Shark Posted December 17, 2013 Report Share Posted December 17, 2013 That laugh reminds me of this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted December 17, 2013 Report Share Posted December 17, 2013 I did it. The last one is the best and completely unexpected haha, I was laughing about something on her face then she did that. 3rd vid is good in slow mo too haha. Video actually makes me realise how much shit she puts up with me and also how annoying my laugh is when I really get going hahaha. Gotta have a laugh though... Is it wrong I just touched my special place over this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted December 17, 2013 Report Share Posted December 17, 2013 Nope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) Never ever thought i'd write in here about Grace, 19 months down the line and I hadn't written a single word but today we broke up I'm absolutely f**king devastated. Was supposed to be in Newcastle today for her Mum's bday weekend but i've just got home after driving 100 miles home. Feel like such a f**king state Edited February 22, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 dude, I am really sorry to hear about it several bags of Haribo and a Top Gear/FPS Russia/Drive TUNED helped me a lot back then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 Whhhuuttttt, why Dan? Thought you were all happy faces. Hugs man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 I literally thought we were. Like I wrote in the happy thread a few weeks ago about her saying she feels like she's fallen even more in love with me etc. I just don't know It went like this.. I noticed something was wrong slightly thursday night on the phone as on our nightly chat she was a bit sharp. Comes to the next day on Friday and I come to hers, we go to bed and I can tell something is up as we're not talking like normal. She then goes up and turns the light on and says she feels stressed and needs to tell me something. My first awful gut feeling was that she's cheated on me or something as she starts crying... but actually says she doesn't feel like she doesn't want to be with me forever. And I think, right okay? Surely you can't say that about everyone when you're in a relationship anyway? So we talk and talk about what shes thinking and she says that she kind of misses single life and not really having to care. But accentuates the fact that it's not about shes wanting to go around kissing people or sleeping around, I know she was telling the truth about that too. She uses to be like that but she really doesn't care for that. It's more of, like, the other night her friends boyfriends brother came up and she really got on with him and they were texting etc, he wanted to meet up to say good bye and asked if he could come round to hers. So they sat in the living room and chatted for 5 mins before she wanted to kick him out because she was in a relationship with me. And if she wasn't then they would have talked more. It sounds so f**king stupid but she feels like guilty for it. I know it's not about fancying each other. I'm not insecure in the fact she'd cheat on me, and i've never had a problem with her talking to other guys like that. I'm not the jealous type with shit like that. That was just an example of what she said but she feels by being in a relationship at Uni when she could go up to randoms and talk to them, she feels like she can't when she's with me (as in in a relationship not physically there with me) like what if some guy said something inappropriate to her she'd feel bad because she's with me etc. It's proper f**king bullshit, then she was saying how i'm amazing and put so much into our relationship but she doesn't feel the same way Which is f**king awful to hear. Also she said that she kind of wants it both ways, like she wants me to kiss and cuddle in bed but also wants to go out "on the lash" and not have to worry about what she does. She said she wanted to go on a break for a week as she thinks she's just too used to our relationship, and too used to how well I treat her and takes me for granted and by not talking for a week she would see that. I told her I don't do breaks, as I couldn't possibly get with her again not knowing what she might have done in that week. Tears me into pieces just thinking about it. So this morning we woke up and I asked her what she wants and she said she doesn't know. So I walked away, just got up, got dressed and drove home. Feel like i'm being messed around loads, which is strange because I felt so secure in our relationship lately. Mehhhhhhh What you guys think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) dude, I reckon, it is more romantic, and sad, then 99% of the romantic movies out there. I just want to cry but I am at work, so i just stare blank Its awful. And there does not seem to be a way to go around it/solve it. I am sorry about it. Edited February 22, 2014 by UKHippY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 I think "going on a break" really means "I'm too scared to actually say you're dumped" in most cases. If it is over, it sucks mate and I've been there a few times but it will just take time. I can't remember how old you are but I seem to recall you're pretty young - unfortunately this kind of thing will happen a lot when you're younger, you'll both grow into different things and have different goals. As you get older it gets easier to settle down, because after about 25 that's what most people want. Before then, you'll probably jump between 2 year relationships. I do know hot you feel though man, I had a couple of relationships similar to yours when I was 18 to 22 - it does suck. All of that said, you may end up getting back together and she'll realise that it is you she wants. It's hard to say really, I hope it all works out for you though dude. I just want to cry but I am at work, so i just stare blank Haha! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) Youv'e done totally the right thing. All the things shes saying are HER problems. If she doesn't feel like she can chat to other people without you its HER fault as is all the other shit. You can't talk a girl into wanting a relationship - she really needs to want it. When she realises 90% of guys are dicks chances are she'll want you back then balls in your court. Edited February 22, 2014 by Simpson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) Cheers guys, you don't know how much appreciate it right now Just feel like we can't go back to how it was now as if we have a little discrepancy it will be like ooh this is why she doesn't want it etc. I told her she'd regret it in the end and I genuinely think she will. Especially if she gets used by others. I would do f**king anything for her. Literally and I don't think I get it back in return. The thing is, like we've both moulded our lives around each other so much, we phone each other every night, see each other every weekend, have loads of photos in our rooms of each other, have a holiday booked in summer. It's not like it was a short term thing, we both love each others families so so much etc and that's why it's so weird to go from everything to nothing. I'd completely understand if we'd had a big argument but things were going so well? Reckon I should go out tonight with Uni friends to take my mind off it? Edited February 22, 2014 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 see you in the Under the Influence thread! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 What you have to remember is she has been honest and hasn't lied to you. You would far prefer that she was decent enough to say what she was feeling and being respectful to you instead of her cheating on you. However there is still a massive break in trust between you, I think she will regret it too but for her to do that you have to keep face and just cut off contact with her for now - your emotional and will probably only say stupid desperate shit if you do contact her. You should be looking for someone who can give back to you what you put in anyway! Up to you if you want to go out. You can do whatever you feel like doing guilt free - if you go out and bang someone you have done nothing wrong. But really you should just do what you want - if you want to sit in and watch the notebook with a close friend then thats fine everyone will handle it differently. Just be careful of friends who will be like "lads on tour" now your single because you just need to get your shit straight asap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynxdan Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 ok i need a bit off advice i split up with my girlfreind and when i did she told me she was pregnant and she is confirmed by the dr the thing is ive had the snip years ago so i dont now what to think any advice guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 ok i need a bit off advicei split up with my girlfreind and when i did she told me she was pregnant and she is confirmed by the drthe thing is ive had the snip years ago so i dont now what to think any advice guysRun to the hills. Run for your life.Many things.Sucks man. Personally I wouldn't go out on the pull, at least for a week or so. After a couple of days apart she might see sense. What if she then gets in touch and promises she's not been with anyone else or anything, would you take her back? People do make mistakes, she might just be mistaken about how she feels. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 ok i need a bit off advice i split up with my girlfreind and when i did she told me she was pregnant and she is confirmed by the dr the thing is ive had the snip years ago so i dont now what to think any advice guys There was a guy here, who sold fake IDs, passports, maybe you should get one, change your name and move to middle of Australia/Russia Or just grow up, and do what the best will be for you child. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsiain Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 I'd say go out otherwise you will just be sitting thinking about the situation and make yourself depressed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynxdan Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 the issue is the fact i cant have children and she says the child is mine so im thinking she has cheated on me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 Alright I see. I am really sorry about that you cannot have children, it sounds horrible. I know horrible jokes, and there is one, just fitting here. There was an old guy, walking in the jungle, with nothing but an umbrella He was encountered by a lion. The old man aimed at the lion with his umbrella and said "bang!" Suddenly, the lion collapsed and die. My question, could he actually shot the lion with a normal umbrella? to me, it sounds like yeah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 I have literally no idea what that means ^ However, if you've had the snip then yeah I'd suggest it isn't yours and she needs to prove that it is! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 Is she aware that you've had the snip? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynxdan Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 yeah she is she swears its my child and is willing to get dna test when the kid is born but this whole thing has really messed with my head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake. Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 Dan, I can sorta relate to how everything going to nothing in a short period of time. Don't go out with your mates with drink involved for a few weeks at least, you'll regret it. If you're feeling stressed, worried, overthinking etc then go out on your bike or fix your car, raw some parts, whatever you enjoy doing. I'm genuinely really shocked at Graces decision really as you seemed really happy together, I wouldn't be surprised if you find she wants to get back with you in the near future. It's down to you to decide whether you want to get back with her if she does do this, maybe you'll decide that she mucked the relationship up and your bonds therefore you won't feel comfortable going back to that together. I know it'll be hard in the meantime if you were close to her family too, I had that too. It seems you ended it on good terms though, which is good. You don't want to look back on an amazing relationship finding out she cheated on you at the end, as that'll make you wonder about so many little things and overthink even more to think about every little guy and whether it was a part of her cheating on your or not. Sorry if this is long winded ha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 Cheers jake and everyone. We were perfect, that's the thing like even the other day I thought how she's the only girl I've ever spoken to who like gets my humour and I can say anything to her and she'd laugh or whatever. It's weird as she asked for a scrapbook for valentines so she could put all our cute things into it etc so it's not like it's happened over a period of time. She also said she wished we could go back to when we first started to get to know each other where we both won't committed to seeing each other but yet we were kind of dating but not official if that makes sense? I don't understand it. So f**king upset it's unreal. Can't go back now though which is awful. Anyway I think I should go tonight just to spend time with uni mates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HippY Posted February 22, 2014 Report Share Posted February 22, 2014 maybe it is some kind of temporary... girl thing? I think a lady, for example Miss Higgy or one of your sister/girl friend could help you out, as ladies think waay more different then us 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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