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You know the rules Matt.

In seriousness though, you know how well I know that distance f**ks things up. If you wanna talk about how I did it, and thus know what doesn't work, you know where I am mate.

A lot of JD time will counter the bad bits of seeing her around Brighton anyway :)

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Sorry dudes but there's no f**king way i'm going trawling through recent photos of her!

I've done the distance thing twice now, i know i'm fine with it but it always seems to be the other side of the deal that f**ks it up.

On the upside, i've spent the past few days making songs and getting drunk with my mates, Faye's not being a willy anymore and life's alright for now :P

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Right ..my gf left me 2 months back and SO much has happend ..ive held it all in and not told a soul, keepin all my emotions in for weeks and weeks

Finally spoke to someone and litterally let 2 months worth of emotion out in 30 mins ..f**king so sad atm

Any advice to try and forget all this stuff thats happend in the past? :(

::Idc how lame this sounds ..it happens::

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  • 3 weeks later...

No more girlfriend! She refuses to talk to me over the phone to sort things out and only wants to text. We had a long distant relationship and she said she lost the energy to keep going. I pretty much fitted my schedule around hers so we could see each other but she never really tries any more.

This really sucks.

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Any advice to try and forget all this stuff thats happend in the past?

Yea you can't hold it in dude, its literally the worst thing you could do in your situation, you need to vent to all your close friends about it, this is for 2 main reasons:

- If you just vent to 1 person he's going to get bored eventually.

- The more people you tell the more you "put it out there" the less built up tension you will feel.

Sometimes I vent to people online about my troubles because you can talk to people you don't really know so you don't have to be afraid about sounding like a total pussy because it won't come back when your down the pub with your mates and one of your loud mouth friends gets pissed. Also cut off all contact with her, you can do this by blocking her on your news feed (so you don't look petite by deleting her (unless you think it would be easier)) delete her number and all her texts so you don't find yourself trawling though old messages or anything depressing. Get rid of all her shit and put it someone else.

Go out with your mates and enjoy all the good things about being single.

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Bang someone hotter than her. Serious.

If this fails, then go for this instead:

Bang someone other than her. Serious.

Don't be a bitch about whether it's 'too soon' or anything, because that's just your vagina talking.

In other news, I'm quite clearly 'seeing' someone new.

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Yea you can't hold it in dude, its literally the worst thing you could do in your situation, you need to vent to all your close friends about it, this is for 2 main reasons:

- If you just vent to 1 person he's going to get bored eventually.

- The more people you tell the more you "put it out there" the less built up tension you will feel.

Sometimes I vent to people online about my troubles because you can talk to people you don't really know so you don't have to be afraid about sounding like a total pussy because it won't come back when your down the pub with your mates and one of your loud mouth friends gets pissed. Also cut off all contact with her, you can do this by blocking her on your news feed (so you don't look petite by deleting her (unless you think it would be easier)) delete her number and all her texts so you don't find yourself trawling though old messages or anything depressing. Get rid of all her shit and put it someone else.

Go out with your mates and enjoy all the good things about being single.

you'll get a PM later on in the day :) ..cheers mate, helped alot

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That hide from news feed is literally the best thing in the world.

Had to use it on a girl a few months back. Thought things were going pretty well but we just ended up talking less and less and I just gave up as Its pointless pushing for something if nothing goods gonna come of it. Just wanted to forget all about it so used that and life goes on.

Im at a happy place now.

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f**ks sake just my luck! Met a girl in a club in sheff who is around 90% right for me and she's going away to uni in September. So frustrating as we both like each other so much sad.png ghey

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f**ks sake just my luck! Met a girl in a club in sheff who is around 90% right for me and she's going away to uni in September. So frustrating as we both like each other so much :( ghey

I honestly can't see the issue? Two months of sex with a solid end date and a guilt free parting? Doesn't get much better than that!

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What's that thing where the first half of a sentence is contradicted by the second half? Technically that post wasn't a single sentence but equally it should have been, because you can't start a sentence with "and".

So basically, what? If she's perfect, and you're perfect, then why not just go for it?

Look at it this way. Say you got leant a trampoline for 2 months, and you really, really wanted to jump all over that trampoline, but you felt so strongly about it that you were scared you'd miss it too much if you did when you had to give it back, would you choose not to, or would you spend every second of that 2 months bouncing about like a twat? Then you'd have 2 months of perfect bouncy memories, rather than always thinking "Why the f**k didn't I bounce on that sweet sweet trampoline when I had the chance".

In short, do it! Just don't make it a "relationship".

EDIT: Sounds like she could be crazy though... Crazy ain't fun. But then again, crazy generally is a lot of fun during sexy time.

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