SamKidney Posted January 3, 2016 Report Share Posted January 3, 2016 My ex used to be on her phone allllll the time. Really wound me up. I was guilty of maybe spending a little too long on mine on a few occasions but hers was never out of her hand, just scrolling through facebook and sharing random shit. Seems like theres a tiny lack of respect for the company she was with... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 1 hour ago, trials owns said: yes very true dan, im going to mention it & drop some hints, i trust her and dont mind who shes chats too but when im there i just don't seem like her full attention. its not me, she does it around everyone, maybe she sorta addicted to socal media and doesn't realise it? We need pics anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 Yeah, post a photo or two then we can help you. That's how this thread works. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 Don't beat around the bush mate, just be straight up. Spending time with someone and then having them sit on their phone is f**king irritating. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 Young man problems. Just tell her to put it away, any adult would respect that request, unless they're not worth socialising with. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 I just can't help but feel pics might help this situation though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 I don't know what's going on but I heard pics so I came in here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 I heard talk of pics but didn't see any so went incognito for twenty five minutes. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 4, 2016 Report Share Posted January 4, 2016 You spell 2 minutes really strangely Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 well, so far today was a good day.( I am not going to bore you with the details look at happy thread) and now I just asked a girl out on a date on Facebook. Nothing pushing, just asked whether she would be up for a tea or coffee sometimes. and now we wait.... but I feel like I have a small chance for success. at least I can try, I mean what is the worst that can happen? (I think I am about to find it out ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 Exactly, what have you got to lose? good luck dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 Depending on the girl, potentially your dignity and your self respect. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 22 minutes ago, Tony Harrison said: Depending on the girl, potentially your dignity and your self respect. I cannot lose what I do not have ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) The thing is I got a maybe answer. so this weekend she works at full nights at a nightclub so daytime she is not available (I was working nightshifts too, so like I understand it) and next week she is away to london, so we might meet after. yeah, I say might, ill try to make it happen though 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted January 15, 2016 Report Share Posted January 15, 2016 Just don't be too persistent because generally it will work against you. It's better to ask out lots of girls once than ask out one girl lots of times. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted January 16, 2016 Report Share Posted January 16, 2016 11 hours ago, HippY said: I cannot lose what I do not have ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Smoooth as you like. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeff costello Posted January 16, 2016 Report Share Posted January 16, 2016 (edited) as a beginner you probably don't want to start with girls who work at nightclubs... those are pro-level. Edited January 16, 2016 by jeff costello 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross McArthur Posted January 18, 2016 Report Share Posted January 18, 2016 On 15/01/2016 at 6:54 PM, Skoze said: Exactly, what have you got to lose? His virginity. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 18, 2016 Report Share Posted January 18, 2016 3 hours ago, Ross McArthur said: His virginity. nah, it has been sorted by Dan bae On 1/15/2016 at 7:56 PM, Tony Harrison said: Just don't be too persistent because generally it will work against you. It's better to ask out lots of girls once than ask out one girl lots of times. Thing is, I will not, and I do not want to try to force it or something. plan is next week I drop her a message or if I see her if she would still up for it, if she is not, then okay, and just stop trying. I have many more important things to do, rather than chasing girls. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross McArthur Posted January 19, 2016 Report Share Posted January 19, 2016 15 hours ago, HippY said: I have many more important things to do, rather than chasing girls. I would lead with that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamKidney Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 Still can't get over her. Oddly enough I spent Valentine's Day with her, talking over everything and just spending some time with her, but nothing lovey dovey. It was so so good to see her, and to be able to have a laugh with her again. But now I miss her more so. I really, really f**king miss her and it feels like I'm ripping myself apart thinking about her, about all the happy times we had and the seemingly impossible chance of ending up with her again. I guess I really was/am in love with her, and it's the worst feeling for it not to be reciprocated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 I think spending valentines day with her was the worst thing you could have done man. You should have done this what I said "Hope you've deleted her from Facebook and everything mate." You're beating yourself up over something that happened a few months ago. If you'd have deleted her, cut off all contact you would have gradually forgotten about her and consequently been happier now. Trust me, i've been there, done that. You saw how besotted I was with Grace right? (just forgot her name! That shows how much better it becomes) You even met her at radfest didn't you? Actually yes you did she took this sexy pic of you haha I know it's very cliché of me to say but you need to get on Tinder or a platform where you can talk to girls (youporn fake pop up chat boxes don't count) and just get out there. My best mate has just split up with his girlfriend of 3 years and after a phone call with me I got him to get Tinder and even just to talk to girls, not even flirty, it's refreshing and fun and will definitely take your mind off everything and make you realise that there's actually more to life than being upset over one girl. He's now had a few dates with other people and doesn't even think about his ex now. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 ^ This. You're dragging out the pain, when the bee stings, remove the stinger! (That sounds like I mean have her killed, don't do that, that's too far) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamKidney Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 I feel better for getting to see her and speak to her. I only twigged it was Valentine's Day a few hours in, I've never been one for recognising it as a day to make a point of anyway. Just shit that I still feel for her and have to keep dealing with it. It's obviously refreshed my mind and it's feeling raw again. I've tried tinder, etc: it's not for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 On 19/07/2010 at 8:33 PM, dann2707 said: So I've been talking to one of her best mates instead, who's good looking, just the right shape I look for in a girl, she actually asks about me and doesn't let me do all the questioning and I think she's quite into me as we're off to see toy story 3 together. Snuggles all round. The girl above, nicole, went out with said girls brother. Ha xx I just want to quote that 6 year ago me is an incredible read now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 Sam, seriously take everyone's advice, it's obviously easier said than done but we've all been there and it'll tear you apart moving on, but that's far better than prolonging it. For reference I dragged this shit out on and off with my ex over a period of 3 years. Don't bother. It led to 3 years of depression and withdrawal, which is quite a lot of life to waste. You'll notice that aside from everyone telling you to move on, that we're all considerably better off and happier for doing so. Stop hurting yourself. It's over. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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