Muel Posted June 26, 2014 Report Share Posted June 26, 2014 (edited) Continuing on together as we were before, she's making way more of an effort. Yeeeeehhhhhhhh right. Edited June 26, 2014 by Muel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamKidney Posted June 26, 2014 Report Share Posted June 26, 2014 Kool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted June 26, 2014 Report Share Posted June 26, 2014 tomorrow I will move out and grab a beer in a new pub, where life suppose to start earlier (I can stay out till 10:30 thanks to trains) Hopefully it will be succesfull social and girl wise Aaand its official)(duh) Im sh:t at socialising Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 We all were at one time or another. Keep practicing, it gets easier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamR28 Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 On the flip side, some people just aren't that great at it and will always feel awkward (like me). There's nothing to say you have to do it, so if you can find someone / a couple of people who're in the same boat as you, you can get all the social contact you need just from a handful of friends. Don't feel like you have to force yourself to be Mr Outgoing Party Guy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 ^ True. You also don't need to be the centre of the party, loud and bold to get a girl - just be yourself and don't try too hard and one will come along. The harder you try the less likely it is to happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 Agree with both above, I'm shit in social situations with men and women. Don't know what to say and when I do say stuff it usually ends with me looking like a complete cock (can instantly name such a situation). Don't put so much pressure on meeting girls in a pub, are there any local clubs or groups you could join? Literally anything you have a bit of interest in, walking, cycling, climbing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 (edited) Agree with both above, I'm shit in social situations with men and women. Don't know what to say and when I do say stuff it usually ends with me looking like a complete cock (can instantly name such a situation). Don't put so much pressure on meeting girls in a pub, are there any local clubs or groups you could join? Literally anything you have a bit of interest in, walking, cycling, climbing? The only club i can think of is a pc club I should take a look at it Well yeah. I was never the centre of a gang or something. I think I should accept it And im trying hard with everyone as i should have somekind of social circle after 3yrs now Edited June 27, 2014 by HippY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 After I had an awesome day, i have been told that they have not seen someone as quickly progressing as me, jumped and sidehopped to BB height, and everyone checked my bike out, I went to the bus station. sat down and a cute girl was in front of me and she smiled at me And there I sat, frozen, nervous.... god dammit. I had an awesome day and it just made it obvious that I am sh;t with girls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 Don't put so much pressure on yourself, chances are (no offense) that she was just being polite. I smile at people I walk past when I'm going to the shops/on the school run/etc but I don't expect every one of them to ask me out or start chatting to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 Don't put so much pressure on yourself, chances are (no offense) that she was just being polite. I smile at people I walk past when I'm going to the shops/on the school run/etc but I don't expect every one of them to ask me out or start chatting to me. Smiling at the kids eh? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 Depends how fit their mum is 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 (edited) Unfit enough so you can outrun them with their kids? Edited June 27, 2014 by DrStix 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted June 27, 2014 Report Share Posted June 27, 2014 Depends how fit their mum is Gotta love the school run. MILF central Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 (edited) Thought things were going cushty and delicious with new beautiful, lovely girl. Apparently not according to the lack of texting, just feels like she's slowly losing contact with me (now one text a day, maybe) which is EXACTLY what i'm doing to a girl who is super into me who i'm not really interested in anymore. Suppose it's karma, but it's annoying as me and this girl built up a proper decent relationship the past few months, talked about being together etc and genuinely thought she was into me by the way we acted in person. Bulshhhittttttttttttt. I just don't understand haha. Should I ask her what is happening, what does tf think? Edited July 12, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 Have you tried the penis inside her method? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 it no worky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsiain Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 Bitches Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartMini Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 it no worky theres pills for that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 theres pills for that Haha no my mr dan junior is totally awesome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 Prehaps try whatsapping her 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 (edited) Thought things were going cushty and delicious with new beautiful, lovely girl. Apparently not according to the lack of texting, just feels like she's slowly losing contact with me (now one text a day, maybe) which is EXACTLY what i'm doing to a girl who is super into me who i'm not really interested in anymore. Suppose it's karma, but it's annoying as me and this girl built up a proper decent relationship the past few months, talked about being together etc and genuinely thought she was into me by the way we acted in person. Bulshhhittttttttttttt. I just don't understand haha. Should I ask her what is happening, what does tf think? Are you sure you're not just over emphasizing the importance of texting? One a day would kind of be ideal for me and I'd base it how it goes in person just because I find text conversations really annoying. I think I just revealed one the reasons for my lack of girls here... Edited July 13, 2014 by bikeperson45 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 Haha maybe I was thinking that but I'm just comparing it to what we were texting like before Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 Texting is the lamest shittest thing ever. You can't complain because she might not have seen her text. Seriously, just pick up the phone and make a call. As if you're going to let your night be ruined because of that - I'd just phone her up and see what's going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 No night was ruined at all I've got other things to be doing, people to be seeing so i'm not tooooo bothered by it at all. Just thought it would be worth seeing what others would do. Tonight i'll ask though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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