Luke Rainbird Posted December 7, 2014 Report Share Posted December 7, 2014 Bloody hippies. Edit; Surely the absolute dream would be a chick with neck-down *alopecia. Bloody phone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted December 7, 2014 Report Share Posted December 7, 2014 Classic autocorrect there... Haha. Unless Appalachia is a real thing and you didn't mean alopecia, of course! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted December 7, 2014 Report Share Posted December 7, 2014 Bloody hippies. excuse me? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted December 7, 2014 Report Share Posted December 7, 2014 excuse me? You'd need to have seen a vagina to be part of this conversation, feinting at the thought of one doesn't count. So he can't possibly mean you 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 Jardo remember me telling you a while back about her cheating -Shes trying to tell you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 (edited) Jardo remember me telling you a while back about her cheating -Shes trying to tell you Or, why don't you f**k off you crack smoking c*nt. Nobody likes you? Why do you even come on here? Edited December 8, 2014 by Pashley26 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 Im just letting you know thats all..I actualy like to warn people well in advance of misfortunes. I come on here because i ride trials bikes...And sometimes like to spread a little truth here and there...(even though people tend to laugh ) Thats cool though ive done my bit by pre-warning. Im not too botherd if im not well recieved by the majority...The few friends i have here are all i need . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 .I will how ever Leave permenantly I have over stayed my welcome by a country mile.....Thats very obvious.....See jardo i do care about other people.. Il end it on a positive note Merry christmas and a happy new year . 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 The few friends i have here are all i need . They aren't real, and can be found outside the forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 Im just letting you know thats all..I actualy like to warn people well in advance of misfortunes. I come on here because i ride trials bikes...And sometimes like to spread a little truth here and there...(even though people tend to laugh ) Thats cool though ive done my bit by pre-warning. Im not too botherd if im not well recieved by the majority...The few friends i have here are all i need . Letting me know what exactly? Do you behave this way in the real world? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted December 8, 2014 Report Share Posted December 8, 2014 Just leave him Jardo. He lives in another universe, and he's quite welcome to it. He can sit there on his high horse looking down on us all, while we crack on with our little lives. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted December 9, 2014 Report Share Posted December 9, 2014 crack 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe O'Connor Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 I've gone through a lot of crap with my girlfriend. If you remember some of my posts from earlier in the year I talked about how she has had a shocking upbringing and has a lot of issues, if you cant remember I'll go over it a bit. Pretty much she was taken from Florida to NZ by her uncle because her parents where druggies. Spent about 7 years being sent to different foster homes, most of them really bad ones who didnt care about her. Had a very messy break up with a long term boyfriend and tried to commit suicide. Since we have been dating I have spent countless hours convincing her that she is worth something and that she is a good person. Back in the middle of the year she hit rock bottom and threatened to off herself again. I stopped anything from happening and after a long time gave her another chance, because I knew she was worth it. As a result of thinking she had lost me, and me not giving up on her, she has changed drastically and is an amazing person. She still has a lot of independence and walls but she isnt the self hating girl she used to be. Our relationship was going great for a long time, but slowly the passion was dying off until it got to the point where the most intimacy was a kiss good night. I've been going through a lot of personal stuff and not knowing what I was doing with my life and have been pretty low, I went to my brothers wedding and got extremely jealous at how amazing his relationship with his now wife was. I ended up breaking up with my girlfriend two weeks ago because I thought there was no hope for us, we were doing nothing and there was tension building between us. I didnt want to hurt her or get hurt so I thought I had to end it ASAP. A few days later we spoke about it all and every thing I hated about what was wrong with our relationship, she also hated. She wanted to work on it. Because I love her and want us to work I agreed that we could take it real slowly and try repair crap. The issue is, half of me wants it to work out but the other half feels nothing. Its like I have pretty much given up and want to be alone, but every time I think about not being with her I think its a horrible mistake. I know that I need time to sort my crap out, and I cant promise her that I will get back the passion I once had for her, no matter how much I want to. That sucks a huge amount because its extremely hard on her having a big MAYBE over our relationship. I dont know what to do. Give up or keep trying. I've spent a year giving it all I have. Change is happening for the better, but its happening so slow I dont know if I can last, or if I should try and last..... Sorry for the extremely patchy and all over the show post, but yeah. I have no idea what Im doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Nobody can really help you mate, you need to decide how you really feel. We can all preach about how our relationships are, but only you know what yours is really like. It does like a tricky situation, perhaps you need to change your mindset and give it a go, or if you can't do that, it's probably because you know it's not worth it - that's a decision that only you can make imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 I think what I can fathom from your post, deep down you're ready to let it go. I'd say go with your heart mate and find someone who makes you happy equally as much as they make you happy rather than someone you *have* to make happy all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewEH1 Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Are you only trying again because you are worried what might happen to her without you there to look after her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Are you only trying again because you are worried what might happen to her without you there to look after her? I realised with a gf like that once that there's only so much you can do. We all have problems. We can choose to be victims, disempower ourselves and be miserable expecting the world to change for us, or we can choose to be survivors and work with what we've got. Life's to short to try to drag someone else along with you. Sticking the knife in the one you love is hard. But ultimately there are millions more suitable women out there. It's easy to feel like this is some big upheaval, and it is, but in 3 months you'll feel better, and then in 6 you'll be with someone you're more stable and happy with. It'll be like a new life with someone, and you'll be glad that the hardship you endured led to something good. The older I get, the less time I feel I can give to people who have a negative impact on my life. And I try to weigh it up with the here and the now, not try to keep a relationship going because of what happened once upon a time, or how things were. People change, the world changes, life takes us in new directions. Personally I think you're better off without her. As Mike says, it's easy to preach though. I clung on to several girlfriends for far too long - in other cases maybe I was the negative one bringing her down. But if you can endure losing the comfort and security of someone you know, you may end up way better off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted December 27, 2014 Report Share Posted December 27, 2014 (edited) Haha. So I can't log into iTunes. The guy from Apple Support chat was just chatting to me to pass the time because I had to wait five minutes for a support pin to generate and he needed to elevate my issue to a senior advisor. He asked me how Christmas was and he hoped I spent it with loved ones. A bit odd, but ho hum might as well chat to the stranger about my Christmas. So I told him. I think I just got agony aunt-ed by Apple Support? So I said, 'is that to fix the girlfriend issue, or the iTunes log in.' He said 'I'm sorry Sir, I need to elevate your iTunes log in to a senior advisor.' He's clearly giving me life advice, legend. Edited December 27, 2014 by Pashley26 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Has HippY made a Reddit account? (No offence intended, apologies if it causes any) 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Hahahahah that is so Hippy!! That's incredible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Women do confuse me sometimes. Before she went travelling she was hugely unhappy because she felt like there was no space at home, she didn't have any free time, her mum was stressing her out, working 24/7 at the pub life was just a wash rinse repeat of "get up, go to work with parents and be stressed out all day, come home, go to work, go home again, be stressed out by parents again. Come and see me, moan at me about it all the time and not have a good time because she was stressed, back to parents and repeat." So now that the travelling is coming to a close, and she is on her way back next weekend, even though I've worked really hard preparing a lovely house that we can both spend as much time as we want in, is so cheap she doesn't have to rush into a job and will be the answer to all of her prior problems... Apparently she is going to work at the pub again and carry on juggling life between parents, me and most importantly what she wants. Why are women incapable of understanding that if you keep doing what you've always done, you will always get what you've always got. I find it very odd. It doesn't annoy me, I've got my lovely house and I will be super happy there. But what will annoy me is the constant moaning about something that she can change so easily. I know that as soon as she realises how stress free and great I have it she will want to get involved. It just confuses me why she can't see that now. /rant. No further input required really. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewEH1 Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Women do confuse me sometimes. /rant. No further input required really. Woman... I had similar issues with my ex. In the end I realised that you can't force a decision, even if you know that it is the right one for her. Just be there to try her make her as happy as possible really. Also, I can't see the image you posted previously! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pashley26 Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 I'm being ignored now because in response to her declaring "I will have to work really hard and live at my parents so I can save enough money to go backpacking across Europe in summer" I said... "You have just spent 6 months in Australia leaving me here twiddling my thumbs and spending thousands renovating a house for us to live in that you don't seem to give a f**k about, if you're going to just run off again when you get back then say so now so I can go and find myself a girlfriend that isn't a selfish twat." Apparently that's an unreasonable reply? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 Yep. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 Has HippY made a Reddit account? (No offence intended, apologies if it causes any) Hahahahah that is so Hippy!! That's incredible. I know what a potato is! I will give it a good read after I come back from work anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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