Simon Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 I'm grasping it, thats the point, i just don't see any return, i tried, i try to get her to talk, to text back, to arrange this, but nothing. I sent that text 2 days after asking her out for lunch, two days.If you like someone you don't forget to reply like that.Maybe she'll prove me wrong, but i highly, highly doubt it, and as i said, just be good practise, if she ever does get the effort together to sort something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 Good lad.Not sure what to give for advice on the awkward silences/lack of conversation, but i guess you can just try pull anything out of the bag, might have just been a bad date anyway? Some days i speak to Hayley for hours on end, some days it's nothing more than 5 mins (unfortunately). Don't be a complete twit though, don't say 'so erm, watch brainiac yesterday? They did an awesome experiment with fillosium hydroxide, was awesome' just try to be cool i guess.You're an alright looking guy though, i don't see why you don't try more often? You look a bit computer specialist but meh, stand up straight, also go down the gym and get tonk arms and wear a tight fit shirt to show off? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 Grasp that opportunity you donut!Go for it, you've got nothing to lose, it's better to have tried and failed than to not have tried at all.theres also the whole point of gettin the message when she dont like you, but doesnt want to tell you to eff off. just move on simon, i dont see why you get hard luck, im pretty ugly, slightly overweight, speak with a proper country yokel accent, and when it comes to the other sex, i dont normally speak to them in a polite way, unless there mates girlfriends or something, in which case im pretty polite, with girls im seeing etc, ill often crack plenty of witty remarks at their expense(with aimeee when the bouncers said they wernt sure wether they wer gunna let us in(i was borderline too drunk) i was just like "come on, you cant tell me shes too ugly to go clubbin" with another randomer when we wer searched goin into a club, bouncer went through my wallet, and pulled a condom out(was lookin for coke/pills/weed etc, random drugs search on entry) he went "you might as well take this " and passed it to the girl i walked in with hanging off my arm, i just replied "it wasnt for her, ive got standards", or the remark to end all remarks, lying in bed with a 26 year old talkin about life "this years going to be the start of something big for me" , i replied with "what, the menopause"im also generally drunken. but yet somehow get pretty good luck with pulling girls/short term relationships(sure many could turn into something more serious, if i was remotely interested in a lifelong companion at 19). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 Simon - Your to nice.Everyone else - Why is it always the girls hurting the lads, i remember my mum talking about the good old days when men used to cheat on their wives and men were twats to woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 theres also the whole point of gettin the message when she dont like you, but doesnt want to tell you to eff off.My thoughts precisely, just text her trying to pry some conversation out of her, no doubt i'll get nothing back but there you go.Simon - Your to nice.Don't worry, i get told that almost every time something like this happens, and then i get the old "nice guys finish last" speech. I like to think one day it wont be the case, but up until now its sadly, been completely correct.Maybe i just need to start being a 'unt to women. Even if i wanted to though i couldn't, just not in my nature at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Nick Riviera Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 Maybe i just need to start being a 'unt to women. Even if i wanted to though i couldn't, just not in my nature at all. as big a cliche as it is, you're not going to win any competitions with that one, just be confident in yourself. if not, Royhpnol is always a good one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted September 25, 2007 Report Share Posted September 25, 2007 (edited) Everyone else - Why is it always the girls hurting the lads, i remember my mum talking about the good old days when men used to cheat on their wives and men were twats to woman.still in full effect here ... but seriously. the real reason why is as followswomen have their own money now so they aren't forced to put up with our shit in order to eat.And..Simon - it's was only a couple of days, maybe she didn't want to seem over keen and scare you off Edited September 25, 2007 by poopipe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 still in full effect here ... but seriously. the real reason why is as followswomen have their own money now so they aren't forced to put up with our shit in order to eat.And..Simon - it's was only a couple of days, maybe she didn't want to seem over keen and scare you offPoopipe here to make everyone in the girl trouble thread feel happy.I love you :$ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 I love you :$eeew! f**k off you queer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Haha you love it.Well I'm happy because for once when i have got back from school, apart from being rejected by poopipe , no-one has any problems . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balman Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 (edited) All good with me shes comming out with us on fridays now, and when shes wants to go shes said im ok to go with her so thats one thing i spose i would rather put up with scum than not knowing what happening to her with me not being with her so my problem is solved.cheers all Edited September 26, 2007 by jackbalman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Nick Riviera Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 bish gone done moved away and a homeboy needs his cuddles. any takers? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 ill often crack plenty of witty remarks at their expense(with aimeee when the bouncers said they wernt sure wether they wer gunna let us in(i was borderline too drunk) i was just like "come on, you cant tell me shes too ugly to go clubbin" with another randomer when we wer searched goin into a club, bouncer went through my wallet, and pulled a condom out(was lookin for coke/pills/weed etc, random drugs search on entry) he went "you might as well take this " and passed it to the girl i walked in with hanging off my arm, i just replied "it wasnt for her, ive got standards", or the remark to end all remarks, lying in bed with a 26 year old talkin about life "this years going to be the start of something big for me" , i replied with "what, the menopause"Hahahah! That's some of the funniest shit i've seen on here in a long time lol.No real girl troubles atm, just when to find the good moment to get with her again and ask her out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Hahahah! That's some of the funniest shit i've seen on here in a long time lol.No real girl troubles atm, just when to find the good moment to get with her again and ask her out. Same with me, my ex doesn't want a boyfriend atm but doesn't want a different boy and doesn't want me to have a different girl, so im guessing deep down she dose want me she just need to see why..I want to ask her back out on my birthday but i have hinted so it realy would make my birthday so special if she asked me out.Peace, and good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Ahh long. Nah mine isn't an ex. Just a bird i've been texting and got with for a while on Sat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Right, friday evening i'm going somewhere/thing with hayley and a friend of hers (probably to stop me from raping her), where to go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 (edited) Gutted for her.Edit: and her mate. Edited September 26, 2007 by Joe Rothwell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 lol.But seriously..? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 No. I am being serious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManxTrialSpaz Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Right, friday evening i'm going somewhere/thing with hayley and a friend of hers (probably to stop me from raping her), where to go?Cinema? Scariest/goriest film you can find so you can all touchy with her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoo Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Lmao Rothwell.Take them to a mosh pit or something? That's the sort of shite teenage girls are into nowadays. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Cinema? Scariest/goriest film you can find so you can all touchy with herCinema is a possibility, maybe superbad?But that's a bit too cliche, need something better than that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Tell her to ditch her mate, invite her back to yours and show her your spud gun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trials rules Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 (edited) Right, friday evening i'm going somewhere/thing with hayley and a friend of hers (probably to stop me from raping her), where to go?Noo! Not cinema!Do something different that will make you stick out from the other lads/lasses (lol) that take her out.Be inventive and not boring.All good me giving this advice..maybe i should think of something to do then!... Edit: My thinking cap is half on, infact its on backwards cos im cool.Think of something that you need to do and take her along. Something that has oppotunity for a laugh and something to talk about maybe so she doesnt feel like she's just tagging along and gets bored.That way you give the impression you dont 'need' her, you're kind of using her in a nice way and.... well that makes it sound bad but try and let me know how you get on Edited September 26, 2007 by trials rules Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lawnmowerman Posted September 26, 2007 Report Share Posted September 26, 2007 Take her go karting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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