofcorse.Cinema it is, superbad it is.She's back with him now, it wasn't off apparently, meh, i'll have to wait.What a f**k around, really feel sorry for you mate, hang in there.You better not pay for her.+1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 (edited) Simon, I'm not trying to get with her. Yet.And, it's half over with her and him anyway.Also, Rothwell is right, safe. Edited September 27, 2007 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yes, you heard she broke up, but i'm talking before, you clearly tried to get with her, whether you believe it or not.And no doubt even after learning they are still together you'll still try to flirt with her and shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yes, you heard she broke up, but i'm talking before, you clearly tried to get with her, whether you believe it or not.And no doubt even after learning they are still together you'll still try to flirt with her and shit.Stop being a willy and let him do what he wants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 (edited) Stop being a willy and let him do what he wants.Actually hes not being a willy, i think from what he knows it looks as if Fatty is being a wanker, but im pretty sure i read about her wanting to meet him and stuff when he thought she wasn't with her EX.I'm gonna stay out of this because i don't know the facts, but Simon is far from a willy. Edited September 27, 2007 by RR_Trials Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Stop being a willy and let him do what he wants.Excuse me?Is this not the girl trouble thread?Don't call me a willy for expressing my opinion on the situation.What he's doing/wants to do/has done, is wrong, end of. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Excuse me?Is this not the girl trouble thread?Don't call me a willy for expressing my opinion on the situation.What he's doing/wants to do/has done, is wrong, end of.It's not wrong at all. It's human instinct. He fancies her and is trying to get with her?Yeah, gutted for the other lad but life goes on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 It's not wrong at all. It's human instinct. He fancies her and is trying to get with her?Yeah, gutted for the other lad but life goes on.I'm sorry but I'm going to have to intervene on that one, imagine if it was your gf and she got with someone else and then someone said to you 'gutted life goes on'.I think there is more to the story in-fact im sure but Simon is right if what he thinks is correct. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 It's not wrong at all. It's human instinct. He fancies her and is trying to get with her?Yeah, gutted for the other lad but life goes on.Sorry, i forgot you have no morals or respect for women, i'll remember that next time i post something regarding issues which i thought we're clearly quite obvious to males. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 (edited) Na, Simon has a point, however, their relationship isn't going great, they've seen each other 5 times in how ever many months they've been going out, he lives on the complete opposite side of london, it's not going well and he's being moody/a willy all the time, she's also not too happy with it, and said 'maybe it's over, who knows, who cares' basically... Edited September 27, 2007 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Sorry, i forgot you have no morals or respect for women, i'll remember that next time i post something regarding issues which i thought we're clearly quite obvious to males.I do have a lot of respect for woman actually mate. It's natural to try and get with someone you fancy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 (edited) I do have a lot of respect for woman actually mate. It's natural to try and get with someone you love to piecesIt's true, but i'm NOT going to try and get with her until she's not taken, that would be pointless as she wouldn't have it, she's no slag, she's a lovely girl and unfair on him. Edited September 27, 2007 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 If he's being a fanny with her then he doesn't deserve her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 I do have a lot of respect for woman actually mate. It's natural to try and get with someone you fancy?I'm not denying that, but when they are in a relationship its not. It's not up to the outsider to decide if their relationship is bad or not, or if the outsider is the replacement.Meh, what ever. He can do what he likes, as you say, s'just the way things are, but i just think its wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 (edited) Possibly. But i dunno, she said he's been moody as i said, but that could be because he never sees her? etc etc...To reiterate, I'm NOT going to try it until she's free, i don't want her to be f**ked over decisions or what ever.btw, i know this doesn't rule out feelings but she met him in france on the off chance, i've known her for 1.3 odd years by now... So it'd probably just be a we get on well kinda relationship, hard to explain, but it could be a for the sake of it relationship, not a oh my god i'm in love with you one. Edited September 27, 2007 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yes exactly what i had said, if you are going to go somewhere after you can use the film as an aid for talking. I basically meant because most 15 year old guys (talking from my point of view) don't have a great deal of money so usually it wouldn't be cinema then for a meal usually one or the other, and so i basically meant if your just going to the cinema, DON'T that is if you want to get to know her and talk allot ofcorse.Yea but I've got a good part time job and when it comes to giving my money away money aint a thing. Ill spend it all on my mates as long as they dont take the piss..... Dates with good mates are great! I still pay when i go out with Gemm who works full time... its just a nice thing to do like! I think im just genuinly a nice bloke when it comes to looking after girls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yea but I've got a good part time job and when it comes to giving my money away money aint a thing. Ill spend it all on my mates as long as they dont take the piss..... Dates with good mates are great! I still pay when i go out with Gemm who works full time... its just a nice thing to do like! I think im just genuinly a nice bloke when it comes to looking after girls Well you could take me on a date :$ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Nick Riviera Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Well you could take me on a datedo you just come on here to cruise? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Well you could take me on a date :$I dont look after men when i take them on dates though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 do you just come on here to cruise?Was just making a funny reply after my string of serious ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mat Tea Why Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 That's a point ogre...Is rape only if you slip it into her front/back bum, or are you not allowed to shove it in her mouth anymore?Not unless you want teeth marks in your penis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun H Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 Really miss my girlfriend. Been at Uni almost a week now and it's difficult but bearable. She's coming up next weekend so I'm just looking forward to that.I worry a bit when she goes out but it's more "I hope she's ok" than "I hope she isn't tossing a guy off in an alley".She is a bit vulnerable when she's wasted Her mates should look after her though.On a side note I quite fancied this lass in the flat (obviously wasn't gunna do anything as I'm a bit in love with the missus) and after a couple of days she ended up sleeping with this guy one night style and it's amazing how your view changes on someone once you know they're a slag. hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 Really miss my girlfriend. Been at Uni almost a week now and it's difficult but bearable. She's coming up next weekend so I'm just looking forward to that.I worry a bit when she goes out but it's more "I hope she's ok" than "I hope she isn't tossing a guy off in an alley".She is a bit vulnerable when she's wasted Her mates should look after her though.On a side note I quite fancied this lass in the flat (obviously wasn't gunna do anything as I'm a bit in love with the missus) and after a couple of days she ended up sleeping with this guy one night style and it's amazing how your view changes on someone once you know they're a slag. hahahawell said, girl i spoke to recently suddenly came out with some stuff she does with guys, i dont think ive spoke to her since:S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 Bugger, her friend sat inbetween me and her, and she was all over her friends shoulder cos of the bits in superbad (eww kinda bits), SHOULD HAVE BEEN MY SHOULDER lol.Bit bum, but meh i guess.Another time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted September 28, 2007 Report Share Posted September 28, 2007 Bugger, her friend sat inbetween me and her, and she was all over her friends shoulder cos of the bits in superbad (eww kinda bits), SHOULD HAVE BEEN MY SHOULDER lol.Bit bum, but meh i guess.Another time I swear you have some sort of obsessive dissorder. Haha. Better luck next time thou ehy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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