Topsy Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 No posts for more than a month, is that good or bad? Well...: I seem to be in a slight teenage dilemma again^^ And I'm tired enough to probably muddle you all! - Does anyone here know the feeling that you would love to have that girl as one of your best friends for a long time but you also really would like her as your girlfriend at this very instant? It's doing my head in a little atm... -.- Problem acutally is that we seem to be identical in so many ways and things, that I'm not sure if it actually could work.. I mean it seems like the only difference between us are that she's a girl and looks like one, and I'm a guy and look like one So, what would tf say? Can it work with someone who is the "same" as you are? Can you manage to still be friends after a relationship? (probably the question that's nagging the the most) I surely do feel quite attracted to her, but yeah, I don't really want to mess it up as we get along together so well... What would you do? Many thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 Yes you can and yes you can. Put some feelers out to see if the feeling's mutual and take it from there; just tread with a little caution on the matter. If it seems that she's interested too then just lay it out like you did here after things start to move forward a bit. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 As Luke said, it's usually pretty easy to tell if a girl is or would be into you or not. Very similar situation to me and Mel, she was my best friend for ages and still is, and i've been with her getting on for 2 years now 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 Thanks! I'll just let it happen then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU! On a serious note you have to be so careful how you approach this. There is no "right" or "wrong" way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 On a serious note you have to be so careful how you approach this. There is no "right" or "wrong" way Bit contradictory? If there's no right or wrong you can pretty much get away with murder! It's not about what you do, it's how you do it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si-man Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 No posts for more than a month, is that good or bad? Well...: I seem to be in a slight teenage dilemma again^^ And I'm tired enough to probably muddle you all! - Does anyone here know the feeling that you would love to have that girl as one of your best friends for a long time but you also really would like her as your girlfriend at this very instant? It's doing my head in a little atm... -.- Problem acutally is that we seem to be identical in so many ways and things, that I'm not sure if it actually could work.. I mean it seems like the only difference between us are that she's a girl and looks like one, and I'm a guy and look like one So, what would tf say? Can it work with someone who is the "same" as you are? Can you manage to still be friends after a relationship? (probably the question that's nagging the the most) I surely do feel quite attracted to her, but yeah, I don't really want to mess it up as we get along together so well... What would you do? Many thanks! Wont work if you are best mates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 26, 2011 Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 (edited) Well finally met the girl with no face. shes f**king stunning. not even kidding. shes so fit. been with her all night at this night club. awesome!! andddd boom got with her. hah mint. Edited July 27, 2011 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Swales Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Well finally met the girl with no face. Erm... what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 (edited) no face shes f**king stunning shes so fit If she's stunningly fit with no face, she must have an amazing body. I'm guessing with no face she can't talk either? Perfect. Wed it. Edited July 27, 2011 by Muel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Hahahaha. Made me laugh. Noooo Ive been talking to this girl for months. But she only had one profile photo after nearly 2 years and no tagged pics. And even on her one profile pic you cant ser her face lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Hmmm, sounds like she's either a hermit or a nutter. Run Dan, run away as fast as your tiny tiny legs will carry you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Right now the advice bit. After I left her last night we departed and gave her a kiss bye. Then got a text saying, "thanks for the cheeky kiss xxx" like 30 mins later as we were texting. This morning she texted me at 9 but saying she was still drunk she says and then was like "did i kiss you last night? xxx" few more texts later i got a text saying "Abby said to me earlier awwww u and that dan looked proper cute together last night lollll xxx" Dunno, think it's just cos she was drunk but dunno. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Tell her you did, she enjoyed it and you should do it again soon? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Tell her you did, she enjoyed it and you should do it again soon? I said that we did. I'm gonna tell her properly how I feel tonight when she's "sober" but to be honest I think she is now - but anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haydon_peter Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 But she only had one profile photo after nearly 2 years and no tagged pics. And even on her one profile pic you cant ser her face lol.She is 'Managing her brand'. Keep the tagged photos hidden, limit the info available, after all she doesn't want guys like you seeing the 99 million photos of her with other guys on nights out now does she Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 (edited) She is 'Managing her brand'. Keep the tagged photos hidden, limit the info available, after all she doesn't want guys like you seeing the 99 million photos of her with other guys on nights out now does she Hahaha. I have my tagged photos hidden too though - but that's because i've got some absolute corkers of tagged photos. infact let me lighten this situation.... ahh damn wont let me post the url from facebook on firefox Edited July 27, 2011 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Well after talking to a mate, who kinda gave me some advice. I've asked her to the cinema this week and she's said yes. Ha mint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 2 hours in a dark room where you can't talk to each other? Sweet advice Nah, nice one bro 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew62 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Is this her? Ha Mint 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Is this her? Ha Mint I don't think so but I could be wrong lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Cinema is a good call in this case IMO. You've already had some physical contact, so dark room with no talking seems like a good plan to me... After all, it's been a while right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Is this her? Ha Mint Surely I'm not the only one that got the link?! That's genius! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Surely I'm not the only one that got the link?! That's genius! What was there to get? Isn't it just a girl called Ha mint? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Yeah, at the end of your post you put "Ha mint". I would never have thought to search Facebook for someone called that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.