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I think it can, but more in the 'learning how to kiss each other' way than 'teaching'. I think it's the same as the way a couple generally evolves their 2 seperate senses of humour into an amalgamation of the two...

I agree; you just get used to each other and figure out what works. If it's shit, change it subtly it's not hard haha! Maybe she's just not had all that much practice, Alex?

Mr Leemur - do it.

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Right so this girl I've liked for a long time now (also a friend) broke up with her douchebag of a boyfriend and asked me for advice on wether to take him back or not . Am I in the friend zone ? :(:ermm:

Edit : A mutual friend knows I like her and we were talking about me liking her and the next day the girl I like said to me " So I hear you and ... were talking about me ;) " and asks me what I said ....

DOES SHE KNOW :blink:

Yes and yes.

To the former, if you dig a girl you aren't her relationship advice counsel. And she won't see you in that way if it's mutual. Next time a girl you like asks you about relationship advice say "woah there, don't you have a girly mate you can talk to about this?"

To the latter, i'd be inclined to suggest mutual friend might have been a good friend to you in that they didn't tell this girl exactly what you said but maybe hinted at it somehow, which is why she's trying to get it out of you now.

On the subject of kissing, purely hypothetically what do you do when a girl isn't quite so good at it? It's sooooo off putting, obviously can't mention it but maybe there's another way?

Teach her ;)

Just take charge of the situation and tell her how you like to be kissed.

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Hah :D

Got another problem with this girl, we've been going out for about a month now and she's still pretty stubborn about me not coming over to her place or vice versa. What's up with that? She a virgin and afraid of something? It's ridiculous how we go out somewhere, then I drive her home and we spend an hour talking in the car. Or yesterday before I collected her she asked me if I want desert and brought it to the car >_< It's putting me right off. I've spent so much time in that car during the last month that I don't want to get into it anymore. Besides, if we're pursuing some sort of a relationship it's not going to be brilliant when we've known each other for such a short time and I'm already having to invite other girls over to my place to enjoy a nice evening because she doesn't want to come.

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Hah :D

Got another problem with this girl, we've been going out for about a month now and she's still pretty stubborn about me not coming over to her place or vice versa. What's up with that? She a virgin and afraid of something? It's ridiculous how we go out somewhere, then I drive her home and we spend an hour talking in the car. Or yesterday before I collected her she asked me if I want desert and brought it to the car >_< It's putting me right off. I've spent so much time in that car during the last month that I don't want to get into it anymore. Besides, if we're pursuing some sort of a relationship it's not going to be brilliant when we've known each other for such a short time and I'm already having to invite other girls over to my place to enjoy a nice evening because she doesn't want to come.

Stick it in her bum.

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Her parents are cats.

She lives on her own, pretty much perfect... perhaps her parents are cats, I'll ask. Will be a bit random though.

I know this is a weird, "crazy" solution and all, but have you considered just asking her?

Yes. Changes subject, avoids answering, clearly doesn't want to talk about it.

Stick it in her bum.

Not my cup of tea, do you like anal?

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Not my cup of tea, do you like anal?

You can't just offer it to Muel because this chick doesn't want it :rolleyes:

Sounds like you just need to explain to her that it's ok for her to be reserved about things (perhaps it's a "meeting the parents" style gig?) but she should be able to talk to you about it. Don't get shitty or whatever, just have a normal conversation about it. It's only a big deal if you make it one.

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Despite having a pretty awesome day with that girl last week i've decided not to persue it any like, further. Maybe she didn't enjoy it as much as she appeared to. Even my sister (one of the only people I can truly rely on for opinions, has her head screwed on properly with regards to.. pretty much life) said that when we went over to hers after the night out she couldn't get any closer to me on the sofa and kept looking at me like she right liked me. I texted her a few days after and we were talking etc, but haven't heard from her all week. I tried texting her Saturday night I think it was but as always my phones been playing up and didn't get a text back (a common occurance with a few people, they text me an hour later asking if I got their reply...). but she didn't do this this time.

Ah well onwards and upwards, im not fussed like :). i think it'll be the general consensus not to follow it up anymore. Although I would be so pissed if i got a load of texts through from her that have been like held up. It did happen a few months back with her but this is just wishful thinking hahaha.

annddddd f**ksake, just gone on my mums spare phone she was using last week to find texts between my sister and my mum about it. Sister - "They just been over to drop cake off. they are made for each other. So lovely! x" loll

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Give her a call then you know she got it.. Just go for it if it don't work, it don't work.

Why do men fuss over whether women are interested in them. Might just be me but if I wasn't interested in someone I'd tell them to go swivel... She hasn't so carry on?

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