TROYston Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 Well i decided to break it off by just telling her straight. I told her what annoyed me about he and then she told me even more shit as an excuse, Gave her another reason and then it was the most retarded excuse i have ever heard so loled at her and walked downstairs, only for her to run down and slap me, so i pushed the wench out the door. If anyone wants to know the thing i said for the retarded answer it was: Earlier on in the night i herd her mention she can be in the cold too long as her lungs SEIZE up?! So i mentioned that to her and told her that is is blatant attention seeking BS And her comeback: What its not my problem i have small lungs. The point of me laughing out and walking downstairs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 You sound like a cunt. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TROYston Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 You dont know me that well then . i can be. Read my older posts like a few pages back to give you an idea to whats going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 I've seen them. You still sound like a cunt. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TROYston Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 Yes, i am. Meh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 Met that girl I hadn't seen in 4 years on wednesday. Walked around town for 3 hours talking Don't really know what to think about it because I haven't got much to compare, I only know that she's gorgeous and that I should text her again and ask if she'd like to do that same next week too. (?) ^^ Just get too nervous and I'm afraid of messing everything up. >.< Thursday I thought "nah, not just today, might look strange" Friday I was wondering what the "best" thing would be to say until I thought "nah, she's now probably out with mates, don't want to disturb" And about tomorrow (well, erm, today) I'm already thinking "It's weekend, she's probably up to other things" ffs. zero confidence and always tend to make stuff soo difficult for myself. does this have to be at the top of the page? lol If you talked for 3 hours, then why not phone her? I agree that contacting the next day can make you sound overly keen, but you should avoid trying to second-guess exactly what she's doing or thinking. It's all very well being considerate and 'not wanting to disturb' or thinking she's 'up to other things', but it isn't going to get you anywhere. How many times in life do we make assumptions about what someone else is thinking, only to have it proven wrong. If it all f'cks up, then it's not a complete waste of time. I screwed up plenty of opportunities, but the mistakes I made and the lessons I learned meant that I got past it. Sometimes I think back and remember something, and I think 'Sh't, I actually said that to her??!' My advice is simple: play to win, and cliche as it sounds, you need to get well and truly on the field for that to happen. Waving unintrusively from the touchline ain't gonna score you jack, son! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 (edited) Well i decided to break it off by just telling her straight. I told her what annoyed me about he and then she told me even more shit as an excuse, Gave her another reason and then it was the most retarded excuse i have ever heard so loled at her and walked downstairs, only for her to run down and slap me, so i pushed the wench out the door. If anyone wants to know the thing i said for the retarded answer it was: Earlier on in the night i herd her mention she can be in the cold too long as her lungs SEIZE up?! So i mentioned that to her and told her that is is blatant attention seeking BS And her comeback: What its not my problem i have small lungs. The point of me laughing out and walking downstairs. Going off the posts you've written: You were shagging her when you knew she just wanted her back, then told her bluntly you didn't want her, and mocked her for being having some form of asthma, then led her downstairs and pushed her out into the cold? You're a full on wanker if you ask me. Have some f**king decency! Tell her to see a doctor about the lung thing too, my girlfriend has the same issue but with the right inhaler she's been outside climbing with me all day when there was snow around. Edited April 16, 2012 by Muel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 (edited) If you talked for 3 hours, then why not phone her? Thanks, all very true! I hate phoning and I guess I'd shit myself while it's ringing. lol (must have had some bad experiences when I was small, but can only remember one^^) At anyrate, I texted her later on saturday asking if she'd have some time this week and got: "I need to see, next week is fully planned :/ but next week I'll surely have some time again " guess that isn't too bad & I've got something to look forward to again^^ Edited April 19, 2012 by Hopping_Topsy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 That sounds pretty much spot on dude! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 (edited) Day after the date last night and haven't heard anything from her! Although I haven't text her as I don't want to do all the chasing. It went so well, went round to my sisters after the date and they got on like a house on fire without any burning children but I might have weirded her out when i dropped her off. The more I think about it the more I cringe and now im playing it over in my head arghh haha. So basically I dropped her off and i got out and we hugged to say bye, but as we were pulling away she like put her face towards to slightly as if seeming like wanting a kiss? (i was fairly certain of this at the time) but i was already like pulling away so it didnt happen. then on the way home i was proper kicking myself that i missed out on that opportunity. When i got home i realised id left my wallet in her bag so turned around and 10 mins later got to hers, she came out and i like put my arms out for a hug again but i thought f**k it ill give her a kiss haha so we kind of like - you know when in town someone walks towards you and you like dance left and right to negotiate past them, as she thought i just wanted ahug lol. Well it was like that with our faces and i kissed her, just a peck on the lips and she went "ooh a kiss!". but maybe i should have said, how about a goodnight kiss i dunno argh hahahha. I woke up cringing at the thought of it hahahah. hope I haven't scared her off lol It wouldn't have been a problem if I knew she liked me but the whole first date thing was a "see how it goes, no pressure thing" Edited April 19, 2012 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarf Shortage Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 It's not really worth focusing so much on one minor mistake, it's not going to be a game breaker if you have a little face dancing, especially if the rest of the date was all dandy. but maybe i should have said, how about a goodnight kiss http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFk23ATUh58 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Haha I need you in the background playing me out with all these songs ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted April 19, 2012 Report Share Posted April 19, 2012 Kiss cringe story Oh heavens, that's an awful lot like mine an my girlfriends first kiss, fortunately she took the lead after the awkward f**kup and made it a proper kiss No real advice to give here, I can just relate to it, and cringed a bit just reading it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 Ahahah cheers I suppose! My mate was saying - not sure if its awkward to mention it or more awkward not to mention it haha. I could make a little joke about it I suppose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 Just forget about it, it's nothing major. If it comes up then a quick laugh about it or whatever so she knows it's no biggy and move on with your life. Any more and it'll seem like it's this great big thing that you've been worrying about, asking about on the internet etc 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 First kisses can be like that, pretty sure we've all been there - I know I have! DEFINITELY don't mention it, but if you must then do it after you've had some successful ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 On the subject of kissing, purely hypothetically what do you do when a girl isn't quite so good at it? It's sooooo off putting, obviously can't mention it but maybe there's another way? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 On the subject of kissing, purely hypothetically what do you do when a girl isn't quite so good at it? It's sooooo off putting, obviously can't mention it but maybe there's another way? Just mention it... Chances are that if you're not thinking it's great then neither is she. Just don't do it in a "You're a shit kisser" way, more in a "Would you change anything about the way we kiss?" Or just be happy you're not repelling every woman in the vicinity like some of us are! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Booth Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 Who's to say what a 'good' kiss is thou? My ex kissed differently to my current girlfriend, but it wasn't bad, just different. Adapt boyo! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 That's a fair point I guess. However, having experienced a fair share of girls in my life I can't say this one's skills are within the boundaries of what you'd call acceptable and nice. Usually wouldn't care and just move on but she's a great girl. Kind of makes me wonder if going to bed with her will be an ordeal too Perhaps I'm exaggerating a bit, it's just something new to me. more in a "Would you change anything about the way we kiss?" Sounds fairly gentle, might give it a shot. Cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 Depends if she's good at kissing the winkle. If so, forgive her. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss-Higgy Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 On the subject of kissing, purely hypothetically what do you do when a girl isn't quite so good at it? It's sooooo off putting, obviously can't mention it but maybe there's another way? LOL! Well lead then... People wont know any different if you don't show them what you want? But i wouldn't straight up and say your shit... use some tact Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 +6 rep, y'all know how we do on the mo'fuggin' south coast. On a serious note though, I've been with someone that didn't know how to kiss - it's awkward to say the least! I'm not sure that good kissing can be taught... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 I'm not sure that good kissing can be taught... I think it can, but more in the 'learning how to kiss each other' way than 'teaching'. I think it's the same as the way a couple generally evolves their 2 seperate senses of humour into an amalgamation of the two... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the mysterious leemur Posted April 20, 2012 Report Share Posted April 20, 2012 (edited) Right so this girl I've liked for a long time now (also a friend) broke up with her douchebag of a boyfriend and asked me for advice on wether to take him back or not . Am I in the friend zone ? Edit : A mutual friend knows I like her and we were talking about me liking her and the next day the girl I like said to me " So I hear you and ... were talking about me " and asks me what I said .... DOES SHE KNOW And yes I am extremely awkward with women Edited April 20, 2012 by the mysterious leemur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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