RR_Trials Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Ok, well i made a topic a while back about self hypnosis, i am finding myself getting increasingly angry with my girlfriend over stupid things that myself and herself both know are extremely stupid. Problem is, even though i know this i find myself shouting and getting VERY upset about these things. I know that i have a short temper which was passed on from my dad.Please can somebody that has the same sort of *problem?* give me some tips/pointers.On how to not upset her and myself with these pointless arguments.Cheers, Rorz! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Before your going to 'explode' with your anger, go for a walk or something. When people say take a deep breath, it actually works. Try it next time, if there is a next time.I used to like completely flip when I got annoyed, and found myself sprinting really hard. Almost like self punishment for being a twat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JT! Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Ok, well i made a topic a while back about self hypnosis, i am finding myself getting increasingly angry with my girlfriend over stupid things that myself and herself both know are extremely stupid. Problem is, even though i know this i find myself shouting and getting VERY upset about these things. I know that i have a short temper which was passed on from my dad.Please can somebody that has the same sort of *problem?* give me some tips/pointers.On how to not upset her and myself with these pointless arguments.Cheers, Rorz!Just stop being an ass. Not exactly the advice your looking for, but it's just that easy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fathopper Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Well my girl trouble is how do i get one? Just broke up with one but want another one any ideas on how to go about it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Just stop being an ass. Not exactly the advice your looking for, but it's just that easy.sensitive soul isn't he I think I know what sort of thing rorz is talking about. It took me & the missus about 3 or 4 years to stop fighting over stupid shit - the sort of silly little thing that inevitably escalates into to fights about completely unrelated stuff you're never going to resolve ( having ex-girlfriends stay the night in your bed, shagging nurses etc) The secret (so far) is basically to bite your tongue and bugger off out for a walk - women hold grudges so there's no way you can both just have a rant, chuck some stuff about and forget about it before teatime - even if you can calm down once the fury is unleashed she won't be able to. good luck anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RR_Trials Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Before your going to 'explode' with your anger, go for a walk or something. When people say take a deep breath, it actually works. Try it next time, if there is a next time.I used to like completely flip when I got annoyed, and found myself sprinting really hard. Almost like self punishment for being a twat.I'm going to give this ago, i also find myself punishing myself too, punching walls etc .Just stop being an ass. Not exactly the advice your looking for, but it's just that easy.I don't think it is as easy as you think, but cheers anyway.sensitive soul isn't he I think I know what sort of thing rorz is talking about. It took me & the missus about 3 or 4 years to stop fighting over stupid shit - the sort of silly little thing that inevitably escalates into to fights about completely unrelated stuff you're never going to resolve ( having ex-girlfriends stay the night in your bed, shagging nurses etc) The secret (so far) is basically to bite your tongue and bugger off out for a walk - women hold grudges so there's no way you can both just have a rant, chuck some stuff about and forget about it before teatime - even if you can calm down once the fury is unleashed she won't be able to. good luck anyway I hope my relationship lasts like yours. I'm going to take your advice too. Cheers for all the help.Rorz! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt_Zoot Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Well my girl trouble is how do i get one? Just broke up with one but want another one any ideas on how to go about it?Do you just want to get laid or do you want to be nagged 24/7 for leaving work shirts on bedroom floor, ties in kitchen, dvd's out of cases, pizza on plate in front room etc etc etc...If you just want to get laid then the easiest way is to hang about (staying fairly sober) in the middle of town on a Friday or Saturday night. Some drunk bird will bound to be gagging for it. You sweep her off her feet, taker her home, and ride her like Seabiscuit!If you want the latter then I think you need your head tested my friend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hendrix Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 My girl trouble is long an tedious - fancy reading in - and helping me out on this one ?Basically - last Tuesday - I went to a beach party where this girl was, and we were dating at that point. She was grabbing other boys, and flirting in front of me. I went on an angry ride - and ended up really screwing my frame on my BMX up. I came back about 30 mins later to find out why she hadn't said much to me, why she was doing stuff, and all was settled. We hung out, went into the arcades, spent £30 to get £6 back, the usual.We then got on out way back, I stuck with my mate, whom I hindered with a paper route. - During which, I sprung a major leak on my BMX, to top it all off - it lasted JUST to his house. We thought we'd fixed it, but it went again very soon after. I thought screw it, and went flat out anyway (ish).It must have been a good few miles on a flat - till we got to the house where the evening party was. Motto - don't ride on a flat, screws your inner tube to belief!When I got there, she was fairly drunk, and I was a bit worried. The boys that had been there earlier that day - were basically taking advantage. Not long after we'd been there, I found her making out with someone else. I was close to throwing them both out of the window - but to be honest it wasn't his fault! Lots of the boys there started taking advantage! - All except Chris, you know who you are dude!I was close to going mental, all was going fuzzy. She started crying, and was going to walk home, in the dark, with a load of chavs about - she had really lost it!Later that night I got a text saying sorry.Later that week, Sat/Sunday - I saw her again. She was getting her ear spaced, but chickened out at the last minute. For some reason, maybe the trials riding we'd been doing, or the heat made me quite snappy, and I snapped at her basically. She got rather annoyed with this, and we kind of broke the whole thing off.We agreed to start all over again - after a 60 minute Landline to Mobile call!I thought all was okay again - till tonight when I got some alarming texts through!She said"I'm Sorry"in the first oneIn the second one she said "for what I'm about to do"None of this really hit home til I talked to one of her friends, when it started to sound like her "Final Goodbye"..Now - Am I flipping out - or should I jump on the bike tomorrow, and go straight over to make sure she's okay ?!I couldn't bare to lose her any way as a gf, or a mate.Please help me out with this Long Sad and disturbing tale!Thanks,Hendrix Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Get round her house now and sort it out. If shes telling the truth she wont just text you and then wait til tomorrow to top herself.unless ive got the rong end of the stick and by the final goodbye you mean shes gonna dump you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Get some back bone you 'unt.Shes f**king you about, i would of got rid of the silly bint the exact point she kissed another bloke.As for the threatening suicide, just be like "go on, i dare you". They always do it for the sympathy, and always expect what you are doing now to happen, to run around aimlessly worried and still care for her. Don't.Forget about her and find some other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hendrix Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 I just don't want anyone to be hurt - especially not her, as she was my first - if you know what I mean I'm just worried, that's all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fathopper Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Right my other problem is well my ex i kinda want her back, but I cant remember why i broke up with her I just kinda felt we didnt click, and everything she was saying to me i was in one ear and out the other, is not clicking a reason for spliting even though i think i want her back, maybe im not ready for a relationship someone on here has gotta have been through this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Nick Riviera Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 bitter Simon? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 bitter Simon?he's been warned about hanging round the local comprehensive at lunchtimes again - poor bugger's not had any for weeks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Papasnap Maher Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 he's been warned about hanging round the local comprehensive at lunchtimes again - poor bugger's not had any for years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 he's been warned about hanging round the local comprehensive at lunchtimes again - poor bugger's not had any for weeks He took some pics of me the other day riding with my top off, he wont stop going on about how much he wants to meet up with me again. He even referred to me as a 'buff ting'. Whatever that is? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt_Zoot Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Right my other problem is well my ex i kinda want her back, but I cant remember why i broke up with her I just kinda felt we didnt click, and everything she was saying to me i was in one ear and out the other, is not clicking a reason for spliting even though i think i want her back, maybe im not ready for a relationship someone on here has gotta have been through this?Dude, what the bejeezus are you playing at? Don't get back with her. If it didn't work the first time, is it really gonna work now? You're best off going out n giving the old chap a bit of action. I had this all last summer and it ended up ruining it. From my experience, the reason you want her back is probably because it was easy and comfortable when you were together, I mean, you didn't have to impress her, you both just got on with it, that kind of thing. You miss the ease of it all. Now you're single you miss the 'married life'. Dont be fooled! Hope this helps!MattI feel like Jeremy Kyle! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 bitter Simon?Not really, kinda would of thought your girlfriend kissing and touching up other blokes would be a good enough reason to sack that shit in, common sense and all, but obviously it isn't? Poopipe, nah, 2 weeks to be precise... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 Not really, kinda would of thought your girlfriend kissing and touching up other blokes would be a good enough reason to sack that shit in, common sense and all, but obviously it isn't? Poopipe, nah, 2 weeks to be precise... oh yeah - half term wasn't it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alan Posted April 16, 2007 Report Share Posted April 16, 2007 oh yeah - half term wasn't it f**king legend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted April 17, 2007 Report Share Posted April 17, 2007 f**king legend!Er, that was the joke...If it took Poopipe to say it for you to realize, you're a bit slow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Nick Riviera Posted April 17, 2007 Report Share Posted April 17, 2007 don't worry Simon, there's always pride in a few months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Jones Posted April 19, 2007 Report Share Posted April 19, 2007 Jeee effort, officially a 3 month break from girls.Espeacially ones that are way to flirty, cos i get jealouse easily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted April 20, 2007 Report Share Posted April 20, 2007 (edited) ass. Edited May 30, 2007 by Davetrials Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tylerlovesalex Posted April 20, 2007 Report Share Posted April 20, 2007 BAHHHHHHHHHH WOMEN SUCK! THERE ONLY OUT THERE TO HEART U!thats better love u guys hahaha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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