george_seamons Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 ...and then when she does come home, she doesn't even want to live with you anyway, she wants to live at her parents. Sorry dude, but I agree with the others, Being away for 6 months has probably opened her eyes, and she has seen the "enlightenment" that all the people that go travelling seem to yap on about. She probably wants to live in the rainforest and travel around on a bicycle made of bamboo or some shit like that. Love is blind, as they say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 Just to add some balance to the discussion, I'm going to just go with "ignore people on the Internet (to an extent),wait for her to get home and just see what happens". Let her get home, things settle down then have whatever chat you may or may not need to have. Having half a discussion with someone halfway round the globe to then stick snippets of one side of it on a bike forum and take the resulting advice is never going to be entirely representative. Edit: I'm not saying anything has/hasn't happened and I'm not saying it'll all be perfect when she gets back, mind. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 You guys are such drama. It's hilarious. She's home on Friday, quit your bitching on about breaking up with her haha! She's just having a few jitters about returning to normality. If she has been unable to mind f**k me whilst she has been in Oz you guys certainly won't be able to. You've got to go into something like this with trust, if you can't trust someone you can't understand the feeling of trusting someone who is on the other side of the world. I think you guys have totally missed the point, because you are too busy trying to predict doom and gloom for me. She doesn't mince about, and she doesn't waste time. If she didn't want to be with me, she would have said so and gone off and had all the cock she wanted. And if she had felt for a moment that being tied to me whilst she was traveling then she would have said and done something about it a long time ago. You know she's nearly 30 right? We're not talking some 19 year old bimbo who doesn't know that she has a voice. You guys are so quick to judge and comment, but really you haven't got a scooby about my circumstances or hers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 If you post stuff on the internet, people will have an opinion. From what you've posted on here, I'd say people have made a pretty accurate view of the situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 If you post stuff on the internet, people will have an opinion. From what you've posted on here, I'd say people have made a pretty accurate view of the situation. But you guys have all missed the point... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 (edited) Ok, you don't want opinions, so I'll stick with the fact: You posted in the Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread about a problem. Then you're just going to tell everyone who acts as a communal agony aunt that they're wrong? I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, you included, but I am saying that you invite opinion by posting in here - especially when you ask a question in that post. Don't be a dick about hearing responses. I have a saying I like to try to live by, and you might like it too. Or you might not. Either way: "Don't ask questions you don't want to hear the answer to." Edit: too slow, apparently. However, what the f**k IS your point? Edited January 25, 2015 by JD™ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 Just to add some balance to the discussion, I'm going to just go with "ignore people on the Internet (to an extent),wait for her to get home and just see what happens". Let her get home, things settle down then have whatever chat you may or may not need to have. Having half a discussion with someone halfway round the globe to then stick snippets of one side of it on a bike forum and take the resulting advice is never going to be entirely representative. Edit: I'm not saying anything has/hasn't happened and I'm not saying it'll all be perfect when she gets back, mind. tr-tri-tri-triple post But you guys have all missed the point... it is a generally rule of thumb on the internet : do not post personal problems on the internet unless you want to hear many biased opinions. Everyone here tries to look at the problem at their point of view, but the fact is no one has any feelings here for your girlfriend, apart from you, and at the end it is your call to write your feelings here it is a good place though, as it is a good community Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 My post was simply that she doesn't want to live with me when she gets back because she wants to go traveling again in the summer and I don't think it's very fair. She doesn't want to split up with me. She hasn't cheated on me. I can't help that you guys have over active imaginations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 My post was simply that she doesn't want to live with me when she gets back because she wants to go traveling again in the summer and I don't think it's very fair. She doesn't want to split up with me. She hasn't cheated on me. I can't help that you guys have over active imaginations. I would say( with my great great experience /sarcasm ) that wait for Friday and talk to her. We are just bunch of guys over the internet, it is your relationship, it is you who should talk about it and sort it out 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 She probably hasn't cheated, nor is she hell bent on avoiding you - just enjoying herself while she can I reckon. Talk to her properly, explain how you're feeling, if she still wants to go, maybe try going with her even if it's just for a month somewhere as a tester for something longer. Just don't be a bell and hopefully she wont be either. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 She probably hasn't cheated, nor is she hell bent on avoiding you - just enjoying herself while she can I reckon. Talk to her properly, explain how you're feeling, if she still wants to go, maybe try going with her even if it's just for a month somewhere as a tester for something longer. Just don't be a bell and hopefully she wont be either. This was entirely my plan anyway, I was only using the TF Agony Aunt as a sounding wall to rant about something annoying. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 You need a car to play with to take your mind off things - who needs a kitchen anyway?! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 ...wtf? Problem? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 Also just figured out why my ex of 4 years didn't work out, incase any of you saw that f**king essay of a post. She didn't like pizza. Also a girl I was seeing for a while I kinda called things off cause she was mental. She didn't like pizza either. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 She doesn't want to split up with me. No, she wants it both ways, which ultimately leaves you spending half your life/wages feathering a nest for her to come back to (or not). Although I've no doubt that the reason she's been acting unusual is because she's tried to break up with you and bottled it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 (edited) Jardo you were the one doing exactly what the others are doing when I had my issues with my ex a year a go! Infact iirc you were the worst for it! Personally I would just wait until she is back, sit her down and talk to her properly. Not all this over the phone, skype bollocks that can really confuse matters. Sitting with her and talking her through how you're feeling will help so much as you'll be able to tell by her body language what she is and isn't comfortable with - like when you know someone is upset just by the way they're sat/ facial expressions sort of thing. I think then you'll be able to tell what she wants from it all. I personally couldn't stand someone who just drastically changes their plan like that as you don't know where they stand with you. It was a while back but the whole track day ruining thing shows what she can be like, and deep down shows what she is like. Totally reminds me of my ex where she wouldn't let me go out with my friends without trying to ruin it. Every f**king time. It's a control thing. As Jolfa thing, it's when they want it both ways and can't find the line. Edited January 25, 2015 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 26, 2015 Report Share Posted January 26, 2015 Talking to her today and everything is fine and perfect... Sometimes I wonder if my interpretation of things is the biggest problem? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartMini Posted January 26, 2015 Report Share Posted January 26, 2015 so what was the actual outcome? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
george_seamons Posted January 26, 2015 Report Share Posted January 26, 2015 Jardo is a problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 26, 2015 Report Share Posted January 26, 2015 so what was the actual outcome? Didn't even mention it. She knows I'm not happy about it, so it is up to her what she does about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trials owns Posted February 8, 2015 Report Share Posted February 8, 2015 Haha no worries, it's almost an art to master in a weird way and sorta a lil bit harder being deaf as most people can get a number and call it, meet in a pub/restaurant and not worry about mishearing etc etc. Feel free to steal the bio or change it completely, you're from Devon and I'm in the South East so they wouldn't see both of us anyway . Well the current one I've been talking to about pizza for a few days, started off by asking if she liked humous and had ever tried licking it off a cock. She stopped talking then a few days later I said "My cock is covered in humous come help me clean up please", then she goes on to say I have an obsession with humous. At that moment my inner pizza came out and said "Noooo. Honestly Pizza is the obsession. Srs please tell me you like pizza." Now we're kinda talking about meeting up and making a pizza with a humous base. Sounds weird but, think how many guys they're gonna have saying like "Hey pretty, how you doing today?". Literally the worst thing to do, be different. cheers buddy for the reply good advice! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 8, 2015 Report Share Posted February 8, 2015 I swear Devon only gets the internet every other week 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trials owns Posted February 8, 2015 Report Share Posted February 8, 2015 dam straight, proper farmers down ere! lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted February 8, 2015 Report Share Posted February 8, 2015 We have it permanently, it's just so flippin' slow it takes a week to post a reply 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duncy H Posted February 9, 2015 Report Share Posted February 9, 2015 Taking a lass out on a first date valentines day a good or bad idea? (I don't buy into the commercialness rubbish of it myself) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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