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HAHA plan, I suck at skating in general

Haha, what these people don't know is that you're now getting with the sister of the last girl you wanted to get with.... which in some ways makes you a legend (*shakes your hand for sheer gumption*) but in other ways I think you had it right first time round, in that I can't see the attraction of either particularly but J is almost deffinitely better at a number of things than S, if you catch my drift, haha!

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HAHA but S is all innocent and actually IMO hotter then J though I wouldnt say no to either.

Well you've answered your own question there, she's innocent, therefore your dirty boy hands will just frighten her and/or she'll just be rubbish, haha. But all that asside, still not seeing the attraction, have you got any recent pics, been a while since I've seen her (I think last time was in the background of J's webcam, J later got naked and did rude things in front of webcam, after S had left the room obviously... dirty J)!

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lol you are a b*****d :P

Meh, it weren't all that, nice boobs though, shame she's such an annoying paranoid bunny boiler. I think I may have "accidentally" hit print screen at the time and then opened paint and "accidentally" hit paste, I'll have a look when I get home tonight!

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Girlfriend is really annoying me,she proper bums myspace and im like whats the point.i might end it with her.

I woouldn't be able to stand my girlfriend on myspace, well, i probably could cause i knew she wouldn't be a addict about it. I'd hate to date a girl who was into myspace all the time, like posting pics emo stlye, has all the comments like "ooo your cute, your fine" "yuuum, woulnd't mind a taste of your bee hive"

I would be sick of it.

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Tap her, who cares

Meh, things like this get complicated.

i would personally leave it longer until another relationship, but if your friendship here is strong enough to withstand rebound sex with nothing else attached, then i say go with the statement above. Its likely however, that she wants more, so doing that will not the help the situation, kind of leading her on, do you want to risk the friendship?

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Everything seems so complicated! Must be getting old lol.

Im still confused after my break up earlier in the week. Ive accepted it, and am tryign to stay freinds, finding it awkward though. think itl all work out.

My heads just screwed up as i was really ready for a good solid relationship, and when the oportunity arose, i took it. I commited far too much far too quickly, and ive got hurt. lesson learnt. I still want a relationship, but know that if an opportunity came up right now i wouldnt want to take it, i need more time.

Got a female freind who may be hooking me up with one of her friends in a kinda "friends with benifits" style thing, which im willing to give a go. easy enough to end it if i dont enjoy it, and could be a lot of fun until im ready to properly commit again.

Out of interest, anyone had any experience of this kind of relationship? I know there can be probs with one person getting attached, the other not ect. luckily it wont be an existing friendship im risking.

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little update on my situation:

Well, the first 'proper' meet up went really well. I picked her up and as soon as she got in the car I thought "wow!" she looked stunning, seriously.

So off we went to the cinema and that, started off sitting on our own sides you know, then things relaxed and she started cuddling up etc, holdin hands blah blah, all good!!

Nice kiss when I dropped her off as well, double bonus.

I know a page back or so I wasnt really considering it, but now i've 'hung' out with her and we've talked a fair bit i've decided just to see how it goes, all my friends have told me to do the same thing. It's only the ones that don't really understand the situation who say something like "ahh what, shes 15, I wouldn't go there,pedo" whatever you know the usual comments.

Like mates have said, if everything else is perfectly good, ie attitude, personlality, looks, etc then you shouldn't throw it all away just for something so minor as age. Would you agree?

Theres a good connection too, she comes to see me at work, communicate loads and always got ideas for stuff to do. Like on tuesday were going to Exeter shopping for the day (her idea) so thats cool. Saves me having to do all the work like half the girls out there.

This is looking pretty good chaps

Thanks again

Rob (Y):)

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little update on my situation:

Well, the first 'proper' meet up went really well. I picked her up and as soon as she got in the car I thought "wow!" she looked stunning, seriously.

So off we went to the cinema and that, started off sitting on our own sides you know, then things relaxed and she started cuddling up etc, holdin hands blah blah, all good!!

Nice kiss when I dropped her off as well, double bonus.

I know a page back or so I wasnt really considering it, but now i've 'hung' out with her and we've talked a fair bit i've decided just to see how it goes, all my friends have told me to do the same thing. It's only the ones that don't really understand the situation who say something like "ahh what, shes 15, I wouldn't go there,pedo" whatever you know the usual comments.

Like mates have said, if everything else is perfectly good, ie attitude, personlality, looks, etc then you shouldn't throw it all away just for something so minor as age. Would you agree?

Theres a good connection too, she comes to see me at work, communicate loads and always got ideas for stuff to do. Like on tuesday were going to Exeter shopping for the day (her idea) so thats cool. Saves me having to do all the work like half the girls out there.

This is looking pretty good chaps

Thanks again

Rob (Y):)

gary glitters reasoning just there. nah just kiddin, just go for it (Y)

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Like mates have said, if everything else is perfectly good, ie attitude, personlality, looks, etc then you shouldn't throw it all away just for something so minor as age. Would you agree?

HAHA minor!

Only joking, good to hear you're getting on. No poking till she's atleast 16 though.

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little update on my situation:

Well, the first 'proper' meet up went really well. I picked her up and as soon as she got in the car I thought "wow!" she looked stunning, seriously.

So off we went to the cinema and that, started off sitting on our own sides you know, then things relaxed and she started cuddling up etc, holdin hands blah blah, all good!!

Nice kiss when I dropped her off as well, double bonus.

I know a page back or so I wasnt really considering it, but now i've 'hung' out with her and we've talked a fair bit i've decided just to see how it goes, all my friends have told me to do the same thing. It's only the ones that don't really understand the situation who say something like "ahh what, shes 15, I wouldn't go there,pedo" whatever you know the usual comments.

Like mates have said, if everything else is perfectly good, ie attitude, personlality, looks, etc then you shouldn't throw it all away just for something so minor as age. Would you agree?

Theres a good connection too, she comes to see me at work, communicate loads and always got ideas for stuff to do. Like on tuesday were going to Exeter shopping for the day (her idea) so thats cool. Saves me having to do all the work like half the girls out there.

This is looking pretty good chaps

Thanks again

Rob (Y):)

at the end of the day, it sure as hell isnt for me, but if it makes you happy, you might as well go for it,jst be ready for if you end it, she may well be clingy, dont expect her parents to like you, expect shoddy piss taking comments off everyone, but if you can rise above it, go for it.

Oli friends with benefits...(personally ive got some friends on benefits, does that count) nah been there done that, its great from my point of view, as i generally dont like settling down, being serious, maybe im just a hoe, or maybe im scared of commitment, im sure ill work it out one day. but with you as you are now, not sure its such a great idea, you were just saying you commited far to easy, although you say you wont, you may fall for a girl once more straight away, secondly if its just sex while your on the bounce with splittin from K, then it just generally isnt a good idea,with anyone, other than for short sexual satisfaction.

also, you getting your friend to hook you up with some one you dont know, never a wise idea, should always meet people of your own accord, even if you end up knowing them from having the same circle of friends etc, should never just have a friend pick a randomer who they think matches you for a relationship/f**k buddy, what-ever.

as for my reason for being in here,meh aint really got women problems,more just feel like updating crap. aint spoke to hayley in 2 weeks now,(since i ended up at hers on new years day),not really cos we left on bad terms, just cos if im not goin to manchester for a reason, other than to see her, im making commitments, which is kinda the whole thing i dont wanna do, getting into a proper relationship, which is what she wants(just in general, not from me) isn't what im after right now, especially not with the huge age/distance gap, so may give her a call next time in manc. but otherwise, keeping it a bit low key.

got a couple of girls im seeing/textin/havin fun with right now, but its frustrating,cos i know none of them make me happy,so aint gunna do anything with any of them, feel a bit crap for doing it, as its kinda stringin them along.but on the same front, its companionship, were having a laugh, and i aint promised anythng or led them on, so im not guilty of any moral crimes am i??

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Oli friends with benefits...(personally ive got some friends on benefits, does that count) nah been there done that, its great from my point of view, as i generally dont like settling down, being serious, maybe im just a hoe, or maybe im scared of commitment, im sure ill work it out one day. but with you as you are now, not sure its such a great idea, you were just saying you commited far to easy, although you say you wont, you may fall for a girl once more straight away, secondly if its just sex while your on the bounce with splittin from K, then it just generally isnt a good idea,with anyone, other than for short sexual satisfaction.

also, you getting your friend to hook you up with some one you dont know, never a wise idea, should always meet people of your own accord, even if you end up knowing them from having the same circle of friends etc, should never just have a friend pick a randomer who they think matches you for a relationship/f**k buddy, what-ever.

Meh, maybe your right, i just don't know. Cheers for the advise though.

Indeed i did commit very fast, but thats because i really liked her, and i wanted the relationship, this is a very different situation. By the time anything happens, i may feel different anyway. i also didnt get my friend to hook me up, i was actually asking her if she would consider such a situation, but shes (to my surprise) properly interested in someone right now, so obviously that was a no no. She mentioned her friend was lookign for a similar kind of thing and would talk to her- nothing garunteed, and i would get to know her a bit first ( i believe we have met, but it was a couple of years ago). If i enter with an open mind, with no expectations, then not too much can go wrong. I think i will go along with it for now, if i don't like it, its not like im comitted to anything.

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Right, I never thought I'd post up in here.

Basically, girl's coming over later, I don't know if she likes me or not...

We are like best friends etc. But yeah, really quite nervous, because I really like her. She's amazing. And I want her!

So basically, AHHHHHHHHHHH!

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