Fixed Pants™ Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 http://www.trials-forum.co.uk/forum/index....=4&MID=1126That'd be better as the link Na, i think things are as fine as they'll ever be, fairly sure ben isn't trying anything now, and she's been ok to me, things have healed between me and her but i'm still f**ked that she said she only wanted to be friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Campbell Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 Hayley is gonna be at this party friday.Any tips to win her over? Don't get too drunk and make an arse of yourself . Dress nice, shower, smell good and be chatty and friendly. DO NOT let yourself feel jealous or pissy about everything that has happened. Do that in your own time. Don't walk out of the party if something happens you don't like, deal with it later. Be there but don't be in her face all the time.There are no "tricks"* but just don't make her dislike you and see what happens.*discounting the old drug her and plug her route Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 How attracted to you she is is partly your gab but it's multiplied by how little of you she can have. Your task is to make her notice you fast but hanker when you don't close in after She knows she can get most dudes but she mustn't know about you If you screw this all up and then lose all your cool thats when she ends up liking you as a friend You're not playing it hard to get You're playing it not getting a hard-on yetIt's pretty sad that I've just copied and pasted that from The Streets lyrics. But I think it's quite true maybe it makes sense to you and if your lucky it might work out? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Sheehan! Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 (edited) How attracted to you she is is partly your gab but it's multiplied by how little of you she can have.Your task is to make her notice you fast but hanker when you don't close in afterShe knows she can get most dudes but she mustn't know about youIf you screw this all up and then lose all your cool thats when she ends up liking you as a friendYou're not playing it hard to getYou're playing it not getting a hard-on yetIt's pretty sad that I've just copied and pasted that from The Streets lyrics. But I think it's quite true maybe it makes sense to you and if your lucky it might work out?What he said.You want her to think "hmm fattys pretty cool, maybe i should sit on his face."NOT "it would be cool if fatty stopped trying to sit on my face."Capishe? (or however you spell it..) Edited September 5, 2007 by sheehan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manxrider Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 Does she call you fatpants? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 Nope.70+ people coming now, that should be fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 adress me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 Seriously the number 1 hint for actually dont get really wasted at all... cos i know if it was me id just end up with another girl and big regrets in the morning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 adress me Could do, you really gonna come? If you are, it'd be easiest to get to my house first and i'm gonna be taking these girls and maybe some others up to where we're meeting, not too far, it's like a 5 min walk... (i don't know the address, and everyones meeting at this place nearish to his house but in an easy enough place to find)Seriously the number 1 hint for actually dont get really wasted at all... cos i know if it was me id just end up with another girl and big regrets in the morningI'm not like that, i'm probably 'frigid' if anything, and i'm not as confident or hung () as you, so i'd keep to myself and people i know.Hmm, just alcohol loosens me up basically. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 jt i do love your attitude towards women, and dating, if i ever have a daughter, id want her to bring you home(Although possibly not because of the age difference)Ty that actually means a lot to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paolo Posted September 9, 2007 Report Share Posted September 9, 2007 AAaaaaah, Fat Pants, my heart cries for you...Just please, think of you situation from an objective point of view Your just trying too damn hard and get stumbled over by every word she addresses to you. Just get a nice decent, honest talk and end your misery. Mate if it's been 8 months, and nothing real happened lately either she doesn't like you or has a hard time getting her things straight, either way, it's a good reason to stop fancying her. I've been in a similar situation myself... twice. You could still try to ask her out, like right f**kin' now, just do it in a good setting, one that you are high in her estime, make sure she has to answer by yes or no. Depending how things are looking for you, you might be able to get other stuff, you know friendship and such . And then tomorrow will come and you'll notice there are so many other hot girls and might even land one quite easily...Sorry for being so harsh, do what ever you want, it's your life, do what ever you decide to do. Just know that there's a way out and you just might need some ambition, and please think of you situation from an objective point of view... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted September 10, 2007 Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 It sucks when you still like your ex from around 15months ago.Soon after we split, we started talking to eachother again, not like all the time, but the odd conversation every now and then.#Now we're best mates, but I want more than that. I told her how I felt quite a while ago, but it got well f**kibng awkward. Thing is, I don't show my true emotions. It's just how I am.Basically went:Me: so yeah..I really like you again..Her: You do?Me: Yeah...*long pause* Me: ha..well that's made things awkwardThat made things slightly better, well, felt like it anyway. Made her laugh which seems to be one of the things i'm good at.I don't really know what i'm getting at here, just typing shit out to help me think a bit more.Thing that sucks, is that we seem so perfect for eachother. We're so similar it's untrue. We understand eachother by thinking about what we'd do.Like I can understand her by thinking 'actually, i'd do that...' and i'm right. We like the same music, same people, we had the same things growing up, our personality's are similar, what we do, what we say...I seem to be able to get on with everyone, if I don't like them that much, I still make myself me freindly to them. It's the exact same with her.Like, just now on msn, I linker her to that 'Ghost's of the London Underground' video, and was going on about how interesting it is.. Then I said '...didn't watch it did you?'her: haha..no..sorry =Pme: haha..s'ok. i wouldn't have if you linked me to it..her: yeah. we have a little too much in common...me: yeahman i know..it's weird..but cool.Psshhh..sucks.Everytime I check out other girls, I compare them to Sophie. I think 'yeah, she's nice' if I talk to them, i can't help but think 'Yeah..nothing like Sophie though'I can't help it. I know I should've got over her ages ago, but I simply can't. It doesn't exactly make sense... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted September 10, 2007 Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 I can't help it. I know I should've got over her ages ago, but I simply can't. It doesn't exactly make sense...its easyevery time you think something soppy and gay about her just slap yourself in the cakes with something weighty. A week of that will sort you right out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted September 10, 2007 Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 its easyevery time you think something soppy and gay about her just slap yourself in the cakes with something weighty. A week of that will sort you right outThat won't sort me out..that'd make my balls ache...badly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted September 10, 2007 Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 That won't sort me out..that'd make my balls ache...badly.of course it will, it's an accepted scientific thingummyjig.it works on the same principle as the positive reinforcement thing they use to train dogs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted September 11, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 Dans big postI'm in a roughly similar situation. I really like this girl and have done for quite some time (about a year). Now i've seen other people since liking her but I still really like her.Im really frank with her and she is with me, were pretty close friends and she's never closed the door to us having a relationship infact, she's hinted towards it sometimes.Shes not single at the moment, and has been with the same guy since I met her. Their relationship isnt perfect, they argue alot.Shes really considered ditiching him a few times as well but hasnt. It's just that theres such a connection between us two (much like you and your girl Dan).Once at a party we kissed and it was almost a 'one thing lead to another' story but we stopped short of sex. But there was so much chemistry that night.Its driven me mental ever since hahaAnd yes poopipe, its called negative reinforcement funnily enough. Same thing was used to 'cure' homosexuals not too long ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 11, 2007 Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 Psshhh..sucks.Everytime I check out other girls, I compare them to Sophie. I think 'yeah, she's nice' if I talk to them, i can't help but think 'Yeah..nothing like Sophie though'I can't help it. I know I should've got over her ages ago, but I simply can't. It doesn't exactly make sense...Don't worry im EXACTLY the same, every-time i just think of that girl seems nice i wouldn't touch her.1. because me and Ellie are still 'seeing each-over or we'2. No girl seems to be like Ellie.Its weird but may make you feel happier knowing that others feel the same so there must be other girls that are amazing and will make you think that.Good Luck Mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Sheehan! Posted September 11, 2007 Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 Now we're best mates, but I want more than that. I told her how I felt quite a while ago, but it got well f**kibng awkward. Thing is, I don't show my true emotions. It's just how I am.Basically went:Me: so yeah..I really like you again..Her: You do?Me: Yeah...*long pause* Me: ha..well that's made things awkwardHaha, that made me laugh, i can picture it lolWell best thing i can say is either try to get back with her or forget about her.It sucks being in the middle to be honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted September 11, 2007 Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 (edited) Well best thing i can say is either try to get back with her or forget about her.Easier said than done.I can't simply forget about her. We're best mates.I talk to her all the time, so if I just didn't one day, then she'd wonder what's wrong with me.Sucks.Oh, and she's taken atm. So I can't/won't try anything.Even when she was single, it took me f**king ages to get the balls to tell her how I feel, and even then I f**ked it up.I worried f**king loads, it didn't feel like the right time at all, but i'd already told her I wanted to talk to her..and I can't think on my feet, so I had to go for it.I was shaking, could feel my heart beat going crazy, and I jumbled my words up...Afterwards when I was walking back to the bus stop, I was thinking over what had just happened, and I was like 'I didn't tell her this, or that, should've said this instead of that'.I'm shit at all that soppy stuff, showing my true feelings is something I find stupidly hard to do most times... Edited September 11, 2007 by Dan6061 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted September 12, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 The easiest way to deal with it (i find) is just to be copmletely honest with her from the start.Tell her everything.Failing that, shag one of her mates Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 women.nuff said for the moment. when i calm down i may elaborate.J Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 my gfs upset abut something pretty important but she wont tell anyone about it our mutual best mate (which is actully really annoying knowing that he knows stuff about her i dont n vice versa) has assured me its nothing to do with our relationship, its just annoying knowing theres nothing i can do about it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 my gfs upset abut something pretty important but she wont tell anyone about it our mutual best mate (which is actully really annoying knowing that he knows stuff about her i dont n vice versa) has assured me its nothing to do with our relationship, its just annoying knowing theres nothing i can do about it...Just watch him go in for the kill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 hes in a 2 year relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 Just watch him go in for the killWas that necessary?IMO you should talk to her and basically say i need to know, were bf 'n' gf and we should be telling echover everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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