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oh my f**king god.

&Beth(X).x .x// says:

:/

gleenn

i spoke 2 haylee about it

- FAT PANTS™ has a job says:

yeh?

oh

yehhhh

&Beth(X).x .x// says:

and she said she only likes you as a friend. and she wants 2 see what happens with ben :/

oh look, my heart, oh look, it's just been f**king ripped in half.

Shit man. I felt a bit of your pain when I read that :( At least you know where you stand. Its best to be f**ked for a week now rather than just following her around a bit, not knowing where you stand and being slightly f**ked/down/whatever for months.

Time to go find that sea, you know, the one with the fish in (Y)

f**kING f**k.

Apparently i would have had a chance if i acted sooner/before she had a bf...

fanny. i'm gonna f**king kick myself for the rest of my f**king life.

Shit man. That really sucks. That's something I can relate with :( Trust me though, you won't be kicking yourself for the rest of your life, just a few months at most :P

Hopefully you're one of those people that can take a lesson from this and act on it in the future. (Much unlike myself :()

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im still kicking myself now at times over a girl, an that was a year ago!

Saw her last night though, was good, apart from she ended up getting pissed and telling me she wanted to shag me. I'm not the type to take advantage though, so was shit so ended up goin home.

Why the f**k am i duch a twat f**k with girls? Does my nut in.

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f**kING f**k.

Apparently i would have had a chance if i acted sooner/before she had a bf...

fanny. i'm gonna f**king kick myself for the rest of my f**king life.

ermmmm whats different exactly? She said she wanted to see how things go with this ben boy, so she isnt comited to her relationship with cuntshisface so what exactly is it that has suddenly changed your chance? personaly to me she sounds imature...

not to be harsh.

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Anyone care to explain the concept of 'seeing' someone, as I hear so many different things to what you're 'allowed to do' whilst seeing someone...

depends on who you speak to, same with going out, engaged etc.

to me seeing someone is when your interested in someone, your kind of dating, cinema, nights out, all that crap, but theres no big commitment(although i still wouldnt go with anyone else at this point, but thats generally cos im pretty honorable at that time).

but a girl i was seeing a while back, was going out with another lad at the time, and apparently "seeing means were allowed to sleep with other people, so i wasnt doing anything wrong" although to argue the toss if she was going out with someone, she shouldnt of been seeing me.

and with going out, i went out like 3 times a week, for meals, cinema,pub,clubbing, night in travelodge etc with a girl for like 2 months, at that point many people would class it as a long term relationship, but there was no soppiness, no spending hours together talking, no nights in, it was purely social and sexual. at no point would i of classed us as boyfriend and girlfriend, and neither would she, but we wer going out together, socially wise.

and as for engaged, how many of my stupid mates have been engaged. my ex from a few years ago, went out with a lad after me, they got engaged after like 2 months(she was like 15 at the time)his line "im sorry i cant afford a ring, all i can give you is me." stupid twat. theyve now been split for like 2 years. and would they ever of got married, would they bollox, and several others have done the same at like 16-18. referring to themselves as each others fiancee etc, its a ruddy joke, when you consider i know people who have been together for 7/8 years, living together for 5, and there only boyfriend and girlfriend.

youll have to ask the person in question what it means to them, and what your allowed to do, personally id say your allowed to do nothing, but then im now the kind of person, who if i pull on a friday night, and am texting a bird on the saturday, and then go out on the saturday night, i wont pull anybody else in case it turns into something more.

theres always the option of doing whatever and hoping you dont get caught. but guess it just depends wat u want/how you feel about that person.

im also noticing a real hike in my standards in the last year or so, what i would of loved to of nailed a year ago, is now "meh, if its there on a plate". anybody else getting like this as they get older?

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im also noticing a real hike in my standards in the last year or so, what i would of loved to of nailed a year ago, is now "meh, if its there on a plate". anybody else getting like this as they get older?

Yep. Keep getting it offered to me on a plate and i'm just like... meh, I think I'll pass.

I'm not interested in a serious relationship, cos I wanna get my head down and get on with uni, so a f**k buddy situation would be good, not just a one nighty, that shit's boring these days.

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im still kicking myself now at times over a girl, an that was a year ago!

Saw her last night though, was good, apart from she ended up getting pissed and telling me she wanted to shag me. I'm not the type to take advantage though, so was shit so ended up goin home.

Why the f**k am i duch a twat f**k with girls? Does my nut in.

that u wont do, but ul gladly shove a nail bomb up the arse of anybody that gives u a funny look

i love u simon.

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yes.

It occasionally leads to sex (not that I do that sort of thing anymore) but often leads to a short conversation where you both realise you're not all that interested in each other and politely go your seperate ways.

Personally I don't believe in the use of lines. If you see a bird and you think she looks interesting you might as well just wander up and tell her you thought she looked interesting so you figured you'd introduce yourself - then suggest a trip to nearby starbucks/ice cream van/pub etc. if she doesn't tell you to f**k off.

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Are any of you able to see a hot girl and go and speak to her?

I can't do it. If i'm on common ground, or its a friend of a friend i'm fine talking to girls, but a stranger i just can't do it :(

generally yes,if shes with a crowd or summit its a bit more awkward, and i obviously dont just go speak to random people who walk past me in the street. but yea people queing in front of me, people on the bus, people in pubs, bars, clubs etc, just go up, dont sweat it, and see what happens. i find it a lot easier with a stranger. as thats all they are someone who dont know you, its quite easy to go back to not knowing you if it goes tits up.

what i hate most is, meeting people in person for the first time,if you do this, dont plan ahead, as itll go tits up, god knows how JT managed to go meet his GF half way across the world. like i signed up to a leeds festival forum hoping to sell me ticket, and ended up getting to know a few people on there, and realised they were all anti tout, so didnt offer me ticket up for sale on there, got speaking to a few people off there, 1 of whom ended up buying my spare ticket off me, we got on so well on the net, just chatting crap, but then when we came to meet for her to buy the ticket, it went tits up really,she bought the ticket, but we totally didnt click like we did on the net, few awkward silences etc. and now we dont speak on the net either. not arsed like, as altho she was someone to occupy boredom and a hell of a nice person to speak to on the net, thats all it was,but with JT, must of been so much more going to meet her for the first time, i totally brick it more about meeting people ive only really spoken to in depth on the net, in person.

like when you pull when your out, dont bother with phone numbers etc, bird myspaces you a couple of days later, you talk for an age, get on real well and as youve already pulled her or whatever , decide to set up a date, then when you meet, its totally different, just seems such a let down. can spend days kickin yourself thinking "why was i such a dick in person". when in fact you wernt. its just the way things pan out.

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got speaking to a few people off there, 1 of whom ended up buying my spare ticket off me, we got on so well on the net, just chatting crap, but then when we came to meet for her to buy the ticket, it went tits up really,she bought the ticket, but we totally didnt click like we did on the net, few awkward silences etc. and now we dont speak on the net either. not arsed like, as altho she was someone to occupy boredom and a hell of a nice person to speak to on the net, thats all it was

Christ, the amount of times ive had that with girls, nightmare. Arrange to meet them, meet up, becomes stupidly awkward, have to make stupid excuses to get out of it, and never speak to them again...

It's all good :P

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but then im now the kind of person, who if i pull on a friday night, and am texting a bird on the saturday, and then go out on the saturday night, i wont pull anybody else in case it turns into something more.

Nonce :P

The whole 'seeing someone' is a load of shit, theres no set rules. Some girls will quite happily f**k other guys whereas some will only kiss other guys.

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that u wont do, but ul gladly shove a nail bomb up the arse of anybody that gives u a funny look

i love u simon.

To f**king right.

I'm not into the whole taking advantage, cheating game.

twatted someone at a party for trying to take advantage of a pissed girl before. Im usually sober lol, cant be arsed drinking.

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To f**king right.

I'm not into the whole taking advantage, cheating game.

twatted someone at a party for trying to take advantage of a pissed girl before. Im usually sober lol, cant be arsed drinking.

it's not taking advantage.

when you've been with someone for more than 5 years you have to get them pissed before they'll shag you

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it's not taking advantage.

when you've been with someone for more than 5 years you have to get them pissed before they'll shag you

mmm maybe your one of the lucky ones, I found she had to be asleep AND paralytic. Had to use the hand over mouth technique on a few occasions.

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It'd just take me nearly half an hour to expain my entire situation of whats going on with my girl on here and the ' add reply' button didn't work! it think it may possibly have been to long?gutted!

So the very narrowed version.

My gf who i havent been seeing very long isn't talkin to me because of somthing that happend to do with my boss at work.

She is basically being blanked at work because of it. She blames me. I spoke to her last night, she hung up and hasn't txt since.. What shall i do?

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