MonsieurMonkey Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 I'd leave it, let her come to you or find someone else. Sometimes your brain tells you afterwards that it was better than it really was. It probably doesn't seem like it, and taking people's advice can be almost impossible. Sometimes you've just gotta do what you want to do. What's the way you want to deal with the situation? You might feel more satisfied if you just do it your way, regardless of the outcome. If she doesn't want to be with you, do you really want to try and talk her round to being with you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeCottTrials Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Haha it's funny when you have enough burning will to do ANYTHING the best thing to do is nothing... I'm lining a girl up for now, I'm hoping having a smash on something else will give me other issues to contemplate. Thanks for the advice guys, if anything further occurs I'll likely return Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 That ship has sailed. Go out, take home ten different women (all at once if you're really on form) and you won't even remember what was supposedly so great about this one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Well, looks like I'm single too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arw_86 Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 No texts - face to face only, however and whenever is up to you. I would say when you see her say this: "Woman, god damn it i adore you. Truly i do. If you cannot handle this then now is the time to speak as i wish no further for my time, nor my efforts to be wasted. I care for you very deeply and i think truly you are an exceptional woman and i'd like our time together to continue. If you feel the same as me then you will now speak, and we shall walk off together hand in hand and have many happy memories....but if you do not feel this way, then know that i have cared for you, and wish you all the best as truly, as i mentioned before, woman, you are quite remarkable". Feel free to add a little "good day to you" but say it powerfully, with good grace and with every little bit of your heart and you shall get a definitive answer either way, and also your pride will be very much intact. either you are joking....or you are a virgin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDâ„¢ Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Having spent a fair amount of time with Matt, I still can't work out for certain whether that's a joke or not I won't comment on his sexual experience or prowess though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 I won't comment on his sexual experience or prowess though I will. Dude's a stud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarf Shortage Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 That was a definite joke haha! Girlfriend's being shitty with me because she's 'had to cancel' something because I'm pure skint, loads of others going, but apparently I've f**ked everything up because I literally have no money, mum/dad won't lend me money because I don't have a job, despite spending almost every day of the holidays so far looking for one. I've had to cancel loads of shit for her because work's popped up at last minute, holidays, days out, nights out, house parties, etc., but as soon as I can't make something everything's my fault and I get the shit from everything else that annoys her. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Tomorrow is judgement day on the future of my relationship. Gee ahh f**king eight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 It also happens to be my arrival in Southend. You'll be fiiiiine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDâ„¢ Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 (edited) Matt, postpone your girlfriend shit, you don't need it and she should understand more than anyone. What you need is like a week away, riding bikes with mates and sleeping on floors worrying about your safety. If only you could arrange that... Ride now, talk later. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Edited August 11, 2011 by JDâ„¢ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew62 Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 (edited) either you are joking....or you are a virgin. Neither is true. I've had more sex then you can fathom and I know from very real experience that girls appreciate honesty. Nothing wrong with being a gent. Considering JD has just spent the night in my flat with my long term girlfriend would make for a fairly safe assumption that I've got my end away at least once or twice. Edited August 11, 2011 by Matthew62 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDâ„¢ Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Neither is true. I've had more sex then you can fathom and I know from very real experience that girls appreciate honesty. Nothing wrong with being a gent. Considering JD has just spent the night in my flat with my long term girlfriend would make for a fairly safe assumption that I've got my end away at least once or twice. I didn't see any babies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew62 Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 That's true...pussy just scares me. You seen that dropbox, you know full well where I lie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 Matt, postpone your girlfriend shit, you don't need it and she should understand more than anyone. What you need is like a week away, riding bikes with mates and sleeping on floors worrying about your safety. If only you could arrange that... Ride now, talk later. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Yeah we'll see, she's e-mailing me today from Poland with her take on things - will see what happens! Whatever way it goes though the following week is juuuuuust what I need. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 Email isn't going to make things any easier really dude - needs to be spoken at the very least, ideally in person if you can (how long's she gone for?) Will be leaving Gloucester in an hour or so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 'nother 2 weeks at least. She's just being all mental now so wants to get it off her chest for her sake if nothing else. There will be a face to face "sorting out" when she's back too no doubt. Cool shit, i'll put the kettle on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted August 16, 2011 Report Share Posted August 16, 2011 (edited) Just found this comment under a youtube vid: " Loved ones you want back: Do something about it, Call this person, Let them know how you feel, Make sure you do everything in your power to not let that one slip away forever, and if you feel like they have, Do everything to get them back. The worst that can happen is you end up right back where you are now, but just think of the possibilities if this said person has been wanting you back ever since. I tried, and yes I failed, but I have this hope that for someone else, It will change their life" Pretty much liked that, and I guess it makes sense too. I think so alteast Edited August 16, 2011 by Hopping_Topsy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDâ„¢ Posted August 16, 2011 Report Share Posted August 16, 2011 Hell no, it doesn't. The only correct and predictable part of that comment is "I failed". Often the everything in your power is nothing at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 16, 2011 Report Share Posted August 16, 2011 Or alternatively let her go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted August 16, 2011 Report Share Posted August 16, 2011 Not single anymore after more than a year, woop woop. Met this girl a long time ago, lost contact and thought I had ruined my chance. But I didn't give up and it has paid of! Will be a challenge though; She lives 3 hours away and has a severe allergy to sunlight. She can't stay longer than about 15min a day in the summer. Erythropoietic protoporphyria for anyone who's interested. I took my time to think about it, but I think that I can live with it, I actually don't like warm weather and am pretty much an "inside" person. I also study interactive media and an busy move into the game industry, where I can work from home at times. I'm going to gamescom in germany this thursday with friends and she is tagging along. She will be here tomorrow so we can travel together, will be the first time we will share the bed, can't wait! (not necessarily sex you pervets!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leistonbmx Posted August 16, 2011 Report Share Posted August 16, 2011 will be the first time we will share the bed, can't wait! (not necessarily sex you pervets!) Pics? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted August 16, 2011 Report Share Posted August 16, 2011 Yeah, show us the bed! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukasMcNeal Posted August 19, 2011 Report Share Posted August 19, 2011 My girlfriend I have been with for 2 and a bit months now we had like an pointless argument really but she's now constantly blunt. Ive been in Cornwall for a week and a half and I know when I'm gonna loose signal so I made sure I said bye etc before I loose contact she was still blunt all I get is K or yeah k, then this morning I said my usually morning text and shes still blunt all I got was hi, I said sorry for yesterday and I get yeah k and that's all I'm getting, the arguments neither like our faults but she won't apologise or accept my apology? I don't know what to do really?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomturd Posted August 19, 2011 Report Share Posted August 19, 2011 My girlfriend I have been with for 2 and a bit months now we had like an pointless argument really but she's now constantly blunt. Ive been in Cornwall for a week and a half and I know when I'm gonna loose signal so I made sure I said bye etc before I loose contact she was still blunt all I get is K or yeah k, then this morning I said my usually morning text and shes still blunt all I got was hi, I said sorry for yesterday and I get yeah k and that's all I'm getting, the arguments neither like our faults but she won't apologise or accept my apology? I don't know what to do really?! Stop texting her. If she thinks you're worth it then she'll get in contact (and maybe apologise for being blunt). If she doesn't reply then it sounds like its probably not going to work long term and you may as well cut your losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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