Skoze Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 She's off to uni in 3 weeks, got no idea what to do about us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 She's off to uni in 3 weeks, got no idea what to do about us. dont sweat it, if she is this awesome creature who your going to spend the rest of your life with, your going to get through it*, if shes going to go put about in freshers, and then break up with you, guess it says a lot about the person you thought you knew. *unless your a dickhead. im a dickhead a lot, everything good ive ever had with a girl has ultimately gone down the pan due to 1 of 2 things, 1) she turns out to be a bit twisted/a whore/fake/all of the aformentioned. 2) me being a dickhead. I believe this is true for most relationships. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Yeah, i just don't wanna be in the whole waiting around waiting for a "lol sorry this too much fun, see you in 3 years" message. Done the whole distance thing before too and it suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks pretty f**king hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsieurMonkey Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 You know what you've got to do then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Feeling like a cunt already. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsieurMonkey Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 See how it plays out maybe? But like you said, long distance is hard, not just that, you might end up being paranoid, I know I would. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Feeling like a cunt already. Where she going to? I met my girlfriend in the second to last month of moving out of my house I rented while I was in uni. She lives in croydon, I'm in southampton, I go up hers for a few days about every fortnight and she comes and sees me about every fortnight after I've seen her. We take turns to see each, does suck but it's working. We text, call, video chat all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoozie Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 She's off to uni in 3 weeks, got no idea what to do about us. I'm in exactly the same boat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 What's going through your mind then? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarf Shortage Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 I'm in exactly the same boat. Sames. Was just going to end it 'cause I'm even more of a dick when it comes to long distance, end up getting angry that I can't be with her when I want to, it's also going to take me 4 hours to get to her Uni to see her, and cost a shit load of money that I don't have. Been thinking about it for weeks, and things that have happened recently have made it even worse, balls to Uni. Rather end it on a good note and stay friends than fall out and blaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Sheehan! Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 In all honesty, its a bit cold hearted but you have to ask yourself is it worth it? Will you still be together in 3 years? And if yes how long for after? If the answer is no, or even doubtful, then just see how it goes but dont change youre whole lifestyle for it, UNLESS youre certain shes a soul mate/life partner jobby, then stick it out because you know it will be worth it! If it works out it works out, if it doesn't, then you wont be kicking yourself when it comes to crunch time. Like I said its a bit cold hearted but youve gotta be realistic about it, 3 years is a long time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 Just had a big old chat, stay friends and see what's what as and when we see each other. Sorted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Sheehan! Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 Just had a big old chat, stay friends and see what's what as and when we see each other. Sorted Done deal, as long as youre happy with the outcome! Never know whats round the corner, 3 years time you could be right where you left off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boumsong Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 Does the gf's visa running out and the possibility of her being sent home deserve a complaint in here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 Does the gf's visa running out and the possibility of her being sent home deserve a complaint in here? no, cos win or lose, you either get your girlfriend or a farewell holiday to take all her stuff back, either way your getting laid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 Just had a big old chat, stay friends and see what's what as and when we see each other. Sorted You know those "nice idea but reality is completely different" situations? Yeah, that. Gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsmax04 Posted September 20, 2011 Report Share Posted September 20, 2011 So its freshers week, been smashed pretty much all week so far (weekend included). Last night In conversation told one of our house mates that my girlfriend's mum had died a while ago (through suicide). Whilst all of that is true, it really upset her obviously and we are living together at the mo. I havnt spoken to her today, and i just feel like a right fanny. But to top it all off, i cant see our relationship working, and im living in a house full of really hot girls. Damn it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted September 22, 2011 Report Share Posted September 22, 2011 So its freshers week, been smashed pretty much all week so far (weekend included). Last night In conversation told one of our house mates that my girlfriend's mum had died a while ago (through suicide). Whilst all of that is true, it really upset her obviously and we are living together at the mo. I havnt spoken to her today, and i just feel like a right fanny. But to top it all off, i cant see our relationship working, and im living in a house full of really hot girls. Damn it. Poke em all this year, move out to new house the next year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted September 23, 2011 Report Share Posted September 23, 2011 So its freshers week, been smashed pretty much all week so far (weekend included). Last night In conversation told one of our house mates that my girlfriend's mum had died a while ago (through suicide). Whilst all of that is true, it really upset her obviously and we are living together at the mo. I havnt spoken to her today, and i just feel like a right fanny. But to top it all off, i cant see our relationship working, and im living in a house full of really hot girls. Damn it. Was it a big secret? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 23, 2011 Report Share Posted September 23, 2011 Yeah man, can't go chucking around shit like that! In SkozeNews™, I am not cut out for life as a playaaaaa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted September 23, 2011 Report Share Posted September 23, 2011 (edited) Me neither. Over the last few weeks I've been out almost every night, meeting lots of rather nasty looking ladies and drunkenly giving them my phone number. As a result, one girl I met has a bloke she's been with for three years but won't leave me alone (avoiding her), one won't stop texting me or turning up where she knows I'll be (certain club on a Friday night), and one who keeps asking me out for a drink, but she's my mates ex, he's still seeing her every now and again, and she's clinically insane (keep fobbing her off, hope she'll take a hint soon). Can't. Be. Arsed. Edited September 23, 2011 by Muel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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trialsmax04 Posted September 23, 2011 Report Share Posted September 23, 2011 It wasnt a big secret. I think it just pissed her off that it came out to a few people like that. Tis all good now. Made up and shizz. Still want to bang my housemate's though........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsieurMonkey Posted September 23, 2011 Report Share Posted September 23, 2011 In SkozeNews™, I am not cut out for life as a playaaaaa. Most of the people that I know who are, or who more realistically, think they are, are c**ts. It's not something I'd want to aspire to either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted September 23, 2011 Report Share Posted September 23, 2011 (edited) Completely agree. I'm just too friendly/ bored to ignore people, so trying to juggle 4 or 5 conversations with people who definitely want some and seeing them all over the place is weird and difficult and I don't like it. Oh and regarding purple haired girl in the happy thread, didn't have the balls for that shit and felt like a c**t. Blatantly wants far more than some penis in and around her, which is the polar opposite to what i'd wanna sign up for right now. Does look mighty fine sans clothes, though... Edited September 23, 2011 by Skoze Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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