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Course not :-

I could always ask her to go out for an eve, just to get to know her better. If she dosen't want to, i'll tease her with candy.

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Rob its a tricky situation but its probably best to do as the others have suggested and save the porking til shes not jailbait.

By the way, the whole 'get with her, but no sex until shes 16' thing wont work...no matter how much you want to. You'll either bust your balls or she'll start thing you're one of those queers.

Or she will come onto you and you wont be able to resist.

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i woulsdnt bother personally rob, im 19(and a quarter), and wouldnt look at a 15 year old twice, to be honest with you, anything lower than 17 is pushing it, even if 16 is legal.

1) you could go down for it

2) how would your parents take it, i know my mother would be ashamed.

3) how would her parents take it, i dunno, but theyd take you for a kicking in the back garden when they found out

4) how would your mates take it, im sure theyd take the piss

5)altho it seems good now, and it might be, when it ends, youve got the stigma, of being the guy who porked a 15 year old, which will put everyone off you.

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i woulsdnt bother personally rob, im 19(and a quarter), and wouldnt look at a 15 year old twice, to be honest with you, anything lower than 17 is pushing it, even if 16 is legal.

1) you could go down for it

2) how would your parents take it, i know my mother would be ashamed.

3) how would her parents take it, i dunno, but theyd take you for a kicking in the back garden when they found out

4) how would your mates take it, im sure theyd take the piss

5)altho it seems good now, and it might be, when it ends, youve got the stigma, of being the guy who porked a 15 year old, which will put everyone off you.

1) No, he can't. Being with a 15 year old is reasonable, touching them isn't. It also depends on various other factors like if the friends care, how obvious you are, and if you break up, will she go all phsyco and report you.

2) If your parents would be ashamed, then there not very understand. If you like the girl, and she likes you, whats a few months until the law approves going to matter.

3) Her parents on the other hand may not approve, best to test the water for this area, like "my mates just got a 19 year old boyfriend, and some of my mates think its wrong", and the parents will 9/10 comment, as they do with everything their child has to say.

4) Some will, some wont, it depends on how harsh it is, and whether you can take it. Depends solely on how strong of character you are, and how much you care about her.

5) So when you f**k someone, instantly the whole world knows about it?

Plus, a relationship isn't just about sex you know... atleast, it best not be/can't be at that age. :)

plus think about when you were at school, and how the skanky birds used to try and brag about been with a 21 year old peado or whatever

would you want to be that peado? :rolleyes:

Haha, s'very true, but its becoming more of a common occurance with maturity age levels coming down and puberty hitting younger and so on.

If you want a proper opinion from me Rob, if my opinion at all, best to ask me on MSN.

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If you want a proper opinion from me Rob, if my opinion at all, best to ask me on MSN.

I recently split up with my girlfriend, I'm 22 and she's 18, we were together 3 years, so when we started going out I was 19 and she was, you guessed it, 15. Never seemed wrong or odd or anything, was never an issue, never got any hasstle from mates or parents accept one time when we went out and she got very drunk and her dad went mental at me. Also never felt she was immature, perhaps I was too so never noticed, but I'd had a full time job for 3 years by then so I reckon I was pretty mature.

I think with anything like this it depends on the individuals, so my honest opinion/advice would be to meet up with her, get to know her, see if you get on, see if she annoys you with any sad childish behaviour, do the same as you'd do with any girl, just see if you're compatible and if you are then 100% go for it mate, I for one would have your back on any abuse anyone gave you about her age, because until you've been in that situation you can't judge!

For the record, before anyone says "Oh but you and your girlf split up Davey so that's a bad example", I reckon 3 years is pretty good going by anyone's standards, and the reason we split up had nothing to do with age so it's irrelevent, we had 3 very happy years together which I will always cherish and we're still very very good friends!

Davey

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A way to get around your friends about her age: Don't tell 'em, you say she looks 17, tell 'em you're 17! Wow, great thinking Glen.

(Probably a shit idea)

You're right Glen, shite idea, lol. That's called denial, it's not something I'd advise, that's pretty much like saying you think it's wrong to date a 15yr old too, in which case you really shouldn't do it in the first place. If you're gonna do it at least be man enough to stand up for yourself and say "Yeah she's 15, so what?"

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If you're gonna do it at least be man enough to stand up for yourself and say "Yeah she's 15, so what?"

Yup, one of the main issues with this type of relationship, you have to accept the fact that its socially un-acceptable to 99% of the population, and you have to have realise that you need to face the issue, rather then denying the issue exists.

So yeh, be a man and accept the fact.

I also agree with what Davey said, it 100% depends on the people involved. If she is actually 15, as in, shes in school, so acts like it, steer clear, otherwise, atleast talk and get a new friend, see where it goes.

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Yup, one of the main issues with this type of relationship, you have to accept the fact that its socially un-acceptable to 99% of the population, and you have to have realise that you need to face the issue, rather then denying the issue exists.

I don't think it's as socially unacceptable as you would think, certainly not in this day and age when parents let kids as young as 10 go and play on the streets till gone 10pm, people grow up faster, it's always been a case that girls go for older guys and as they mature so much faster these days the age gap increases. I think you'll find people don't have much of an issue in general, certainly I never got any grief about it at the time. In fact I can honestly say that even now at the age of 22 if I met a girl and really liked her and subsequently found out she was 15 I'd probably still consider it. So there you go, that's my controvertial opinion!!

Davey

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Ok first of all, i'd like to thank everyone whos posted about this, it's just made things easier putting them into context. Some proper sound advice going down as well, thats why I posted in the first place as I knew I wouldn't just be laughed at. Thanks a lot!

i woulsdnt bother personally rob, im 19(and a quarter), and wouldnt look at a 15 year old twice, to be honest with you, anything lower than 17 is pushing it, even if 16 is legal.

That is so right, I agree with that myself 100% but it's until you meet someone who dosen't seem that young, then you find out later on. If she said first off, im 15, i would of scrapped it straight off but it's just my luck it's not the case.

If she was 17, i'd be absolutly on top of the world right now, everything is going smooth as butter so far. (that dosen't mean i'm going for it though)

plus think about when you were at school, and how the skanky birds used to try and brag about been with a 21 year old peado or whatever

would you want to be that peado? :rolleyes:

haha again another VERY true statment, I said to myself, no way am I ever being that guy when I was at school, I used to think it was probably just for the 'cool' factor of having an older boyfriend but until your in that situation do you realise how it's actually quite different.

Well whats happening is, i'm meeting up with her tomorrow night, going to the cinema (how original) and as a matter a fact were going to see an 18, so first test to see if she gets in haha. *wake up call* this is really bad lol.

As nice as she might be, I think I may end up telling her that I can't do it, I know what everyone has posted makes perfect sence and I couldn't agree more with everyone.

Then again she might be super nice and get on like a house on fire and I may end up not saying anything. O man I really don't know. I suppose i'll have a good idea after tomorrow about what to do.

As a mate just summed it up on msn:

"the question is..... do u have an investigation, and see what happens..... but the gamble is u may start to fall for this girl..... or do u steer clear...perhaps missing the best match yet"

Making this whole situation so MEH!!!!!!!

I'll report back tomorrow (Y)

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Oh well, hopefully we can go on another date, any recommendations for a second date lads?

My house, and then YOU can leave. :)

Or bowling....perfect for some. Personally, if I we're a girl I'd f**king hate it if any lad took me bowling, I hate it....but some people like it...so...meh. Then again if I were a girl I never leave the house, pretty much spend my life in my bedroom being all naked.

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