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Sounds like she was just talking to you dude...

please do not crush my dreams that there was 1 cute girl who flirted with me this year. thanks

on a side not my ex just messaged me that she was dreaming about me and she is missing me wtf

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Little story here

i was at this competition and there was this girl who won previously, and we talked she laughed at my silly jokes, but sometimes she just left....

as it turned out i can get her position in the competition if i get good scores, and everyone told me that i should win

her last text was about the medal, no answer since

what the actual fcuk?

Alot of guys commonly mistake this for flirting....Its nothing more than a friendly girl having a chat -Shes probably not talking to you because she has realised that you thought she was flirting with you .Now shes like ''Urghhhhhhhhh why do guys always hit on me because im nice and just like to talk to people./....It goes the other way too on the odd occasion.But guys tend to let women know they are interested in them in such a way that a girl recognises easily enough...

I know when a girls interested -The sub conscious mind cannot hide it :D because well its not being done consciously -But if you have a keen eye you

will be able to pick up on all the little hits she is unknowingly giving you ...

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Alot of guys commonly mistake this for flirting....Its nothing more than a friendly girl having a chat -Shes probably not talking to you because she has realised that you thought she was flirting with you .Now shes like ''Urghhhhhhhhh why do guys always hit on me because im nice and just like to talk to people./....It goes the other way too on the odd occasion.But guys tend to let women know they are interested in them in such a way that a girl recognises easily enough...

I know when a girls interested -The sub conscious mind cannot hide it :D because well its not being done consciously -But if you have a keen you you will be able to pick up on all the little hits she is unknowingly giveing you ...

Dude

I will tell you how to write a C code that works in no time

I will tell you how to design a PCB

but for girls I have no sense at all

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Dude

I will tell you how to write a C code that works in no time

I will tell you how to design a PCB

but for girls I have no sense at all

So baisicly your looking for a girlfriend? or what ever- with out knowing girls in general ?

Get down to the basics

Just go out and talk to girls be around girls with NO intention what so ever of pulling them.......get to know girls in general talk to them listen to them and observe how they interact with you and others ..Thats what you should be doing :)

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So baisicly your looking for a girlfriend? or what ever- with out knowing girls in general ?

Get down to the basics

Just go out and talk to girls be around girls with NO intention what so ever of pulling them.......get to know girls in general talk to them listen to them and observe how they interact with you and others ..Thats what you should be doing :)

I should do that, yeah

about observation part: I did that when I wanted to be a behavious psychologist, but that was the other side of the extreme.. but I move out more from my PC and see what happens :)

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  • 2 weeks later...

Women.

I haven't spoken to her for four days whilst she has been on Fraser Island.

She texts me saying "Hi."

I reply with "Hello! How's Australia? I take it you're off Fraser Island now?"

She replies with "great."

I didn't say anything, expecting a more detailed reply.

I get nothing.

Two minutes later. "I'm out and I haven't even washed my hair. Traveling is great."

I said "out out or just out? I wouldn't worry about, your hair has a mind of it's own anyway."

"Out."

So I said, getting annoyed at the lack of content in the conversation.

"You're talkative today. Hope everything is ok? Catch up later when you've got more time."

She said "I'm out with people and I don't want to seem rude."

All I can think is, why the f**k did you text me then?!

I don't need any comments on the above, I know why she text me. But the logic of it just doesn't make sense to me.

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Women logic.

She's dropped some right legendary shit lately...

Friday I'm at Brands Hatch, not spoken to her for a few days. I get a text at half 9 in the morning just as the day is kicking off.

''I really want to talk to you about something, but not when you're around all your friends.''

So I walk off so I'm not with all my mates, reply saying I'm on my own.

''No I will talk to you about it later.''

''Why can't you talk to me about it now?''

''Because I don't want to, I'm just contemplating something and I want your opinion on it.''

''Well why can't you ask me now?''

''No I'll talk to you later.''

So I spend all f**king morning worrying about what the f**k she wants to talk to me about. Nigh on ruining my day.

About 2PM we're having lunch, and she popped up as online on Messenger so I just sent her a message saying ''I don't know if it's a subconscious thing that women do, but how come there is a drama every time I have something planned, or a day for me lined up? Just tell me what ever you want to tell me so I can enjoy the rest of my day, because you've annihilated my morning.''

I get a reply twenty minutes later...

''Well I was thinking of getting a bikini wax because all the other girls are getting it done, what do you think?''

FOR f**k SAKE.

Fast forward to today.

I get a phone call from her, in floods of tears, almost entirely unable to produce a sentence.

So I'm freaking out like ''dafuq is happening?! Why all the tears?! What's happened?!''

''We watched Love Actually and I really miss you *insert grizzling*''

''Well why would you watch that film?!''

''I don't know...**insert more grizzling**''

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They're idiots.

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She's the least high maintenance person in the world ever. She'll quite happily go days on end without talking to me, she'd probably quite happily continue the rest of her life never talking to anybody again if I didn't convince her that wasn't healthy.

That's why I was so worried when she said she wants to talk to me, and why I find it so odd that she's ringing me up like some kind of f**king weirdo.

Oh well, she'll be back in a little over a month.

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