Ross McArthur Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 I don’t see where the confusion is here? He had a photo of another girl’s vaj on his phone. His GF found it and was upset that he had been receiving such images from a loose lady. To clear things up further, it was a facebook message, so thats how she new the girls name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew62 Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 I don’t see where the confusion is here? He had a photo of another girl’s vaj on his phone. His GF found it and was upset that he had been receiving such images from a loose lady. To clear things up further, it was a facebook message, so thats how she new the girls name. You said this: Turns out it was an old picture he had been sent when he was first "seeing" his current, now X girl friend Sounded like you were talking about the girl who dumped him this morning (i.e. was current, now recently ex) so I thought she'd found a pic of her own "insert name of choice" which would make it funny. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross McArthur Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 I am just guessing here, but I don't think many girls know what their vaginas look like, unless they are pornstars. My girl friend told me that her cousin, when out at clubs with her mates, all go into the toilet and show each other their vaj's and compare. I dont know how much truth is in that but it made me chuckle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 for now yeah, we'll see how it goes. seems like she was royally f**ked and he's well known for being a bit predatory with drunk girls. He needs a good slap and she's got a lot of making up to do I think. Taking you for a ride mate. Stop making excuses for what happened! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*gentlydoesit Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 for now yeah, we'll see how it goes. seems like she was royally f**ked and he's well known for being a bit predatory with drunk girls. He needs a good slap and she's got a lot of making up to do I think. Depressed. Drinking. Cheating. I give you my word, cut and run will save you plenty of heartache in the long run. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 Depressed - not her fault, don't be a c*nt about it. Drinking - most people drink, welcome to the UK. Unless she's a raging alcoholic, again don't be a c*nt about it. Cheating - only borderline cheating but I agree it's out of order, I'd be pretty pissed off. Depends on how much of it was her fault though, it's easy to do stupid shit without realising when you're drunk - if he knew she had a boyfriend and took advantage, I'd say he needs a good slap. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 Never really understood the whole "it's not exactly cheating" thing just because of drink. The fact is she's put her lips on / around another guys. It's the whole principle thing to me, she's obviously got herself in that situation which to me shows that she doesn't actually care as that's bound to hurt you. And forgiving her for doing it, saying "aww make it up to me" is only going to let her know that she can do it again. I'm actually really surprised at you Skoze after the advice you usually give in here! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 The fact is she's put her lips on / around another guys. It's this simple really. Irrelevant of whether she might do it again, or if she's very sorry, or if the sky is green, she kissed another bloke and that is unforgivable in my mind. Get shot Skoze, she'll take you for a ride otherwise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 I'm actually really surprised at you Skoze after the advice you usually give in here! I just couldn't be arsed basically - by the time I got there turning around and coming home again was pretty low on my to-do list regardless. Snap decisions are never good; she knows she's in the shit and is far from out of the woods yet, i've just let it lie for now while I weigh up what happens next. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 That's mature Skoze. She's going through some shit, and that doesn't make it excusable, but only you can make a decision you're comfortable with. Those decisions come best when some calm time thinking about it happens. You know where I am if you need a beer and a chat man. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 Think I will do when i'm back down mate, cheers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*gentlydoesit Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 Depressed. Not her fault agreed. does it matter who's fault it is? Its still crippling to a relationship. Drinking. To excess or to the loss of inhibition is bad when compounded by depression and usually worsened by anti-depressant medication. situations like this one will almost certainly become less unusal. Cheating. Thats just shit in any form. Issuing a slap. You get knicked and f**kall gets sorted. Got the t on that one! The highs of the relationship remain on a similar level, but the lows get lower as time goes on. Was going to say that when I posted my first comment on the depression post, but I thought better. almost wish I had to back up what I'm saying now, as shit as that sounds. Like I said before, my time again and I'd not have stuck around to know what I'm saying to be true now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsbikingnunn Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 so I told the girl that I had mentioned here a few weeks ago that I liked her around 4 days ago and no reply, I know she's see my message but she hasn't said anything and doesn't even make any effort to speak to me at work either. this has just made me feel uber shit :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 so I told the girl that I had mentioned here a few weeks ago that I liked her around 4 days ago and no reply, I know she's see my message but she hasn't said anything and doesn't even make any effort to speak to me at work either. this has just made me feel uber shit :/ Straight up ask her if she wants to go on a date Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsbikingnunn Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 hmmmm that is an option that I may have to explore... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onzatpro09 Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 so I told the girl that I had mentioned here a few weeks ago that I liked her around 4 days ago and no reply, I know she's see my message but she hasn't said anything and doesn't even make any effort to speak to me at work either. this has just made me feel uber shit :/ Are you sure you weren't friendzoned? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsbikingnunn Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 do you mean before or after I told her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 Sometimes being downright direct is the best way to go, especially in person. That way she pretty much has to give a response haha, and I think that some girls will respect that fact you asked in person and will give you a chance even if they normally wouldn't. It shows that you don't hide your feelings behind a keyboard too. Some people in this thread may think I'm not "experienced" enough to give advice but take it or leave it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsbikingnunn Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 I guess that is true jake, but I'm not that confident :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onzatpro09 Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 do you mean before or after I told her? Before Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 Matt I don't wanna say it harshly but if you've got no response you gotta move on, you and her aren't the most well suited couple I could think of x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsbikingnunn Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 I don't think so, I mean we've always bee good friends but we've always had some chemistry and people who knew us both wondered if we were together and when we say no they ask why not so I don't really think so. even if I was just completely ignoring me and what I said is just out of order Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 You seem pretty sure in yourself. What's stopping you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 Friend zoned mate. Time to move on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsbikingnunn Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 I don't really care about it anymore cos I said to her I don't care if she likes me back im just pretty miffed off that she didn't even say anything like 'im sorry but I don't feel the same' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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