Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[JoNnY__Mc]

yea i woulda done it to him, thats why thats not my main issue with it. Just proper depressed n the like.

I have the exact same thing with girls. Im ok when im in a group with other people or if im hammered but not when sober and on my own. I think its just confidence n stuff, things like this arnt to much of a boost for that either..

and mate i havnt had any action, just a lame liking for the girl, im only a friend to her so its the usual crappy story.

Did you get the freind treatment? I hate that... but its fair enough... Its like the easiest excuse for them to give, I'd rather be told to f**k off

[Tom_]

Im just a soppy SOB that gets to attached and likes someone for months before getting shot down.... every time...

Edited August 16, 2007 by tom132

[Si-man]

Just read something about a girl I like and have been getting close to.

I am now going to find out who he was and torture the f**ker till i feel ready to stop

You cant grasp how angry i am now, going for a walk in the rain, see who i come across.

OMFG ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Im just a soppy SOB that gets to attached and likes someone for months before getting shot down.... every time...

Exactly the same mate.

i am also the most jealous b*****d on the planet, it gets me into trouble but i cant help it.

Im just gonna turn f**king gay, bet i still wouldnt get any

[Class Clown]

Im just gonna turn f**king gay, bet i still wouldnt get any

That made me laught so much lol

So what was said about ths girl then si, something bad im guessing?

Hope you find him

[Davetrials]

yes pregnancy scare today that was f**king awful.

all clear though, thank f**k.

[hill_393]

I think personally there are 2 main points to talking to women.

Confidence and Laughter. I've generally found that if you can make someone laugh they relax around you, and you get to know the real them. 1st dates, people always put up a front or a barrier, that you always have to break through.

Confidence in yourself can make you attractive. Being happy in yourself makes you easier to be around. I've got my faults and downsides, but I'm generally happy in who i am, an I like to think I can talk to people well. I think the key is to find that something about someone that you click on - A joke, a friend, a situation. 1st dates are generally for exploring each other to find that something to lead on to further things.

You can tell my age here!

He he

Darren

[Has anyone seen my shoe?]

1st dates are generally for exploring each other

You've had good 1st dates by the sound of things

[B.E.A.U]

gf left me after 7 months dno what to do man

[Barbra]

Sad to hear it. Why'd she leave? Whats the situation. Detail Beau...Maybe we can help mate

[Smo™]

Bitches.

[B.E.A.U]

there was some gal on msn and i was talking to her and she was upset because her bf is a twat and someone said shes ugly and i was going to say shes pretty to cheer her up ad some reason i said i fancy her have no idea why lol. And said my gf was being moody alot lately and i said she was going to dump me and stuff like and then my gf read the cinvo and was having non of it

[Dani.]

Bitches.

+1 for the bitches part.

Sad to hear it beau, as I've only just recently discovered with my girlfriend of just over a year, girls are all bitches... no matter how well you think you know them! And for the few girls who actually are worth holding onto, it's still hard to keep a relationship going. Relationships are like cars: You build one up from parts like a motor (=drunken kiss), chassis(=being friends), doors(=nights out), paint etc and you love it so much you wanna show your mates(=tell them about her) and drive around in it all day (= ....well you know ). Sometimes it breaks down (=fights) and obviously sometimes it's worse than others (= from a flat tyre to the windscreen shattering in your f**king face), sometimes it needs maintenance (=talking to her 1 one 1 and sorting shit out) but when it all comes down to it the car is eventually gonna crash with you in it and YOU'RE the one thats gonna get f**ked because the car is just a heap of metal and you're in hospital with a morphine drip.

I've recently been dumped by the one person I trusted and loved most on account of her cheating on me...how the hell did that happen?!?!

[Luke Rainbird]

I've recently been dumped by the one person I trusted and loved most on account of her cheating on me...how the hell did that happen?!?!

Did you talk too much about cars by any chance?!

Only playing, sorry to hear it from all of you guys. Pick yourselves up, and get on with life as soon as you can though. It won't be easy, but it will be for the best

[Barbra]

there was some gal on msn and i was talking to her and she was upset because her bf is a twat and someone said shes ugly and i was going to say shes pretty to cheer her up ad some reason i said i fancy her have no idea why lol. And said my gf was being moody alot lately and i said she was going to dump me and stuff like and then my gf read the cinvo and was having non of it

That seems pretty explainable to be fair Beau.

I've done similar. Just sit her down and have a face to face chat and just explain why you said it. If its an arguing atmosphere don't bother. When its more toned down talk to her then

[B.E.A.U]

That seems pretty explainable to be fair Beau.

I've done similar. Just sit her down and have a face to face chat and just explain why you said it. If its an arguing atmosphere don't bother. When its more toned down talk to her then

lol ye mate well i didnt mean t i dont fancy this girl i dont actually know why i said it think iwas thinking about my new car and i fancy my car a little lol jokes and i said it shes fat to be honest lol

got my gf to answer the phone now and well we aint together but she wants to see me. Ok yes i cried i am a pussy and i begged and begged and explaoind on the phone for nearly 2 hours for her to say stop ringing her. then i told her what it will be like withot me she starting crying then said she loved me. Lets hope i get her back

[Danny Kearns]

lol ye mate well i didnt mean t i dont fancy this girl i dont actually know why i said it think iwas thinking about my new car and i fancy my car a little lol jokes and i said it shes fat to be honest lol

got my gf to answer the phone now and well we aint together but she wants to see me. Ok yes i cried i am a pussy and i begged and begged and explaoind on the phone for nearly 2 hours for her to say stop ringing her. then i told her what it will be like withot me she starting crying then said she loved me. Lets hope i get her back

You ain't no pussy for crying mate. Ive cried for days on end, weeks infact over a very special girl. These things hurt. I couldn't imagine what it would be liek after 7 months though. I hope to god things go well for you because its a horrible feeling.

Just try and discuss things through the best you can mate. No arguing. A nice conversation. Im sure she will understand if you explain. Also remember one thing Beau.....If she loved you...She would of trusted you.....I.e meaning - That theres no other girl in your life but her and that you wouldn't of dreamed of doing anything with that other girl.

Hope things get better.

All the best.

Danny xxx

[JT!]

lol ye mate well i didnt mean t i dont fancy this girl i dont actually know why i said it think iwas thinking about my new car and i fancy my car a little lol jokes and i said it shes fat to be honest lol

got my gf to answer the phone now and well we aint together but she wants to see me. Ok yes i cried i am a pussy and i begged and begged and explaoind on the phone for nearly 2 hours for her to say stop ringing her. then i told her what it will be like withot me she starting crying then said she loved me. Lets hope i get her back

Relationships always get like that after a good half a year, when the newness wears off and it starts to get serious. Get together sometime and have a really good talk, no holds bared kind of thing, get everything out in the open about what you do and don't like about the relationship and work on it, even if you do end up sounding like a 'pussy' or whatever if just you to. Seems a waste for it to just end like that, especially when you both love eachother very much.

You'll probably end up closer than u ever have been afterwards.

Good luck.

[hill_393]

You ain't no pussy for crying mate. Ive cried for days on end, weeks infact over a very special girl. These things hurt. I couldn't imagine what it would be liek after 7 months though. I hope to god things go well for you because its a horrible feeling.

Don't worry dude, it's not a bad thing crying. Split up with mine over 6 months ago, and I still get twinges about her, and think about her all the time. It's still troubling me to be honest. When i broke my leg, there was only 1 person i wanted there, and it was her. Hated myself fro thinking it.

Darren

[Barbra]

Hmmm...

Theres a girl, I really like her. Liked her a good while ago, but she had a boyfriend. Things couldn't have worked out (even if he was a twat) And now i like her again. BUT with this girl i just can't tell her that i like her. I don't know what it is about her that makes me so nervous to tell her. Maybe i like her that much i'm afraid she won't like me back? And maybe ruin our good friendship. I'm not like this normally with girls. I'll let them know if i like 'em plain and simply.

I'm not sure if this is something that can have advice given to. But i needed to say it really...

[Dani.]

Hmmm...

Theres a girl, I really like her. Liked her a good while ago, but she had a boyfriend. Things couldn't have worked out (even if he was a twat) And now i like her again. BUT with this girl i just can't tell her that i like her. I don't know what it is about her that makes me so nervous to tell her. Maybe i like her that much i'm afraid she won't like me back? And maybe ruin our good friendship. I'm not like this normally with girls. I'll let them know if i like 'em plain and simply.

I'm not sure if this is something that can have advice given to. But i needed to say it really...

Go for it mate, a year ago I asked out my best friend (yea she was a girl...) and I deemed this year the best of my life* so far.

Yeah yeah I know, my life so far has been very short bla bla I know... it just sounds better if I say it that way. But it's still true.

[omgnoseat]

Well it's a bit of a long story but i'll try to keep it as short as possible..

I've had a girlfriend sinds june until an hour ago.

I always thought i've been in love with my previous girlfriends, but when I got to know this girl I knew that that was nothing, I realised that this was the first time that I was really in love.

There is no one in the world who understands me so good [i have several problem, but I won't mention them here],and she has alway been there for me when I had a hard time..

It went wrong the moment that I went to spain, met a girl there and poked [yea litteraly poked] her booby a few times, it was kinda for fun I guess..nothing serieous.

I told my GF this and she was very angry, but she didn't want to break or anything.

I totally understood that she was angry, and realised that I made a big mistake, feel very guilty now and I've learned my lesson about it.

But yesterday we were talking on msn, and the coversation jumped to her friends.

Her friends are people whose life kinda exists out of drinking and smoking weed.

Her friends pushed her to drink aswell, and they have even got her to smoke a joint.

She also has alot of respect for her parents, but now she went to the pub and lied to her parents and said that she was sleeping at a friends house, because her parent won't let her go to pubs.

So I told her that I really dislike her friends, and imo, I have a very good reason for that..I'm just worried that she will change in a negative way even more.

We went outside together and she was very angry, she ignored me almost the whole time [2 hours and 15min].

I told her that I'm just worried about her changing even further, but she thougt it was a bad thing that I'm worried.

She started saying that she knew her friends for so long and that she felt that she had to take a choice between me and her friends.

I tried to talk it out with her but she didn't want to talk about it anymore, so basicly; she didn't want to make it up with me.

Rest of the day I spent with her was quiet, because she just ignored everything I said.

She went home, and I wasn't allowed to kiss her anymore and stuff..

Guess thats about it, still abit long but oh well..

Was wondering what is the vieuw of you guys on the situation..?

[ps, sorry about my english, it isn't my first language]

[Caleb]

how old is she?

everyone goes pubs when there of age mate its a better atmosphere than street corners etc

[omgnoseat]

how old is she?

everyone goes pubs when there of age mate its a better atmosphere than street corners etc

She is 17, but that point about the part about the pub is that she lied to her parents.

I'm perfectly fine with her going to the pub, as long as she doesn't get utterly drunk every evening or smoke again.

[Walleee]

She is 17, but that point about the part about the pub is that she lied to her parents.

I'm perfectly fine with her going to the pub, as long as she doesn't get utterly drunk every evening or smoke again.

Why are you so against smoking?

You live in harlemm for christ's sake home of willie wortels! surley smoking a joint isn't a big deal??

[omgnoseat]

Why are you so against smoking?

You live in harlemm for christ's sake home of willie wortels! surley smoking a joint isn't a big deal??

I am very anti smoking, it's so bad for you, and the only reason her friends do it is because it makes them feel uber cool.

And the main point is that she is changing in a bad way because of her friends.

edit: one more thing, smoking [ecspecialy drugs] is always bad for you, the city you live in has nothing to do with it.

Edited August 22, 2007 by Meteor~