Simpson Posted February 26, 2014 Report Share Posted February 26, 2014 Right Dan if you gonna continue whining I need a pic before giving more advice. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Well that's it. She contacted me through the week saying she couldn't wait to see me on Sunday as we decided to actually meet up. However last night I got 5 calls at 4am but my phone was on silent as planned. Wake up to a further missed call and a whatsapp saying please we need to talk. I call her back and she then goes, Dan I broke our rule of the break up. I instantly knew it, but she'd kissed someone in a club which might not shock many as it's not a big deal to some but it's the breaking of trust. She always was volatile. I basically tell her I never want to see or speak to her again only to receive my money back for the holiday that we'd planned etc. And also I said what a waste of 19 months it had been for her to just go and do this in the space of a week. She said it's not a waste as it's both made us better people. Time to move on I suppose. I'd rather it have ended like this rather than me still massively in love with her and her ending it. I feel more anger towards her now after everything I put into the relationship, travelling 200 miles a weekend to see her, always being there for her no matter what. Nice guys really do finish last. Told her that 2 weeks into knowing her ha 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 And also I said what a waste of 19 months it had been for her to just go and do this in the space of a week. She said it's not a waste as it's both made us better people. Well, I would say its not a waste of 19 month. I mean you may not marry the first long term GF you have I am sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Mmmm, ah well. A friend who i've hooked up in the past has invited me to hers tonight to celebrate her Birthday in Sheffield so that will be great to see her again and also to meet some new people The thing is, i've always been in a situation where i'm surrounded by guys / no decent gf material. As I live at home for Uni and i'm doing an engineering course so it's full of boys. Don't really have proper ways of meeting lots of other girls. Anyway i'm looking on the bright side, the first proper "pull" in a club and I end up spending 19 months of my life with her so I can't be that bad haha. bahhh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Told you she was a slag 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 It was the last night too as she'd been out 3 nights in the week before and was fine. She's not, but a dick lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Sorry to hear things went south mate but at least you know now. Time to move on, do whatever the hell you want to do for a while then get on with business as usual. Just because there aren't always a lot of chicks in your immediate social circle doesn't mean you can't go and meet new ones though. I used to do it a few times a week back in my second year of uni 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Breaks don't work, at least you know now before you tried getting back into it. Chin up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Hard to see it when you're in the relationship, but unfortunately that was what we all suspected pal. Move on, find someone new! It does suck though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Mm tonight should be fun 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 You did not waste 19 months. You had a good time with her, don't forget that. Don't let it bring you down either, appreciate what you had and don't dwell on it. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 If a woman has f**ked you around and there are only guys in your life then there is one simple thing to do. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 If a woman has f**ked you around and there are only guys in your life then there is one simple thing to do. Yeah. Find a rich MILF and sling one up her 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 If a woman has f**ked you around and there are only guys in your life then there is one simple thing to do. Turn gay? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Yeah. Find a rich MILF and sling one up her I think you might be on to something here. Time for me to go milf hunting, good thing I bought that massive net a few weeks ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Zulu Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 I feel this is going slightly off topic, yet amusing me highly. Carry on boys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Relationships are rarely a waste of time. Glad to hear it ended with you being angry at her, it'll make it a lot easier for you to move on. Good luck getting gay pal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Good for you Dan, it was a shame grace seemed alright but I've changed my mind after reading this. I don't get how anyone could hurt your fragile little soul x Have a good time with your friends but obviously don't do anything TOO extreme or ridiculous, or do it's your decision to make when you're young and free x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Would go with the LADS LADS LADS thing - but it truely does pay to be a nice guy. (Saying this I did f**k arround my GF of 3/4 years for a year before she convinced me to date so maybe it doesn't...... But I'm a nice guy now) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted March 1, 2014 Report Share Posted March 1, 2014 Treat them mean keep them keen, then once they're infatuated with you be nice to them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 2, 2014 Report Share Posted March 2, 2014 Holy f**king shit. I've fallen in love with a one night stand. She's absolutely gorgeous. What even happened last night. Argghh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted March 2, 2014 Report Share Posted March 2, 2014 Pics or shit didn't happenz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted March 2, 2014 Report Share Posted March 2, 2014 Holy f**king shit. I've fallen in love with a one night stand. She's absolutely gorgeous. What even happened last night. Argghh wow! that is interesting! Does she has any other furniture like a wardrobe or only a night stand? anyway, try to calm down and now fall in love with the first pers... I might be late 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted March 2, 2014 Report Share Posted March 2, 2014 She's sat opposite me right now. Would be a little awkward haha. My goddddd, not a bad start haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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