dann2707 Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 f**ks sake just my luck! Met a girl in a club in sheff who is around 90% right for me and she's going away to uni in September. So frustrating as we both like each other so much ghey Wow this is strange looking back! Things are better than ever, long(ish) distance is so so good. I wouldn't change a thing now. Cheers to those who said give it a go haha!! learn to use the meme properly as that is good guy greg That might have been your problem on the date? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g1nge@trials Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 That might have been your problem on the date? i have been told i can sometimes be too nice, maybe i need to work on that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casualjoe Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 learn to use the meme properly as that is good guy greg Thought that was pretty sound advice personally. Constipation is driving me mad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 I met Sheryl on POF. We've been together 19 months now and live together... POF for the utter win. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 (edited) Skoze: What's up? Had so much to juggle recently and Faye's spent a lot of time alone with her thoughts, distance thing's hit her preeeeeetty hard (even though it's only an hour and a half on a train if that) so most conversations are tending to end up with one of us being a bit moody, usually her, and heading towards a "so yeah, why are we doing this?" which is bullshit 'cos i'm fully not down with that yet and for the most part it's all good with us, see each other more or less every weekend (except atm we're at week 2 out of 3/4 of not seeing each other)and it's been better than ever in some respects. Just wish she could adjust to it a bit easier i guess, the fact she hates her own uni so much and spends a lot of her time just sat around when she's not working 'cos her flatmates are mongs and she's in the wrong part of london for having fun really can't be helping much - kinda like she's living under a cloud which won't f**k off no matter how much i try. Meh. Edited November 7, 2012 by Skoze Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 Had so much to juggle recently and Faye's spent a lot of time alone with her thoughts, distance thing's hit her preeeeeetty hard (even though it's only an hour and a half on a train if that) so most conversations are tending to end up with one of us being a bit moody, usually her, and heading towards a "so yeah, why are we doing this?" which is bullshit 'cos i'm fully not down with that yet and for the most part it's all good with us, see each other more or less every weekend (except atm we're at week 2 out of 3/4 of not seeing each other)and it's been better than ever in some respects. Just wish she could adjust to it a bit easier i guess, the fact she hates her own uni so much and spends a lot of her time just sat around when she's not working 'cos her flatmates are mongs and she's in the wrong part of london for having fun really can't be helping much - kinda like she's living under a cloud which won't f**k off no matter how much i try. Meh. Sounds like just 'getting used to it' pain, hopefully! Where abouts in London is she? I figured all London to Brighton trains took like half hour... Are you coming out on Saturday? Hair down time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 Had so much to juggle recently and Faye's spent a lot of time alone with her thoughts, distance thing's hit her preeeeeetty hard (even though it's only an hour and a half on a train if that) so most conversations are tending to end up with one of us being a bit moody, usually her, and heading towards a "so yeah, why are we doing this?" which is bullshit 'cos i'm fully not down with that yet and for the most part it's all good with us, see each other more or less every weekend (except atm we're at week 2 out of 3/4 of not seeing each other)and it's been better than ever in some respects. Just wish she could adjust to it a bit easier i guess, the fact she hates her own uni so much and spends a lot of her time just sat around when she's not working 'cos her flatmates are mongs and she's in the wrong part of london for having fun really can't be helping much - kinda like she's living under a cloud which won't f**k off no matter how much i try. Meh. Sounds like my relationship with my ex to be honest (in the beginning). Through some bad decisions she ended up doing the wrong course, at the wrong uni, living at home in the middle of no-where so she was a right grumpy bint for a while. We had regular (daily I think) phone calls that turned into "So....". We just stuck it out until the end of that uni year, then she moved in with me and allllll was well. (Until she became my ex, but that's unrelated). to be honest I'd recommend getting away from all the uni shit for a few days. Whether it means going back to parents or staying with friends, it might do you good to get you both away from uni and the shit that goes with it. You're both hating it in one form or another, and you're both grumpy southern bastards so probably doesn't matter which one goes to see the other, there's going to be residual tension there? Christmas is normally 4/5 weeks off right? Maybe you could set up a week at her parents and a week at yours to give you something to work towards? IMO you need to be happy in 2 of the following, home/work/friends. Sounds like she has fairly shit friends (housemates anyway), doesn't like her house, and doesn't like uni. 0 out of 3 is going to take it's toll! I'm only miserable about uni (work) at the moment, the other 2 are fine and I'm still a right bitch to be around. This has ceased to be a helpful reply and has turned into a random stream of conciousness, so I'm going to go away now. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the mysterious leemur Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 A close friend of mine has a willy of a boyfriend who hates my guts and acts like he owns her and tells me I can't talk to her ( although it is a purely platonic relationship ) and says he doesn't like that we are close. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 A close friend of mine has a willy of a boyfriend who hates my guts and acts like he owns her and tells me I can't talk to her ( although it is a purely platonic relationship ) and says he doesn't like that we are close. You're tapping her... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the mysterious leemur Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 You're tapping her... If only I was going off this definition http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=platonic%20relationship had that same scenario too... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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bikeperson45 Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Okay, so I've got a situation at the moment. It's basically been around 4 months since I've actually really spoken to anyone as myself who isn't my cousin or some other relative. I'm in a small town in America now and not going to school till the Spring and I can't see much opportunity for meeting people. The only exception to this is a girl I kind of know of who works in one of the two local shops. I'm kind of desperate to talk to someone I'm not related to at this stage and she's the only potential candidate I can see. Problem is I don''t know how to go around this, I just go in and ask if she wants to do something sometime? That seems quite simple but I think I'm over thinking this now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Better to work your way up with conversation in store. You didn't put how far you've got with that, if you're already waffling away to her on a regular basis that's different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Yeah, you old do it that way orrrrr... You're new in town, could do with finding out a bit about the place and someone to show you around and help you meet a few people would be great. Just be open about that and you're Ono a winner. Particularly if you have a slight British accent. Plus this way you could get to know a few people before school starts. Win:win Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Well according to my internet research, all American women are porn stars, so just walk up to the counter and point a camera at her, job done. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g1nge@trials Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Well according to my internet research, all American women are porn stars, so just walk up to the counter and point a camera at her, job done. yes i have seen he same internet research Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 I've spoken to her a few times but she works at a counter so there's always customers that come along and put an end to it. And my chances of going in when she's there are pretty small so building up conversation isn't going to be easy. None of this is ideal, but she's seems to be the only person roughly my age that I have a chance of meeting. One of the drawbacks of coming over here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Find out if she's goes to the school you're going to go to? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 She does, but I'm only going to be part time there till September so I don't think my chances of seeing her there are that great either Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 Stop thinking so negatively and go for it mate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 She's probably asking on her netball forum "theres this thuuper hot guy who sometimes comes into the shop but I don't work much and he doesn't come in too often. He's so cute and talks so funny! He's the one hot guy I;lve seen around here for ages... Help!" Or something. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiamWood! Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 f**king lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeperson45 Posted November 26, 2012 Report Share Posted November 26, 2012 This is no loling matter. I'm still just kind of 'meh'ing about it. See what happens I suppose... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted November 27, 2012 Report Share Posted November 27, 2012 (edited) Man up you daft bint, what's the worse that can happen? You might get friend zoned, which would make you better off than you are now? Just sieze the opportunity. It's likely nothing will happen with her to be honest (most encounters fail, really), but getting to be mates with her may well lead on to meeting other people and other prospective ladies. Edited November 27, 2012 by Muel 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted November 27, 2012 Report Share Posted November 27, 2012 Man up you daft bint, Go get it wet, you only live once. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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