MonsieurMonkey Posted July 31, 2012 Report Share Posted July 31, 2012 dunno man, I saw one of my best mate try and kill himself after a shite talking physcologist prescribed him anti depressants, they aren't a good thing. at the time my old man went to the unit where he was a 'resident' and asked him if he really wanted to end it all. my mate said no, my old man made him throw all the pills away and go cold turkey. 2 days later they let him out and he credits my old man to this this day for saving him. proof in my mind that tablets solved f**k all, when all he needed was a good old talking to and telling it like it is. by the way my mate is father to 3 young boys, and came to this situation by way of a failed marriage. it was probably the most disturbing thing I've ever come across Read my post, I said if it's a chemical imbalance then drugs are worthwhile. But if it's caused by exterior factors then things like counselling etc are much more effective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted July 31, 2012 Report Share Posted July 31, 2012 Read my post, I said if it's a chemical imbalance then drugs are worthwhile. But if it's caused by exterior factors then things like counselling etc are much more effective. But Greeting's girl doesn't have the problem of chemical imbalance, her problem is trying to fit too much in too little time. Like I said drugs don't give you time. If they did I'd be popping them already. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsieurMonkey Posted July 31, 2012 Report Share Posted July 31, 2012 Without knowing the full story you're making a misinformed diagnosis, how do you know from what Greetings has said that her only problem is being over ambitious? It seems to me she's very much a people pleaser as well, which suggests there might be something else involved, which might be chemical or might need some sort of counselling. But people are still so afraid of the stigma attached to counselling. In the same vein, I think you could get a great deal from it, talking to someone about your previous relationship as it's clearly a hang up and you still think a great deal of a girl who was being a fanny to you for a long time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted July 31, 2012 Report Share Posted July 31, 2012 Come on, his girl is trying to do too much in too little time, where's the chemical imbalance in that?? I seriously bet if she did less and worried less she'd be happier in the long run than taking some pills that doesn't make her do things faster. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsieurMonkey Posted July 31, 2012 Report Share Posted July 31, 2012 which suggests there might be something else involved, which might be chemical or might need some sort of counselling. I don't enjoy repeating myself when it's there for you to read. But I guess ignorance is bliss. I don't claim pills work for everyone in every situation, and I haven't said that in any of my posts, I simply defended that they have a place, but doing nothing definitely doesn't help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TROYston Posted July 31, 2012 Report Share Posted July 31, 2012 After saying some real nasty things to one of my ex's to her face, i actually apologised for it tonight. But I'm not sure if she'll see it as if im trying to get back with her, hopefully not. Generally the first time i have felt that bad about anything. Just getting on one of her mates instead now. Well she accepted my apology but then continued to bullshit?"?"!">?>"!>£> l;gmhhmngnfnjfkdngkjngjfdn f**k. Kind of made me even regret saying sorry. I cannot win. Please make her stop speaking to me. BAGHHHHHHGHHHHHHHar ?! Ruined my night now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ogre Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 On a more on topic discussion, this lass i've been talking to i can't quite make out if she's giving me any of the right signals or not. how much of her attention do you receive? actually just f**king ask her, saves fannying about wondering, and then if your right you can get to smashing that ass sooner, and if not, you can find a new one quicker... win win 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 I'm now completely under that rule ^ The whole messing around, trying to read signals etc is just a pain. When I look back at my self now i'm kinda laughing how gay it was. You've just got to know. And thats how I think I messed around with the last girl for so long because I didn't tell her I liked her. I'm in SUCH a shit situation now though, me and my girl are unbelievably perfect for each other, almost in a soul mates kind of way. Sounds soppy as shit but last weekend/monday for 3 days we stayed in bed and could just talk to each other for hours on end and not get bored. It's not even because we have stuff in common like interests, it just seems so right haha. She's given me so much confidence now I just feel happy in myself. But she's going to Uni in sept so got to make the most of it now. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 VERONICA CORNINGSTONE AND I HAD SEX AND NOW WE ARE IN LOOOVVVVEEEE!!! Settle down Tonto, it's just the honeymoon period 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Hahahaha! How long should it last? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
george_seamons Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Its all downhill from a year onwards lol! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 I'm now completely under that rule ^ The whole messing around, trying to read signals etc is just a pain. When I look back at my self now i'm kinda laughing how gay it was. You've just got to know. And thats how I think I messed around with the last girl for so long because I didn't tell her I liked her. I'm in SUCH a shit situation now though, me and my girl are unbelievably perfect for each other, almost in a soul mates kind of way. Sounds soppy as shit but last weekend/monday for 3 days we stayed in bed and could just talk to each other for hours on end and not get bored. It's not even because we have stuff in common like interests, it just seems so right haha. She's given me so much confidence now I just feel happy in myself. But she's going to Uni in sept so got to make the most of it now. Gayyy... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duncy H Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Decided I couldn't be bothered trying to figure out no more with that there one, found someone else who has very nice proportions to her figure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Gayyy... f**k you in the dick you dick f**ker!LY lots xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 I'm now completely under that rule ^ The whole messing around, trying to read signals etc is just a pain. When I look back at my self now i'm kinda laughing how gay it was. You've just got to know. And thats how I think I messed around with the last girl for so long because I didn't tell her I liked her. I'm in SUCH a shit situation now though, me and my girl are unbelievably perfect for each other, almost in a soul mates kind of way. Sounds soppy as shit but last weekend/monday for 3 days we stayed in bed and could just talk to each other for hours on end and not get bored. It's not even because we have stuff in common like interests, it just seems so right haha. She's given me so much confidence now I just feel happy in myself. But she's going to Uni in sept so got to make the most of it now. I'm pretty sure that's the same with everyone else, until you get bored of each other, or move apart... Enjoy it while it lasts Dan! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 But when I think back to my past 4 girlfriends it was never like this. evarrr. Maybe i've just been unlucky with absolute morons before haha. I am, she's coming over monday for a few days. I just hate hate the idea of doing all this for basically nothing at the end of it ? Getting closer and closer to each other then boom goodbye. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TROYston Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Does she live in a hospital or something then? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 Haha why? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted August 2, 2012 Report Share Posted August 2, 2012 But when I think back to my past 4 girlfriends it was never like this. evarrr. Maybe i've just been unlucky with absolute morons before haha. I am, she's coming over monday for a few days. I just hate hate the idea of doing all this for basically nothing at the end of it ? Getting closer and closer to each other then boom goodbye. Yeah you probably landed a few morons before. If you think she is so perfect for you then distances don't mean shiiit. That's what I think anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted August 3, 2012 Report Share Posted August 3, 2012 Yeah you probably landed a few morons before. If you think she is so perfect for you then distances don't mean shiiit. That's what I think anyway. yeah, I tried to tell him that, got the same reaction Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted August 3, 2012 Report Share Posted August 3, 2012 But when I think back to my past 4 girlfriends it was never like this. evarrr. Maybe i've just been unlucky with absolute morons before haha. I am, she's coming over monday for a few days. I just hate hate the idea of doing all this for basically nothing at the end of it ? Getting closer and closer to each other then boom goodbye. It's pretty f**king obvious that you're going to end up keeping it going long-distance, so cease with the crying and post a pictures of her boobehs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted August 3, 2012 Report Share Posted August 3, 2012 It's pretty f**king obvious that you're going to end up keeping it going long-distance, so cease with the crying and post a pictures of her boobehs. That's a rich request coming from the guy who sent me a PM (I think) about even mentioning your missus' name 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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dann2707 Posted August 3, 2012 Report Share Posted August 3, 2012 I got that PM too! But that was more to do with me posting pics of her on here, sorry about that lol. Pretty douchey of me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TROYston Posted August 3, 2012 Report Share Posted August 3, 2012 But when I think back to my past 4 girlfriends it was never like this. evarrr. Maybe i've just been unlucky with absolute morons before haha. I am gay , she's coming over monday for a few days. I just hate hate the idea of doing all this for basically nothing at the end of it ? Getting closer and closer to each other then boom goodbye. Because she is going back to hospital? Dont ask, i just watched the fist two episode of skins series one and somehow i thought of Cassie :L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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