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I said you obviously don't want to speak to me then and she just put obviously.

In such a shit heap im back Saturday night and she's on holiday from sunday for 2 weeks so I won't have seen her for a month,

When she was in a good mood she said I could see her Sunday morning then before that she was just like don't worry you won't be up intime etc.

Merh!

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I don't know what to do really?!

Try less hard, if you're kissing ass and being super nice guy because she's being a nob then she's only going to play up to it more.

This thread could really just be one post long - women don't like tryhard, kiss ass, push over, clingy, needy, pussies, nor do they like aggressive, cheating, possessive, suspicious, boring, no-hopers. Take a step back, establish which of the above you are and do something about it, problem solved*. :)

*Time period for results* may vary.

*Result not guaranteed.

:P

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you can also add "the woman you take out to bella italia cos your a romantic b*****d, is not the same woman you end up in a long term relationship with, she changes, puts less effort in,becomes naggy and possessive" because this is how the majority of them work.

However if im honest, i stop trimming the pubes after a couple of weeks, and they can just deal. so its swings and roundabouts.

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Why do girls always cry when you win at arguing?

Could be a form of manipulation...

Or was that a rhetorical question implying what I just said. T'internet is difficult to understand that sort of stuff. Girls are masters of manipulation though. In evolutionary terms it makes sense that they know how to use emotions given that they lack the strength to do what we used to be able to do to them to gain control.

Not a girl problem but maybe the opposite. Just met a girl on a dating website that seems - blatantly too early to say in actuality - pretty different, in a good way, to the girls I've mostly met. Anyone been on a dating website and had any success?

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Could be a form of manipulation...

Or was that a rhetorical question implying what I just said. T'internet is difficult to understand that sort of stuff. Girls are masters of manipulation though. In evolutionary terms it makes sense that they know how to use emotions given that they lack the strength to do what we used to be able to do to them to gain control.

Not a girl problem but maybe the opposite. Just met a girl on a dating website that seems - blatantly too early to say in actuality - pretty different, in a good way, to the girls I've mostly met. Anyone been on a dating website and had any success?

Was more rhetorical, but i agree with you completely - made me feel pretty harsh and I gave up winning soon after. Girls are sneaky...

As for the girl thing for you, I do believe mr Scientist is in a happy relationship with someone he met through one of those?

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I am indeed!

We met in February, been together since (Well, had one week off as most of you know, though that was my fault and it's all ironed out now!)

I highly recommend PlentyOfFish - unlike most they don't constantly hassle you to pay for extra services etc... Well worth a shot, takes about 20 mins to set up and you have nothing to lose really :)

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I don't see how where you meet matters? Surely the internet makes the most sense, seeing as it weights the odds massively in the favour of meeting someone with similar interests, seeing as you can search out them bitches.

Exactly - when I'm DJ'ing I meet loads of girls, I'm not shy so that's not why I turned to the net, it just makes sense. Most girls I meet are smashed off their titties and we share no interests. On POF I could narrow it down to the type of person I was looking for and take it from there...

It's a great idea really and the people that still think they're populated by weirdos are completely wrong. I'm weird, but not everyone on there is :P

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Don't know if anyone remembers my saga.

But she just called me to talk for an hour, then followed it up with ohhh you should just come to mine this weekend...

Just because she put me through hell does not mean I an a belt that will simply buckle.

At this point I don't know what to do but the one thing I will not be doing is running back to her

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In theory, yes fine. In practice, very, very, very, very, very rarely. Once you've tapped it, you will always have tapped it.

EDIT: Depends on the time since breakup, how the breakup occured, all that shit.

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In theory, yes fine. In practice, very, very, very, very, very rarely. Once you've tapped it, you will always have tapped it.

EDIT: Depends on the time since breakup, how the breakup occured, all that shit.

Reason they met up, ex boyfriend might be moving cos he might have got a job he recently interviewed. Not definite, might. That's like saying I might win the lottery, who wants me to buy them a free bike? And she went and had 2 pepsi, she had to get on a train, change train, walk to get there, that's a lot of effort for 2 pepsis don't you think? They broke up about a year ago, cos the boyfriend was a bit crazy and sees a psychologist and they constantly argued, also the fact that she suspected he cheated on her when he went on holiday.

It just bothers me that she told me only the day before, I know they still text each other now and then. But don't you think she should have given me an earlier notice or tell me that they might be possibly meeting up? She first decides she's going and then asks for my permission.

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Well on the one hand, she can do what the f**k she likes and you can't do anything about it, but then again that is taking the piss a little bit.

Strikes me that's being a classic girl though, and avoiding upsetting stuff right now, even though it needs to be done soon and will get worse as time progresses.

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The reason you doubted her was because you are scared to lose her. Say that to the bitch and guilt the f**k out of her. Cheeky fanny. Being honest and she complains. Not talking for a while won't change anything really, you'll just wonder what she did while you weren't talking, and wonder how many times she met up with her ex. Then you won't want to ask her in case you offend her etc. The spiral of doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom.

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