Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[Davetrials]

mine did that.

i retuned her and shes back to normal

(read i did the whole love thing)

[mat hudson]

glandular fever hath left her

sexual frustration hath left me

[B.E.A.U]

mine did that.

i retuned her and shes back to normal

(read i did the whole love thing)

where do i find that matey

[poopipe]

i tried that but when you may have cracked a bone in your wrist it really hurts and she wins lol.

she just changed from what she was when i met ehr etc and to be honest i am going off her and i really dont want to

You probably just need to do something a bit different from normal - to liven stuff up. It's quite easy to get into a rut without realising it.

Find a different place to go out or take a week off and show her a good time in the countryside or something. I dunno what your missus is into but just indulging her might shut her up for a bit.

[Has anyone seen my shoe?]

glandular fever hath left her

sexual frustration hath left me

Trouble?

[JonCongreve]

I seem to have to be sorry for most things i do. It's like i can't do anything right. Or anything perfect for her.

The other night on the phone she knew i wasn't in the best mood so she asked me what was up and i just said about being mainly stressed about my tech folder and how the teachers have made the situation worse, as well as other stuff that's been getting to me. Then she just said about how everyone has alot of deadlines at the moment, so it's not just me. Just recently over msn i knew something was up with her, she said coursework blah blah. I said how it'll all be fine soon....and then i said what she said over the phone the other day about how everyone has alot of work to do. As soon as i said that she flipped out. She said why am i so patronising all the time, and basically making out that i'm useless.

Also. She knew that my sister was coming over this weekend for my birthday, and that i don't get to see her alot due to uni, but she invited me to a family meal at her house and obviously i can't make it. So i then get called ungrateful, and that it makes her look bad cause this is the second time in just over a year that i haven't made it to something her family have invited me to because i was busy. She was also in a really bad mood with me because i have a staff meeting at work that is compulsory, and there is little way of getting out of it. As this is the only day she's free i booked a meal for us after this meeting. She's now complaining at me about going to the meeting. I cannot get out of it.

I don't get it. It's really not good for me atm cause i haven't been feeling great recently. I know the pill makes their hormones go crazy, and want to snap at any moment, but she just gets at me for anything, however small or silly it is. Surely it doesn't make them this bad on it's own. She never seems to understand my side of things, always hers

[Joe Papasnap Maher]

Jon is it your birthday this weekend..

aww me, im gonna send you a card

Seriosly though man, wtf are you still doing with her.

Youshould of ended it a long time. She comes across so self centre'd.

However hard it may seem, youve gotta leave her. because, your more stressed with her..than u was without her. x

P.s tell you parents i said hello, and hope there ok . Miss you jonny

[dave85]

Trouble?

He'll get her up the duff and there'll be a welsh-style shotgun wedding

[poopipe]

long list of bad things

dude - if you think its the pill sending her spanish either get her to change pills or stop taking it altogether.

I know exactly what I'm talking about on this one - i lived it for 2 years.

[JonCongreve]

She did apologise and also send me a really nice text I've told her that if the pill continues to get her like this then get it changed, or not take it. Thank you Joe. But it is difficult when you've been with her for so long. You weren't replying on msn so just incase you read this, are you going to the 2 day YMSA event? There's a chance i 'might' be able to get a lift, and it'll hopefully be on my new frame Miss you too...seems ages since you were living down the road

[poopipe]

i think its worth holding on to see what a new pill does to her - if they're on the wrong one they can go utterly batshit. I'm not saying she isn't a complete cow but if she's got the presence of mind to apologise later on it kind of hints that she's not quite in her right mind during the evil times.

[Shaun H]

Hung up on her.

She just pissed me off so much, never done that in 19 months.

This relationship is in the shit atm, and it's not my f**king fault I've got so much work I can't see her whenever she wants. Jesus.

Edited April 26, 2007 by Shaun H

[Nick Dale]

LAdies just f**k me off.

Tonight girlfriend is round.. Like RIGHT NOW! and she is sleeping...

Story is...we were haveing little bit of a fumble (dad wernt in) And we hear something downstairs i go check it out quick come bk up couple minutes later cause it was me dad but she is just laying there like half asleep? She then gets up and starts f**king about with her nails! Then i go get us a drink and get back in bed and she is just like "i aint in the mood no more"

And it f**ks me off cause she expects me to be able to just turn off the sexual frustration thats going about in my head and be able to sleep. Its bollox to be honest. I dont care how shallow this is but im just so wound up! i see her twice a week and yeah i love her but its getting a joke to on How far things get nowa days. Its like Beau with his lass, when we were 1st there it was just like constantly wanting each other now she is like.. "im tired" orr "im not in the mood no more. GRRR :@:@

Had to let it out was f**king me off.

[Shaun H]

LAdies just f**k me off.

Tonight girlfriend is round.. Like RIGHT NOW! and she is sleeping...

Story is...we were haveing little bit of a fumble (dad wernt in) And we hear something downstairs i go check it out quick come bk up couple minutes later cause it was me dad but she is just laying there like half asleep? She then gets up and starts f**king about with her nails! Then i go get us a drink and get back in bed and she is just like "i aint in the mood no more"

And it f**ks me off cause she expects me to be able to just turn off the sexual frustration thats going about in my head and be able to sleep. Its bollox to be honest. I dont care how shallow this is but im just so wound up! i see her twice a week and yeah i love her but its getting a joke to on How far things get nowa days. Its like Beau with his lass, when we were 1st there it was just like constantly wanting each other now she is like.. "im tired" orr "im not in the mood no more. GRRR :@:@

Had to let it out was f**king me off.

Have a wank and cum on her face.

I'm frustrated cos my gf brought a nice "outfit" and shoes but we couldn't actually do anything cos Dominos are so f**king slow when they say they'll be fast and my Mum said she'd be back an hour earlier than she actually ended up coming home.

I'm frustrated to the point that I know a wank will just be hugely dissapointing.

Oh and my Mum is f**king pathetic about what time she stays round til and I'm starting to realise that she's never gunna let her stay round, I'll just have to stay round the missus' instead. At least there her family knocks and waits for an answer instead of just walking in. Mine's a bunch of penises.

GOSH.

[Nick Dale]

The whole parents walking in, My dad just leaves us to what ever we are doing and shouts or knocks on door if something is needed. Just say to them can you knock or something and if they ask why just say well Im a lad and she is my girlfriend...I know you don't want me growing up but i have to sometime so just let nature run its course

Have a wank and cum on her face.

I'm frustrated to the point that I know a wank will just be hugely dissapointing.

Thats the answer.

Having a wank would just make me feel even worse then what i do cause the fact that she is there and is just being bit of an arse to be honest. I mean why do girls think we masturbate so much...It's only cause if we get one we just need to do something about it to be fair. My haveing the high sex drive that i have is kinda annoying aswell. She know's about it cause i told her and she said it is fine and so forth. I mean it gets to the point sometimes that she don't even find me attractive in that way no more. and just get's me down and in general makes me feel like shit?

[b'mouth trials]

Im screwed...HELP ME

LONG STORY SHORT.....Went to a party last night and ive been kinda seeing this girl (laura) so we wernt properly together but kinda hugging and kissing occasionally.

Meanwhile, the last week or so ive been having serious problems with my ex as someone told her i was kinda seeing laura (who she works with) and she didnt like itatall and said to laura i was "out of bounds" even though she got with my mate the other week and just messed him around so they split.

Next, me and laura were just sat down chilling, next thing i know my mates are telling me that i really need to go and talk to my ex because shes crying! So i went and saw her, just me and her in this room and then she unloads the biggest problem of my life....shes pregnant...

She said she took one test and it was positive and another said negative and shes quite late...

I told her to make a appointment straight away with the doctor and we would see what happens, but she still kept having a go at me about laura.

Now i dont know if shes lying and just trying to get me back as when she told me this she'd had a bottle of wine and was an emotional wreck. im really really scared and dont know what to do, should i tell my mum? i dont know.

its really hard to get a grasp of the situation the way ive typed it because im a tard but theres a chance she is lying and a chance she is pregnant. She has been known to lie quite alot before and shes a skitz when drunk.

PLEASE READ THIS, I REALLY NEED SOME HELP. Anyone been in this situation before?

Any help atall, words cannot describe how appreciative i would be...

Cheers, Aaron.

[Fixed Pants™]

Given the circumstances she's blates bullshitting.

[Caleb]

the wonders of been a jaffa

but on a serious note a friend of mine was in a similar situation but beam more extreme, overdosed etc, i rckon she'll be lying to mess you up out of spite or jealousy, if she's serious aout it surely she'd have noobjeection about going to the doctors with you?

i wouldnt worry mate she'll be telling porkies imo

[Bucky]

she dumped me last week.

yesterday she kissed me and said she wants to get back together and misses me.

saw her last night walking through town holding hands with a guy(not just messing abou u know?)

so i asked her to meet me in town when she'd finished. so i waited for her to see what she had to say

then shes txts me at 3am saying shes been doing cocaine and gona stay out all night.

wtf?? she is sooo getting f**ked off now.

[Walleee]

she dumped me last week.

yesterday she kissed me and said she wants to get back together and misses me.

saw her last night walking through town holding hands with a guy(not just messing abou u know?)

so i asked her to meet me in town when she'd finished. so i waited for her to see what she had to say

then shes txts me at 3am saying shes been doing cocaine and gona stay out all night.

wtf?? she is sooo getting f**ked off now.

I'd literally just leave it. If she get in touch with you tell her you want nothing more to do with her. Don't get angry or anything, just calmy tell her not to call you again.

but you might want to get back with her but if she's doing that you don't want to have anything to do with her, if she's not doing that you still dont want anything to do with her cos she's obviously trying to manipulate you.

[Hendrix]

HELLPPP!!

I think I'm about lose the girl I want. Last nights party was a sign to me that she doesn't like my physically or mentally anymore.

ANY IDEAS ?! - Flowers - Chocolates. I have £40... ANYTHING!

I can't bare to loose her!

[b'mouth trials]

the wonders of been a jaffa

but on a serious note a friend of mine was in a similar situation but beam more extreme, overdosed etc, i rckon she'll be lying to mess you up out of spite or jealousy, if she's serious aout it surely she'd have noobjeection about going to the doctors with you?

i wouldnt worry mate she'll be telling porkies imo

Her excuse for not wanting to see a doc was that she didnt like him which i guess is understandable if your a girl in that situation but im still in two minds, dont know what to do..text her?

[Caleb]

ring her then, text really wouldnt be appropriate, or just turn up at her house, and ask her whats going on

[ogre]

HELLPPP!!

I think I'm about lose the girl I want. Last nights party was a sign to me that she doesn't like my physically or mentally anymore.

ANY IDEAS ?! - Flowers - Chocolates. I have £40... ANYTHING!

I can't bare to loose her!

find someone else, if she doesn't like you physically or mentally anymore you;'d be wasting your money+time on something that won't last long, go spend your £40 on another cheapy bike+make lame movies for tf?

[anzo]

HELLPPP!!

I think I'm about lose the girl I want. Last nights party was a sign to me that she doesn't like my physically or mentally anymore.

ANY IDEAS ?! - Flowers - Chocolates. I have £40... ANYTHING!

I can't bare to loose her!

Wouldn't waste your money to be honest mate. You can't buy love and if you try you'll only regret it at a massive expense...plus if she latches on to what you're trying to do then its another tool for her.

Edited April 29, 2007 by anzo