Luke Rainbird Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 It'd just take me nearly half an hour to expain my entire situation of whats going on with my girl on here and the ' add reply' button didn't work! it think it may possibly have been to long?gutted! So the very narrowed version. My gf who i havent been seeing very long isn't talkin to me because of somthing that happend to do with my boss at work. She is basically being blanked at work because of it. She blames me. I spoke to her last night, she hung up and hasn't txt since.. What shall i do?Get round there and sort things outNOW! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mods Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 (edited) she at work at the mo. i don't know weather she would appriciate me sat in her parents lounge waiting for her to come in. Edited September 3, 2007 by mods Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex-Mitchinson Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 she at work at the mo. i don't know weather she would appriciate me sat in her parents lounge waiting for her to come in.Fuk it. Go round, wait and she'll no you mean business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mods Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 (edited) lol i love your hardcore attitude boys!i know this sounds silly, but on my bebo page yesterday, i put a new colum'person', then under that 'she knows' Then today on her profile she has made a new colum 'I hate mess' , then under that put ' but i love you'Is that not realated or am i being well over paranoid/sensitive about the whole situation. lol i love your hardcore attitude boys, but i am gonna leave it tonight and txt her 2m. It needs to be the ultimate sypathy/i want you/ lets sort it txt without sounding soppy Edited September 3, 2007 by mods Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 Just do what you thinks best, you know her better than we do.Although if Davey was here, he'd have the answers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 Yea... give her a text.... cos that will win her back..... geeez and they said love was dead!!!Go find some nice paper and a good pen and write how you really feel. Thing with letters is they'll usually read it 10times over and actually listen to what youv'e said!!! Tell her shes the only one youv'e thought about all day, how your so sorry (even if your not) and just being really sympathetic, put it in a red envelope and pot it through her door!! comon lads so effort please!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 (edited) Yea... give her a text.... cos that will win her back..... geeez and they said love was dead!!!Go find some nice paper and a good pen and write how you really feel. Thing with letters is they'll usually read it 10times over and actually listen to what youv'e said!!! Tell her shes the only one youv'e thought about all day, how your so sorry (even if your not) and just being really sympathetic, put it in a red envelope and pot it through her door!! comon lads some effort please!!!!! Edited September 3, 2007 by Simpson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 Yea... give her a text.... cos that will win her back..... geeez and they said love was dead!!!Go find some nice paper and a good pen and write how you really feel. Thing with letters is they'll usually read it 10times over and actually listen to what youv'e said!!! Tell her shes the only one youv'e thought about all day, how your so sorry (even if your not) and just being really sympathetic, put it in a red envelope and pot it through her door!! comon lads so effort please!!!!! Yea... give her a text.... cos that will win her back..... geeez and they said love was dead!!!Go find some nice paper and a good pen and write how you really feel. Thing with letters is they'll usually read it 10times over and actually listen to what youv'e said!!! Tell her shes the only one youv'e thought about all day, how your so sorry (even if your not) and just being really sympathetic, put it in a red envelope and pot it through her door!! comon lads some effort please!!!!! But be sure to post it twice, eh Simps?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 But be sure to post it twice, eh Simps?! Yea the more letters the better.... how come the f**king flood thing stops me when i have something usefull to say but not when i accidently click 2ce? what a wanker Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaMmY Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 Just reading some of this just cracks me upgirls just seem to be to much hassle! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted September 3, 2007 Report Share Posted September 3, 2007 Just reading some of this just cracks me upgirls just seem to be to much hassle!being gay seems so much easier sometimes - it's probably just a case of the grass always being greener Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 not really trouble as such, but didnt know were else to put it...Its my gfs birthday on saturday, ill of been going out with her for two weeks ish, so does this mean i have to buy her an expensive, well thought out present? or just a standard one not much better than id buy a normal mateBefore we started going out i was gonna buy her an apron ( private joke ~ basically she came round my house and her and her mate got into there underwear and put acooking apron on each and danced around the house) but thinking about it now thats no differentto what id buy a mate (recent mate presents include a buddha statue, a chainsaw and an 1/8th of punk. aka presents that theyd just find funny/useful at the time)..so i dunno, full blown present or just a standard one? or theres just the option of sexual favours... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willy Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 Is she materialistic or not? My ex missus preferred very little (well cheap) but with lots of thought instead of a £200 necklace or something. Then again the bird im seeing at the minute would laugh at me if I didnt show up with a present £100+ (hence me telling her to f**k off). So it does depend on the lass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Sheehan! Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 not really trouble as such, but didnt know were else to put it...Its my gfs birthday on saturday, ill of been going out with her for two weeks ish, so does this mean i have to buy her an expensive, well thought out present? or just a standard one not much better than id buy a normal mateBefore we started going out i was gonna buy her an apron ( private joke ~ basically she came round my house and her and her mate got into there underwear and put acooking apron on each and danced around the house) but thinking about it now thats no differentto what id buy a mate (recent mate presents include a buddha statue, a chainsaw and an 1/8th of punk. aka presents that theyd just find funny/useful at the time)..so i dunno, full blown present or just a standard one? or theres just the option of sexual favours...If shes kinky/likes sexy fun, take £50, go to ann summers, get a lingerie (sp?) set and whatever else with the change.Then buy a lock for your/her bedroom door and some candles.Then download a Barry white album and bobs your uncle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 Cu nt.Think i saw hayley with ben today, i will be so f**king pissed off with him if he's trying anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
froggy Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 Cu nt.Think i saw hayley with ben today, i will be so f**king pissed off with him if he's trying anything.Seems to me you've been going on about her for ages. I think I read once she said she just wanted to be friends from you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 eh?Yeah, she told me a few days ago, i have been going on about her for ages because i fell in love with her like 8 months ago... and now it's come to a shit end and i really don't like it, then if my mate goes and ends up going out with her or what ever i'm gonna be f**king pissed, because he's known her not even half as long as i have. That's called girl stealing, which isn't on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaRtZ Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 i split up with my gf the other day. feel so crap. we really love each other alot but i dont feel the excitement and spontanaeity she gave me at the start. We had to split because i dont believe in long distace relationships, i need to hug, kiss and cuddle my gf, not do it via webcam.so i tell her it was time, she tells me that she thought all along I was using her because i was lonely so i get really upset and leave her. then she emails me today to tell me she only said that to get back at me and she doesn't mean it, and that she wants to give the long distance relationship a try. as much as i hated to do it, i said it wouldn't work and i was sorry. ill admit it, im not man enough to have that sort of relationship, its something i really dont want. but now i just feel so so horrible for hurting her i cant talk to her, i just want to know that she'll be ok... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 Long distance being?Anyway, I think you split up too quickly. There's nothing worse than doing it suddenly, the least you could have done is to discuss it with her and prepare her for the worst. If things aren't working between the two of you, you don't have to officially end the relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaRtZ Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 along distance is 4 hours by car or trainto be honest i dont care if anyone says "oh it can still work out" or whatever, it cant possibly be the same relationship. i did tell her 3 months ago it was going to happen the day i went on holiday, so we had a week apart to get over each other (forceful i guess) so it wasnt sudden Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 I think you did the right thing. Although it's going to be a proper ball ache and hurt for a while, it'll be for the best in the long run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted September 4, 2007 Report Share Posted September 4, 2007 i split up with my gf the other day. feel so crap. we really love each other alot but i dont feel the excitement and spontanaeity she gave me at the start. We had to split because i dont believe in long distace relationships, i need to hug, kiss and cuddle my gf, not do it via webcam.so i tell her it was time, she tells me that she thought all along I was using her because i was lonely so i get really upset and leave her. then she emails me today to tell me she only said that to get back at me and she doesn't mean it, and that she wants to give the long distance relationship a try. as much as i hated to do it, i said it wouldn't work and i was sorry. ill admit it, im not man enough to have that sort of relationship, its something i really dont want. but now i just feel so so horrible for hurting her i cant talk to her, i just want to know that she'll be ok...The question you should be asking yourself is if your gf lived 5 mins walk from you would you still be together? If no then fair enough, but if yes you want to start evaluating what you want out of life.I don't belive in all this "i'm not ready to get into a relationship / we can't have a relationship because of XYZ" crap. The number one priority in life is to find someone so amazingly fantastic you want to spend the rest of you life with. The hardest part is finding that person, the rest is easy. Make aragements to be with that person so you can see her more often, hell why not just move closer.Do you want to be with the girl you love, or someone who's just more convienent? You say you don't feel the excitement you did at the start of the relationship, well that's what happens in 100% of relationships. And if someone says that's not true they're talking out of their backside. Breaking up is a perminant solution to a temperarry problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 The number one priority in life is to find someone so amazingly fantastic you want to spend the rest of you life with. The hardest part is finding that person, the rest is easy. Make aragements to be with that person so you can see her more often, hell why not just move closer.jt i do love your attitude towards women, and dating, if i ever have a daughter, id want her to bring you home(Although possibly not because of the age difference)but the key point i want to bring is up, not everyones like you, and has found the one and knows it so much it hurts. theres a difference between a girlfriend, and what your discribing above. theres many girls i know/have dated/want to date. that i would happily have as my girlfriend. but ive only ever met one girl, who ive thought "yea id quite happily marry you, and spend the rest of my life with you", but that relationship only lasted just over a week, because we wer 2 different(i.e im not the kind of person youd want to spend the rest of your life with, she was just too nice) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 Hayley is gonna be at this party friday.Any tips to win her over? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si-man Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 eh?Yeah, she told me a few days ago, i have been going on about her for ages because i fell in love with her like 8 months ago... and now it's come to a shit end and i really don't like it, then if my mate goes and ends up going out with her or what ever i'm gonna be f**king pissed, because he's known her not even half as long as i have. That's called girl stealing, which isn't on.Check the sig, may do you discount because I feel sorry for you. hahaWomen, who needs em. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.