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this the thread to moan about your gfs lol

well last night mine went kinda insane all over me not putting a pot in the sink

wich lead to her shouting and screaming at me a few punches my way

so i thought ive had enough and went to jump in my car and go out for a whille to calm down after all is only a pot ffs

as i was reversing off my drive she ripped the drivers side mirror off my car :(

i drive a mk1 mx5 limted edition only 300 were made and less than 100 are still about

now i cant drive the car at all as its illeagle to drive with no drivers mirror and i cant repair it either i need a replacement

any ideas on what i should do about her?

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Went out tonight and met this lass, got groovey and got in with her and spent all night with her but then come time to go home it was like we had never even met? My mate is best mates with her and said she is confused atm? Dunno what to make of it. Will ask my mate when I'm more sober :).

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Went out tonight and met this lass, got groovey and got in with her and spent all night with her but then come time to go home it was like we had never even met? My mate is best mates with her and said she is confused atm? Dunno what to make of it. Will ask my mate when I'm more sober :).

The Twins Effect.

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Well before it was all groovey and we were both going at it equally, but at the end it was me spending time with her, so I kinda just turned a blind eye to it and thought nowt of it all.

Anyway I'm going out with her tomorrow now so all is well, so far.

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Well before it was all groovey and we were both going at it equally, but at the end it was me spending time with her, so I kinda just turned a blind eye to it and thought nowt of it all.

Anyway I'm going out with her tomorrow now so all is well, so far.

You can pretty much ignore what I'm about to write as you're going out with her tomorrow anyway. But girls do last minute resistance all the time, they realise the point in the night is coming where they want to at least kiss you but they don't want to look like a slag so they show disinterest in the hope that you'll work harder for her attention and make her feel like it's okay to do whatever it is she wants to do. Honestly the best thing to do so you don't look like a Beta male is to totally ignore her, go and chat to some other chick to make her jealous, make her work for your attention and make it look like your Alpha enough to not give a shit and you're happy to just crack on with the next girl.

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Odd post alert. Has anyone had problems erm... climaxing with your gf? Mine is definitely not my type and it's getting kind of annoying when I have to think about something else and not just appreciate the view ahead. It's not like she's bad either, actually she's pretty darn good in that respect, it's just not working. For the first time ever I think I'd be inclined to cheat on my gf if such a possibility arose, wouldn't actively start searching for someone to do it with though.

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Odd post alert. Has anyone had problems erm... climaxing with your gf? Mine is definitely not my type and it's getting kind of annoying when I have to think about something else and not just appreciate the view ahead. It's not like she's bad either, actually she's pretty darn good in that respect, it's just not working. For the first time ever I think I'd be inclined to cheat on my gf if such a possibility arose, wouldn't actively start searching for someone to do it with though.

If she's not your type, why is she your girlfriend?

If you mean as in sexually not your type, then maybe just broach the subject of what you enjoy. Assuming that it's not too odd it shouldn't take more than a nudge... At least, I think that's what Dear Deidre would say!

But yes, I've had that issue in a different way. For me it came (hahahaha) down to putting too much pressure on performance - I imagine that's a more common issue than most guys would be comfortable to admit...

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If she's not your type, why is she your girlfriend?

Sexually not my type but I can't put a finger on what's wrong. In other respects she's absolutely epic and I can't help thinking this is it, which is even more depressing considering this problem will sooner or later lead to a major f**kup on my behalf. Had the performance anxiety issue you're talking about initially but that went away after a couple of weeks once we felt comfortable with each other. We are spicing things up let's say, she's in for all sorts of games and I'm glad she's so open about this but that still doesn't solve the initial issue which I think is related more to me than her, it just makes for better sex. However, the moment I bring this up with her there's going to be a problem because I'm terrible at wording things politely. Which is kind of where this thread helps from my experience...

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If she's up for all sorts of games, put her in a position that works best for you? Which ever way she is she's still being... you know.

Indeed, but on that basis one can just f**k a pillow or whatever people use to simulate lady parts. It's the need to fantasize about someone else that's making me feel awkward. f**k me, am I really the only one here with such a problem? Nobody? Never?

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I used to have that exact problem, I ended up dumping her for being a cheating sket and getting a new lady. No issues since day one.

She doesn't do it for you, and you can't turn her into someone else. Sounds like the chemical attraction (or whatever make willies go ding), just isn't there.

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Indeed, but on that basis one can just f**k a pillow or whatever people use to simulate lady parts. It's the need to fantasize about someone else that's making me feel awkward. f**k me, am I really the only one here with such a problem? Nobody? Never?

I had a similar issue before, but in my case it was down to nerves. She went on holiday for a week, when she came back i was gagging for it and we were fine from then on.

Doesn't really solve your issue though :(

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Has anyone experienced this ?

When I'm with my gf we both seem to be really tired and its as if we don't want to do anything but just be together. This is in the evening like at around 7pm we could easily just get in bed and talk all night then fall asleep. Like we have no interest in going out drinking etcccc.

I mean this is in such a good sense though, not tired as in bored of each other but tired as in a content tired. Like nothing else matters sort of thing.

Things are going so so well atm. Every time we meet it just gets better. Not a single crossed word after 3 months. Shame uni is creeping up fast.

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