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Too long. 9 months probably.

It made me laugh to be honest. Shows how both of them really dont realise how unrealistic a 300 mile+ relationship is in their positions, especially when Ben can barely muster the energy to get his arse out of Shipley.

Chin up George, not worth being upset over x

Neither of them drive, he works full time earning very little and she works at a shitty corner shop now apparently. But hey whatever

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Been having SO many girl issues recently but never can be arsed to type it up.

Long story short.

Been speaking to a girl from Marlow since the start of this year, somehow found her on my contacts list on my phone, got talking, got on well and things went from there. Turned out we actually met a few months before that on a site like Tinder but I never really paid attention to it so forgot about it and felt like we'd met through my contacts list haha.

Been a rough rocky road, probably cause she's 16 and just started college. Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad I know. She's 17 soon so that makes me feel a bit better, I'm 19 for anyone who didn't know. Anyway I happened to get on with this girl from Tinder just by chance, I'm not active on that either. We spoke for a few weeks, she's a month younger than me, got on so well it was a bit bizarre. She came down from London to meet me, stayed the night then went home the next day. Nothing happened in bed, she actually kept her trousers on which I found so weird waking up in the morning and feeling them instead of bare legs haha. Ever since she was a bit off and has basically friendzoned me, which is f**king weird as we made out a fair bit, and she met my best mate whom said that we seemed to really connect. Strange, ah well.

Anyway before I met tinder girl, I "broke" things off with the 16 year old. We were really close but it was super complicated, wasn't a relationship at all but we were close enough to be in one. She wrote me a letter a few days after I'd basically asked for a break. This was on the 7th so a fortnight ago now, and I've realized that the girl from Marlow actually is kinda special. Written a letter back, but yeaahhhhh....

Not really asking for advice, just in a f**ked up situ haha.


& that turned out longer than expected.

Oh and if anyone has any idea whatsoever why London/tinder girl "friendzoned" me feel free to go ahead, she told me she realized that she was in a bit of a fantasy with how close we got and wanted to back off and focus on other things. Glad she told me sooner than later though.

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Theres nothing weird about sleeping with a girl making out and all that then just being friends....Ive put my self in those kind of situations to see how i really feel.Turns out alot of the women i thought i liked romanticly are just really good friends with whom i can have a kiss /cuddle with.

Jake 3 years is nothing man dont let the numbers game bother you

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Do you reckon the girl from London expected her ovaries to be non existent after coming to yours but as nothing happened she got a little disheartened or she tell you she didn't want anything to happen initially?

I did make a move and she suggested she wanted to wait until next time so I was like I guess she's kinda serious about getting close and taking things easy... She still talks just completely as friends, I tried to be a bit flirty the other day and she basically had a go saying I was being inappropriate hahaha

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I did make a move and she suggested she wanted to wait until next time so I was like I guess she's kinda serious about getting close and taking things easy... She still talks just completely as friends, I tried to be a bit flirty the other day and she basically had a go saying I was being inappropriate hahaha

Sounds like a sensible girl as it was the first time she met you I guess!

Shame she did that though about having a go :/ can't be on your level of humour then, I'd hate that if you were trying to have a laugh an they denied you haha

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Sounds like a sensible girl as it was the first time she met you I guess!

Shame she did that though about having a go :/ can't be on your level of humour then, I'd hate that if you were trying to have a laugh an they denied you haha

Haha yeah exactly, it's weird though as literally ALL her mates are guys. Gonna stay away I think haha.

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I had a similar situation where me and a girl met, arranged a date for the next evening, I stayed at hers and we didn't f'ck but did other stuff, then she got all funny and was saying stuff like things were happening too quick etc etc. So I said well let me know if you change your mind, and left it at that. I didn't chase anymore. I told her I didn't want to be friends with her (curiously she had lots of guy friends too, and it turned out that most of them really wanted to nob her, even though she was convinced they were just 'nice' guys - actually that was probably what they never got any...), only more than friends. Worst thing you can do is chase and act keen. Just say hey no problem, glad we had some fun, see you around, and go.

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(curiously she had lots of guy friends too, and it turned out that most of them really wanted to nob her, even though she was convinced they were just 'nice' guys - actually that was probably what they never got any...),

This is such a pain in a relationship. Had that before and if they don't realise it's even more of a pain.

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This girl was really lovely, but she worked with 10-12 guys, and they'd made her like some kind of surrogate sister (actually once I lived with a girl who was stoked when the rugby guys made her an 'honorary lad', which is guy speak for lets-form-a-pact-that-none-of-us-will-try-to-nob-her-cos-we'll-all-be-mad-jealous-if-one-of-us-does). The annoying thing was, this girl seemed to have some of her life dictated by them - a few of them were saying to her that it was too soon after her ex left her for her to get involved with someone else. And although she insisted she was independently minded, I couldn't help but feel they had too much influence. I was pretty straight with her, I said I want to date you, not them.

Then they started being f'cking weird, like there was a big storm or some shit, and about 6 of them turned up at her apartment to make sure she was alright. Then another one was knocking on her door all the time and she told me she had to pretend not to be in. All the time I was saying, you know, they clearly want something from you (she is ridiculously cute) but she insisted, oh no, they're just nice. And eventually a few of them each tried to ask her out and it all just looked pathetic. By this time I'd got fed up and barely any contact with her, but the whole thing sounded like a f'cking car crash in the making. As if I wanted this group of chumps getting jealous and trying to cock block me, which is actually what was going to happen.

Times like this, best bet is to move on. Hell of a lot more out there. The older I get the more I realise it's not worth getting hung up on any single girl at all. It's unlikely that out of all the girls in the world we'll ever meet the most suitable one (which is why it pisses me off when people say shit like how they were 'made for each other' etc), so if we're prepared to switch up and not be too quick to settle, things will work out ok.

I have a few more stories about girls generally being f'cking retarded, but I'll leave it there for now.

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That's incredible haha, I always find it amazing when a girl seems to have a bunch of guys at her disposal who all clearly like her and she's just mega friendly, attractive and tend to have a good sense of humour.

I was one of those guys for a few years in my school years, it's a tricky place to be in haha.

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I think girls like having guys around them, makes them feel special and wanted. Also have any of you ever found those girls on Tinder who seem a bit chatty but don't want to meet? Maybe it's an Asian thing, where they just seem to like having guys on WhatsApp to send all their selfies to. Then they get cagey about meeting up or say they want to 'chat' first even though they have nothing to say except 'that's nice' in reply to your messages.

Half the problem seems to be that women - it seems - want it all on a plate. They want the right guy to find them at the right time and say the right thing. Because should he fail to achieve this nigh-impossible combination, he's a 'creep' or he's 'trying to game' her or some other sh't.

It's a minefield out their lads...

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It's one of the most annoying things ever:

"No he's just a really nice guy!"

No, he's being really nice to you because he'd like to get an epic tit-wank off you. Wake up!

Sorry but no, I really take issue with this. You cannot stereotype all of the male gender. I'd much prefer a blowjob.

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