Luke Rainbird Posted May 29, 2011 Report Share Posted May 29, 2011 Catch me on MSN, we'll have a chat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted May 29, 2011 Report Share Posted May 29, 2011 Some days we're proper awesome couple-y and other days it's like we're just really good friends plus a bit more. What's wrong with that? Sounds fine to me! What did you have before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arw_86 Posted May 29, 2011 Report Share Posted May 29, 2011 (edited) ye man, sounds like it should do after 18months. Honeymoon period is over so to speak. So its not all over the top coupley i love i love you stuff. It's all chilled out. It's how it should be. If she wants more of a spark then just treat her to something once in a while....and i dont mean anal. the more you think its a problem and the more you want to try and solve it the worse it will be. Trust me, ive done it more than once. i cant help myself trying to make things better, or make sure stuffs perfect, or find out whats wrong blah blah and it just makes shit worse. 18 months in, it sounds like where you should be. Edited May 29, 2011 by arw_86 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted May 29, 2011 Report Share Posted May 29, 2011 (edited) What's wrong with that? Sounds fine to me! What did you have before? Exactly, i'm happy with it as we are but she just feels like that initial spark is missing and is right about it in that it's not really as lovey lovey super exciting as it first was. Think that's what she misses more than anything but it was bound to happen sooner or later, to quote her exactly. Bringing it back would be cool but it's still awesome as far as relationships go how it is! I'd love to get that back too really, but have no idea how. Just feels comfortable and nice right now. Think a weekend away might cheer her up a bit. Girls, eh? Edited May 30, 2011 by Skoze Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted May 29, 2011 Report Share Posted May 29, 2011 She will probably know whats so special between you 2 when she loses you. Speaking from experience here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsmax04 Posted May 30, 2011 Report Share Posted May 30, 2011 Skoze, im in the same situation Me and my missus are almost 3 years in, and its all gone tits up. She is going through some shit with family atm, and its like I dont even know her. She says she still loves me, but she hasnt been feeling the same recently about us as normally. Im just so confused. The arguments are getting to me. I dont what to do. We have agreed to just cool it off for a week or so, and just have time to think about it all. Sometimes i just cant be without her. Then she's all shitty and is the last person i want to be with. TF relationship hospital? Help? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted May 30, 2011 Report Share Posted May 30, 2011 Sometimes i just cant be without her. Then she's all shitty and is the last person i want to be with. Isn't that how mothers usually are? I think I might have to post here too again :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsmax04 Posted May 30, 2011 Report Share Posted May 30, 2011 Isn't that how mothers usually are? I think I might have to post here too again :/ LOL! Mothers? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted May 31, 2011 Report Share Posted May 31, 2011 Yeah, alteast until the age of, say 14.5^^ Sometimes you need them and then they can get terribly on your nerves shortly afterwards. That's how I remember it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Isn't that how mothers usually are? Either you're a comedy God or have completely missed the point of this thread We kinda chilled things out for a bit which helped a bit, got back on better terms and it's all just f**king blown up in my face. Again. I am so lost with this i've got no idea what to do or where to go, whatever's going on i'mn sure as hell not happy. I want her, but i don't want this 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimpanzyyyy Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Either you're a comedy God or have completely missed the point of this thread We kinda chilled things out for a bit which helped a bit, got back on better terms and it's all just f**king blown up in my face. Again. I am so lost with this i've got no idea what to do or where to go, whatever's going on i'mn sure as hell not happy. I want her, but i don't want this not sure it's gonna help but if you care about someone just give all you ve got to keep that person because if one day that person is leaving you and you find out it's because you were not trying hard enough you may hate yourself for ages Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 not sure it's gonna help but if you care about someone just give all you ve got to keep that person because if one day that person is leaving you and you find out it's because you were not trying hard enough you may hate yourself for ages That's great advice, but only if you mean that doing everything you can means doing the right thing which means chilling the hell out. Not that you're not chilled Matt, but getting clingy wont help anything. It sounds more like you're going through that awkward transition that every relationship goes through where they realise they can't always be over excited about the 'newness' of their partnership - but that doesn't mean it's any less great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davey1991 Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 My advice after being with my lady friend for nearly 6 years. If your not seeing her a lot, try to see her more. If your seeing her loads, try to see her a little less. It seems so obvious but it works. Little surprises seem to work well, nothing huge but small things, i feel so soft, but kissing their neck when they're walking in front of you etc works well for me. Now i go sit in the sissy corner of shame. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Seeing a Davey in this thread made me wonder what happened to the real Davey? He was odd. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Seeing a Davey in this thread made me wonder what happened to the real Davey? He was odd. Ha, he so was. I remember a PM exchange with him years ago that made me think differently about humanity as a whole... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davey1991 Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 I feel second best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Your feelings are correct I'm afraid. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimpanzyyyy Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 That's great advice, but only if you mean that doing everything you can means doing the right thing which means chilling the hell out. yeah I ment that first: trying to find out what's going wrong second: do something and most important thing: do not wait for things to change by themself sometimes, u don't have a second chance when things are fecked up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davey1991 Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 yeah I ment that first: trying to find out what's going wrong second: do something and most important thing: do not wait for things to change by themself sometimes, u don't have a second chance when things are fecked up So true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimpanzyyyy Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 So true. so actually feckin true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 I've been with Sheryl for about 4 months now, the other day she woke up and said she wanted time on her own and can't explain how she feels. Since then it's felt a bit odd. Today she asked if I wanted to meet tonight for a "walk and maybe a drink" - not something we usually do. I replied with "Given recent events, are we going to have 'the talk'?" and a few other non related bits. She replied but totally ignored that first part. So, in about 40 minutes I get the feeling I'm going to be single again. Or, I could be reading it all wrong and there's no problem. Place your bets! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 I've been with Sheryl for about 4 months now, the other day she woke up and said she wanted time on her own and can't explain how she feels. Since then it's felt a bit odd. Today she asked if I wanted to meet tonight for a "walk and maybe a drink" - not something we usually do. I replied with "Given recent events, are we going to have 'the talk'?" and a few other non related bits. She replied but totally ignored that first part. So, in about 40 minutes I get the feeling I'm going to be single again. Or, I could be reading it all wrong and there's no problem. Place your bets! Preggers. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Aids. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davey1991 Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Sheryl, in the park, with a chainsaw? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Yoshi Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Preggers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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