Jolfa Posted February 10, 2012 Report Share Posted February 10, 2012 Do you peoples misses only do those when you buy her stuff then? Amazes me that some girls hand out BJ's as treats, this is just part of regular sex! Girlfriend was equally as amazed with some of the girls she used to work with when they were discussing how BJ's were a birthday or special occasion thing I was reading some comments on a Facebook photo the other day, guy was bragging about the amazing meal he'd cooked for his missus and that he'd be getting a BJ out of it, one of his female friends said something along the lines of "would take more than that to get a BJ out of me!", I mean really? Anal is a treat, BJ is standard! That is all 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 10, 2012 Report Share Posted February 10, 2012 Yeah i don't really get how you could not wanna be good to whoever your with? Paying for stuff and just random niceties are just how it works, just like JD i feel pretty good sorting her out things i know she'll enjoy and really don't expect anything in return. Anyway, my latest - someone's out to f**k me over/ stir things up. Ex in Brighton has been told that there's something going on with me and one of the girls i'm at college with (last night quoting that college girl had said she was pretty keen on me and it's mutual kinda thing) there's nothing going on but we are pretty close. Have no idea where the hell she got that information from though! Could be friends of friends or them talking to each other for some reason, which puts both in my really really bad books. Either way - headlf**k. Both girls have never met, i've never mentioned college lass to my ex. Wut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 10, 2012 Report Share Posted February 10, 2012 I'm currently sat with Leanne getting wankered after we've decided that it's just not gonna work. We love each other but it just can't work love that we've done it so many times that we can be cool now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 10, 2012 Report Share Posted February 10, 2012 Facebook stalking by the ex IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted February 11, 2012 Report Share Posted February 11, 2012 I'm currently sat with Leanne getting wankered after we've decided that it's just not gonna work. We love each other but it just can't work love that we've done it so many times that we can be cool now. Must be both a huge relief and a massive kick in the balls at the same time, not sure whether to give you an internet pat on the back or my virtual condolences Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 11, 2012 Report Share Posted February 11, 2012 Dude Getting to the same kinda mellow friends stage here too, it's a strange feeling... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 11, 2012 Report Share Posted February 11, 2012 Weirdest. Breakup. Ever. It makes sense though, so we're both just accepting it. The fact that we came to that conclusion after a debate about capitalism in a bar playing old school club tunes just added to the surrealness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 11, 2012 Report Share Posted February 11, 2012 Hugs man, that acceptance phase seems to be the hardest bit to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 11, 2012 Report Share Posted February 11, 2012 Off out to go meet this girl! Wish me luck ha ha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isitafox Posted February 11, 2012 Report Share Posted February 11, 2012 Seeing what life would be like if you were the other way?? Just kidding dude, good luck!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 (edited) It was fun. Was cool to meet up with her though before anything else happens like, To break the ice I guess. I'll see if she texts me tomorrow. Althought right now i wouldn't be bothered if she didn't. meh i dunno. actually thats a point - would you text her tomorrow or let her her text you? like saying it was good to see you. Im not fretting about it - what will be eill be but just generally wondered what the major consesus would be. Edited February 12, 2012 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bing Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 I'm supposed to be meeting a bird tonight for a few drinks, met her last week, but heard nowt from her for 2days and I don't want to text her on fear of being a stalker or summat. don't think we are gonna meet now, which is a shame because she is really nice. known her for years, just lost touch with each other. and she is fit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Just drop her a chilled "hey how's it going, just wondered if you're still up for tonight?" text or something, can't hurt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 I'm supposed to be meeting a bird tonight for a few drinks, met her last week, but heard nowt from her for 2days and I don't want to text her on fear of being a stalker or summat. don't think we are gonna meet now, which is a shame because she is really nice. known her for years, just lost touch with each other. and she is fit face it man, if your not gunna dose it, it dont matter what the hell she thinks of you, if shes keen she'll text back, if she aint, she might think your a bit of a stalker, but if you've lost touch already, it doesnt really matter what she thinks of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Just because she's not keen doesn't mean she's not desperate. Text her. If she ignores the text, then sack it off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss-Higgy Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Just text her!! Whats the worst that can happen you get told no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Seriously dont know what to do after last night like should I text her now or hang on to see ig she texts me first? Like I wonder if she thinks im not interested now ive met her sorta thing and waiting on a text. or if shes actually not interested so thats why she hasnt text me. f**k it ill text her ha? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Sod all this "you must wait for her to text" or "do not text her within 24 hours" bull that you hear. If you wanna text her then just get on with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 What Luke said, just do whatever the f**k you feel like. Just don't keep badgering her if she's clearly not into you or whatever and you'll always be fine... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Yeah seems about right. Texted her and that, just generally chatting . I'm at that stage now when I think she's interested but im not too sure. So we always have problems with our phones as sometimes they don't send and recieve messages. Don't know why but anyway I guess I didn't receieve her last message and the next day she came on chat "Oi you didn't text me back!", so I saw that as like she wants to talk to me and im not nagging her like. And she asked me to come out for drinks last night with her friends - "come play saturday if you can?". Not sure where to go from here, as it might just be a friendly thing? and not a bf/gf thing :/ . But yet she didn't text me today haha. I can't possibly have f**ked anything up i dont think. I dunno - meh i think im destined to be single. lmao.I'm such a fussy fanny im not even joking. At least im not like this in real life, just in my head i stir all this shit together and it gets me nowhere!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Less thinking more doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 It's not coming across as a bf/gf thing because you're not bf/gf. Go out if want to, have some fun, but just chill and have a laugh. Don't expect anything or try to push for it, just make having a good night the priority and the rest will fall into place. If it doesn't there's always Rohypnol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss-Higgy Posted February 12, 2012 Report Share Posted February 12, 2012 Less thinking more doing. This!!! Be yourself if it doesn't go anywhere then it wasn't meant to be! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted February 13, 2012 Report Share Posted February 13, 2012 So she left and took as much of her stuff as we could fit in her car this morning - amazing how much stuff was there considering she never actually lived at this flat. I'm a little girly wreck and definitely getting all the feelings I laugh at other people having. The worst bit in all this is that she's easily my best friend on top of everything else and I know the only logical or 'best' thing to do is cut that out as well for a little while, and that leaves me feeling very alone and tiny right now. What a tart I'm being but it's better for me to put it here than anywhere else... Funny that we broke up on Friday and then had one of the best weekends we've had together in recent memory. I maintain weirder breakup ever. Most drawn out and boring for TF too no doubt! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted February 13, 2012 Report Share Posted February 13, 2012 (edited) Know exactly how you feel mate, Mel is still my best mate despite everything and I really can't see anyone replacing her - i'm in the same boat as you when it comes to hoping things'll work out for us to have another go at it sometime in the future. Similarly we were getting on so much better and still doing the couple-y things when nothing was officially going on. Weird how that works with girls, eh? I mean, it didn't make the blindest bit of difference me but obviously did to her. Still feel kinda lonely sometimes , but we're still chatting and on pretty good terms so I think if you can maintain that then there's no reason things can't or won't pick up again sometime. As usual, love, hugs, and a bike ride soon yeah? Edited February 13, 2012 by Skoze Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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