Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[RR_Trials]

just broke up with my missus.

she was in ibiza for two weeks and was 100 % faithful, came home and things were diff, she said im to clingy and ive ttl changed (confused because i dnt understand how)

we drove up to hers over 100 miles away to sort things out but the next day she said it was over because it just wasnt fun anymore.

i was ttl upset as im having bad anxiety attacks and not been able to eat for 4 days. had to drive home pretty upset.

quite gutted about it all but what can u do

Ahh mate, that is total wank, i feel for you because it seems to be happening to everyone lately i guess thats why myself and ELLIE split up, and i guess what makes it worse is that i've always been clingy but she was too, i don't know how someone can just give up on someone they've been with and loved. I guess its like that for you too right?

after cheating with another girl its my own fault and i understand why she wont answer my calls

i done a verry bad thing .its not saveable .

if it was i wouldent have posted .

one in a million she was..

this is actually one of the hardest things ive had to type as thear is so much emotion running through thees words.

good job i have verry supportive mates .

i just miss her and wish i had never cheated booze was the problem if i hadent have been so ratted it would have never happend

dave

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If your turly sorry you can get her back, trust me there will be a way you need to prove you love her. Basically if you don't try 1 your a scum for cheating there is no excuse for it and 2 your a wanker for not getting or trying to get her back.

So do it mate, get her back, show her your really sorry.

[hI-OOPS-CAPS]

your 19,shes in school, id suggest standin at the bottom of your garden asking if she wants to come look at your new puppy dogs, or ask her if she wants any sweets.

although if shes in keeping with the youth of today, youd be better of goin "oi bint, me has got some drum,blue skins and a bit of soap bar, you wanna come blaze wid me"

otherwise just grow some bollocks, and walk up to her one day and chat crap, "so your the new neighbours from hell then", "you must be my new next door neighbour, im the local paedophile" "you must be the new next door neighbours, hi im (insert name here). if you need anything, dont hesitate to give us a shout".

or "im so glad you moved in, now the other families left, the restraining order has moved with them, once more im allowed out on my street"

just to break the ice like. nah seriously, just chat crap, youll soon get a vibe for the conversation

your answer should have said "no, i dont have an idea what to say"

[RR_Trials]

Oh and i forgot to ask.. Hows it going with Hayley fatty? You met up with her sines you couldn't make it last time?

Good luck mate!

[Fixed Pants™]

Oh and i forgot to ask.. Hows it going with Hayley fatty? You met up with her sines you couldn't make it last time?

Good luck mate!

Not yet, think it's getting to the stage of we're gonna meet when ever for what ever... She's still taken though, so i can't do anything.

[Simon]

Text her last night to see if she wanted to go out for lunch or something, no reply.

Got the hint i think.

[JohnyMilton]

Hey dudes, got a a big problem with a girl, I just finished with my missus that I have been going out with for a couple of months, the reason I did this was I still have a thing/feelings for my ex, and i thought it would be bad to drag her along when I have feelings for the Ex. Me and the Ex went out for about 2 years, and that end about 5months ago when I walked in on her, sh*gging some other guy.

But I really want to get back with her and I really forgiver, but theres one problem shes going out with this other guy.

What do I do?

What do I tell her?

I mean I really want her back, its werid!

What do you guys think?

[Fixed Pants™]

Not yet, think it's getting to the stage of we're gonna meet when ever for what ever... She's still taken though, so i can't do anything.

Thinks just changed as some people might have seen in the missus thread, she's now broken up with him, and she's hopefully staying round Saturday night if i can arrange it (along with 3 other people me thinks) basically, party, drink, pass out, wake up next morning, and I'll probably let my feelings out [again] when I'm drunk and we'll get married and live happily ever after.

Really quite close atm too

[ManxTrialSpaz]

What do I do?

What do I tell her?

I mean I really want her back, its werid!

What do you guys think?

You are the one that went out with her for two years...But I'd suggest telling her, then if you can get it together you will, and if you can't you'll know, so the 'feelings' should stop shortly afterwards...

[JohnyMilton]

You are the one that went out with her for two years...But I'd suggest telling her, then if you can get it together you will, and if you can't you'll know, so the 'feelings' should stop shortly afterwards...

O man, I hope so, but I have to get past her boyfriend, who hates me! lol

cheers!

[Fish-Finger-er]

Hey dudes, got a a big problem with a girl, I just finished with my missus that I have been going out with for a couple of months, the reason I did this was I still have a thing/feelings for my ex, and i thought it would be bad to drag her along when I have feelings for the Ex. Me and the Ex went out for about 2 years, and that end about 5months ago when I walked in on her, sh*gging some other guy.

But I really want to get back with her and I really forgiver, but theres one problem shes going out with this other guy.

What do I do?

What do I tell her?

I mean I really want her back, its werid!

What do you guys think?

if shes going out with somebody else, id probably hold back a bit, unless your fairly sure shed want you more, as dont want to be putting the pressure there and possibly ruining her relationship with this guy, unless your 100% you want it. in whice case, unless this guys your mate or something, go for it, but then you got this deep thought of "well she kinda loved this guy she was with supposedly, and finished with him for me, whats to say she wont do the same with me"

(yes i realise it seems a bit shallow and aresholish to go get this girl,cos you want her, and take her of this guy, and likewise she seems a bit of a slapper for just flipping relationships from him to you, but men and women, generally are shallow, with the basic instinct of survival, reproduction and looking after number effin 1. sure your screwing this guy over, but your ex and some guy screwed you over, 2 wrongs dont make a right, but you dont get anywhere being mr conservative not saying what you think to keep others happy.)

just tell her the truth, no point in lying about it, or making it out any different to how it is.

[JohnyMilton]

if shes going out with somebody else, id probably hold back a bit, unless your fairly sure shed want you more, as dont want to be putting the pressure there and possibly ruining her relationship with this guy, unless your 100% you want it. in whice case, unless this guys your mate or something, go for it, but then you got this deep thought of "well she kinda loved this guy she was with supposedly, and finished with him for me, whats to say she wont do the same with me"

(yes i realise it seems a bit shallow and aresholish to go get this girl,cos you want her, and take her of this guy, and likewise she seems a bit of a slapper for just flipping relationships from him to you, but men and women, generally are shallow, with the basic instinct of survival, reproduction and looking after number effin 1. sure your screwing this guy over, but your ex and some guy screwed you over, 2 wrongs dont make a right, but you dont get anywhere being mr conservative not saying what you think to keep others happy.)

just tell her the truth, no point in lying about it, or making it out any different to how it is.

I must say thats made me think, but the other guy is deff not my mate, as I just said to another guy, he hates me! lol

but thats helped me a lot more than what my best mate has said!

Think I might just give her a call, cause she has told me that she still has 'feelings' for me aswel, so Im sure I can get rid of this other guy, lol!

Cheers!

Edited September 24, 2007 by JohnyTrials

[RR_Trials]

Thinks just changed as some people might have seen in the missus thread, she's now broken up with him, and she's hopefully staying round Saturday night if i can arrange it (along with 3 other people me thinks) basically, party, drink, pass out, wake up next morning, and I'll probably let my feelings out [again] when I'm drunk and we'll get married and live happily ever after.

Really quite close atm too

Lucky sod, I'm really happy for you!

[Lawnmowerman]

Hey dudes, got a a big problem with a girl, I just finished with my missus that I have been going out with for a couple of months, the reason I did this was I still have a thing/feelings for my ex, and i thought it would be bad to drag her along when I have feelings for the Ex. Me and the Ex went out for about 2 years, and that end about 5months ago when I walked in on her, sh*gging some other guy.

But I really want to get back with her and I really forgiver, but theres one problem shes going out with this other guy.

What do I do?

What do I tell her?

I mean I really want her back, its werid!

What do you guys think?

How have you not put the c**t in hospital yet? If anyone ever tried anything on my missus I'd literally kill the f**ker!

Edited September 24, 2007 by Lawnmowerman

[Dan6061]

I'd literally kill the f**ker!

pun intended?

[Lawnmowerman]

Haha possibly. Seriously though I don't know how anyone could catch someone shagging their missus and not go on a psycho murdering spree. I'd kill the wankers family and friends and anyone he ever knew. All with a rusty spork.

[RR_Trials]

Haha possibly. Seriously though I don't know how anyone could catch someone shagging their missus and not go on a psycho murdering spree. I'd kill the wankers family and friends and anyone he ever knew. All with a rusty spork.

I'd break down. I couldn't handle seeing my GF/EX being f**ked by someone else i really think i would commit suicide and that isn't just saying that, i think i would, in-fact i know i would.

Well done with how you handled it mate, that musta taken something.

[Reece B]

Haha possibly. Seriously though I don't know how anyone could catch someone shagging their missus and not go on a psycho murdering spree. I'd kill the wankers family and friends and anyone he ever knew. All with a rusty spork.

we know not to mess with you

but yeah id do the same...but id rather punch him to death haha

[Dr. Nick Riviera]

i fail to see how you can say 'if i caught my bird shagging another bloke i'd hospitalize him'

chances are he's done nothing wrong, it's your girlfriend who's a whore...

[Barbra]

i fail to see how you can say 'if i caught my bird shagging another bloke i'd hospitalize him'

chances are he's done nothing wrong, it's your girlfriend who's a whore...

wow another person thats taken the words out of my mouth.

Yeah, so in other words, kick the f**k through your missus/ex instead

[Simon]

I can't believe you caught your girlfriend boning another bloke and you want her back.

That's mad, i would of thrown her out on the street naked and push her clothes out the letterbox, whether they folded small enough or not, made the guy a cup of tea, some biscuits, called him a taxi home and sent him on his way.

[JohnyMilton]

I can't believe you caught your girlfriend boning another bloke and you want her back.

That's mad, i would of thrown her out on the street naked and push her clothes out the letterbox, whether they folded small enough or not, made the guy a cup of tea, some biscuits, called him a taxi home and sent him on his way.

haha, thats one way o do it, but no I knocked him out, broke my knuckle, then went out on my Dh bike, and took a flask of tea with me.

And thats how I did it, but I have no idea why I want her back!

But i wish I tried it your way! lol

How have you not put the c**t in hospital yet? If anyone ever tried anything on my missus I'd literally kill the f**ker!

I knocked him out, and broke my knuckle, that was about it, then about a month ago I got jumped I think it was him! so the next time I see him, he could be in hospital!

[poopipe]

Serious-ish post from poopipe? haha

dont be silly.

[Simpson]

I knocked him out, and broke my knuckle, that was about it, then about a month ago I got jumped I think it was him! so the next time I see him, he could be in hospital!

I havent been able to read the prevoius posts cos its blocked on my school computer, but just because your girlfriends a silly slag and cheated on you its caused all this agro? shoulda been easy man! if it was me mate then yea ok i might have hit the bloke out of anger and not being able to hit her. but if he jumped me id call it even and draw a line under everything, after all if you knocked him out, and he knocked you out your even so get over it, and forget about the bird!

[Dan6061]

Want her but can't have her.

Sucks.

[Lawnmowerman]

Why?