trialsmax04 Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 See now there's being cut up about a bad breakup, and being a plain old gay mug. You are the latter, sort it out If someone was explaining this all to me, then I would agree that that person needs to sort this shit out. Yet, with the boot on the other foot, ive never felt so bad in my life...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrDoom Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 (edited) http://jforjustice.co.uk/banksters Edited February 28, 2012 by DrDoom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 If she means that much go back, I hate the term crawling back but if she's gonna make you happy and she's worth it then I don't see why you wouldn't give in, just tell her Jamie, tell her! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 Right, I probably wouldnt be typing this out if I wasn't so tired. I get more 'open' when I'm tired... Anyway, early 2010, I got with a girl, call her shannon... She was 14 at the time, and well - it lasted about 18 months, and was well, perfect... It was my fault we broke up. I turned into an utter fanny due to health issues. She came up to me in school, and I completely ignored her, that kind of thing. Yeah, I'll admit - she was a bit clingy, but well, thats still no reason to treat her how I did. I struggled for a few months, because I realised when I split with her, how much I really needed her at the time, or at least needed the support. We stayed friends for a while, and around october, started getting really close again. Well, December comes, and I get the oppurtunity to move in with a female friend of mine, to be closer to work, to save £10 a day on my commute. I took the chance, and well, it killed things with Shannon, just as we were sorting things out between us. Me and the girl ended up together for about 6 weeks. The sex was great, and so was being close to work, but it all went tits up a few weeks ago. Point of all this you say? Well, even a year on, I'd give the world to be with Shannon... I really would, and I just feel like a complete and utter f**king willy about screwing her around so much. I cant tell her how I feel, cause a joint friend of ours, told me, that she'd said "whats the bets he comes crawling back to me?" I'm stubborn, I wont prove her right - it isn't crawling back, I've never wanted anybody other than her, but I just cant tell her that, cause she'll see it as what she says. I'm just going through a stage of confusion, regret, anger ect, and I'm just really beating myself up about it and feel pretty low. I'm not asking for advice, I'm just asking for someone to give me a kick in the f**king nuts for being a mug with amanda, and for being a fanny with Shannon. TWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWAT edit: None of that even makes sense, too tired... Night. if shell take you, and you want her, crawl on your knees, carrying haribo in your mouth to her and lay it all out. if she wont, all you can do is move on. I've been a fanny about the whole thing with my ex, treated her like crap cos she was always on tap, now shes not I've realised shes actually awesome and i f*cked up big style. I went round for a few weeks tapping anything with a pulse, some where probably fitter than her but they had no personality. "You dont go to bed with a personality" is pretty true,but once you've had your 2 pump one squirt moment its way easier to make small talk and have a laugh with something that doesnt just want sexually satisfying and then to not speak to you for 3 days. But crucially I've realised take shit by the horns and just go for it, I was holding off getting into anything past nandos and a blowie with new girls because I know I'd jump at the chance to get back with Ellie. But I cant waste my life hoping hes going to f*ck up, because not everyones like us. So I've decided f*ck it, may as well get involved with someone if the chance comes along,if I then get the chance to give it another go with Ellie, I guess I'll just decide by which one I want more. Which is maybe treating 1 girl like crap, but thats what got me into this mess, thats what can get me out of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 This, Jamie. My current breakup is really odd. I've found myself in shit financially at the same time and just had to work f**king hard, so I haven't really given myself the time to think about it all. I think that's why Leanne seems to get the impression I've moved on already, which isnt true. She's definitely not happy about the blonde 18 year old I got in the office - I can definitely see her point even though there's no ulterior motive to getting her on board. I'm really glad I'm not giving myself enough time to think about what she could be doing now if she was capable of going out and pulling the night after we split - not sure I could cope with that quite so well as I'm accidentally managing right now. Not looking forward to getting out of the cash flow situation and have to actually deal with some feelings... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 if you need a hand in convincing leanne that the blonde 18 year old in the office doesnt go for the toned athletic good looking types, ill shag her. then shell be convinced the girl only goes for knobs, and you'd therefore be safe. Boom, kev gets some, leanne gets to put her mind at rest, JD(and the rest of TF, or at least the incrowd) gets dirty pics of the new office girl, everyones a winner, apart from the new office girl, unless shes a fan of premature ejaculation and sexist jokes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 She's definitely not happy about the blonde 18 year old I got in the office Sorry to bring it up but is she taking the piss? Hasn't she been texting people already, what did she say exactly? That'd piss me off she's done that to you and had the cheek to comment on that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 Not looking forward to getting out of the cash flow situation and have to actually deal with some feelings... That's when you get obsessed with a hobby instead such as your bike or running. Basically something that contains lots of goals that you can set, work toward and then feel rewarded as you progress and achieve. It worked for me anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 if you need a hand in convincing leanne that the blonde 18 year old in the office doesnt go for the toned athletic good looking types, ill shag her. then shell be convinced the girl only goes for knobs, and you'd therefore be safe. Boom, kev gets some, leanne gets to put her mind at rest, JD(and the rest of TF, or at least the incrowd) gets dirty pics of the new office girl, everyones a winner, apart from the new office girl, unless shes a fan of premature ejaculation and sexist jokes. Too funny! But ultimately I don't need to prove anything as far as I'm concerned Lucas: I think it's pretty odd too, but I don't really blame her because ultimately she's going through the shit I've decided not to go through for a bit. Can't really be angry with her for any reason, for some reason! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrDoom Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 http://jforjustice.co.uk/banksters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 (edited) I knew I loved TF for a reason... I've told her my dogs dying Low Jamie, low! I'm joking sorry to hear that! But glad youve made the first step! Edited February 28, 2012 by LukasMcNeal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrDoom Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 http://jforjustice.co.uk/banksters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Nichols Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 I'm going to buy a dog a throw it under a car so I can get laid. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 28, 2012 Report Share Posted February 28, 2012 I'm going to buy a dog a throw it under a car so I can get laid. I laughed so hard at that, even though I probably shouldn't have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrDoom Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 http://jforjustice.co.uk/banksters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 Me: I just sit up watching tv with the dog normally, cant sleep... Ass here, now? :/ Her: Well if you sleep with me then its a deal Proof... it works! So, you drill that ass or not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 I forgot how mental the world of new girls is. I am way out of touch with this shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 I forgot how mental the world of new girls is. I am way out of touch with this shit. Even the thought of one day wanting to think about trying to think about how new girls think scares the shit out of me... Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 (edited) Girl i'm very good friends with and thought i had kinda sussed out; "really think you could handle that much time with me?" "to be honest, i'd love to" "whatever" Edited February 29, 2012 by Skoze Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 "Challenge accepted..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 Very much so. I genuinely forgot what it was like to get chatty with a girl you can't read like a book. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 Girlfriend being odd Lately she's gone so quite, she just started full time work, stress perhaps? And all of a sudden she's unsure of everything, including us. I've talked to her on the phone but most of the answers are "I don't know". Do I just wait and slow down everything and hope things will be good again? Halp! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 In "i need to learn to press the ignore call button" news - damn, this whole 'love' feeling is f**king bullshit. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsieurMonkey Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 In "i need to learn to press the ignore call button" news - damn, this whole 'love' feeling is f**king bullshit. It's just lust! It's just lust! Keep saying it over and over you pussy. And weird, new advice for you, take control of the situation now, let her know the score. Then if she's still being a 'tard, finish her. Taking control of the situation will make you feel like you're not the loser. Hopefully avoiding some of the mope you might have to suffer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 29, 2012 Report Share Posted February 29, 2012 She knows there's 0 chance of me taking her back after this, i just can't really switch it off. Don't get me wrong, i'm not being a massive pussy about it and letting her do what she wants - i'm very much in a controlling-my-side-of-the-deal position, i just f**king hate it. 3 and a half years man, that's like most of my real semi-grown up life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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