Jolfa Posted February 24, 2011 Report Share Posted February 24, 2011 I know the feeling Though admittedly it took me far too long to tell her to do one, and it nearly killed my current relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted February 24, 2011 Report Share Posted February 24, 2011 (edited) felt good man .....wish i could do it again and again and again Awww I so envy you Would love to do that. edit: further correspondence with the aforementioned girl reveals that she's actually going out with someone. Why the hell couldn't she be straight forward about it in the first place. Edited February 25, 2011 by Greetings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theo Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 Is it a bad thing that I don't understand any of the jokes in this thread? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted February 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 Been shagging the ex missus, got kinda hooked on her. Now she's shagging someone else as well and it bothers me. Its weird. Shouldn't bother me at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 Been shagging the ex missus, got kinda hooked on her. Now she's shagging someone else as well and it bothers me. Its weird. Shouldn't bother me at all. Yeah know that feeling. Was talking to Katie other night and she said she slept with someones who's Father is an ascrocat last night (somert like that, Lordy shit). I dunno why, but I just felt ultimately like shit. I think it's because we'd had too many close encounters together, but obviously she's at Bristol and i'm up here and we are having completely different lives. And although she can be weird in ways, she's probably the one true friend whos a girl i've had. Who I can ring at any time and just have a laugh with. Just felt like it should have been me not this one stranger guy. Oh well. At least i'll get some when she comes visit me in sheffers. meh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted February 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 Yeah that's how it is. We used to be really good friends before we split up, then we split didn't talk. She started talking to me again, things got flirty then things happened. Now its bothering me that she's f**king someone else. Meh, might just stop. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muel Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 You can either tell her it bothers you, or you could get laid... I've got nothing to add really, shits going well for me and the lady atm, couldn't be better really. I feel left out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 Yeah that's how it is. We used to be really good friends before we split up, then we split didn't talk. She started talking to me again, things got flirty then things happened. Now its bothering me that she's f**king someone else. Meh, might just stop. I'm just gonna leave her to it. She's just talking to me now actually saying how she regrets going out and randomly getting with people. It's so weird how when I first met her it was year 12, she used to be so innocent, had no confidence at all. Now boom! weird. indeed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 my ex has been sending me txts and emails......i keep replying f**k OFF! jesus christ it feels mazing to do that ! she wants a friendship from ect ect and sex ! im not easy and i wont bend over backwards for her! my current gf wants to pound her face in Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haydon_peter Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Is this the ex you have kid(s) with? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 (edited) no the one after her i cheated on jade with this woman Edited March 4, 2011 by Dave Anscombe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Shucksmith Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Dave, you confuse the f**k out of me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 We need a timeline of what's going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 We need a timeline of what's going on. 16 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Southend Trials Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 LOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Didn't know it was as complicated as that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Anscombe Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 (edited) f**king lmfao you can put in the middle drugs alcahol and women sorry if ive confussed you hannah il try to clear it up for you lol the woman ive just fobed off was the one that i was shaggin whilst with jade ! now with someone else god t.f keep up live in the fast lane gosh ! Edited March 4, 2011 by Dave Anscombe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted March 7, 2011 Report Share Posted March 7, 2011 I'm pretty muddled at the moment Actually nearly gave up contacting that other girl atm. Didn't hear anything through personal messages from her for 2 weeks now [actaully 3 I guess..]. She never showed up in the facebook chat either, which was pretty strange XD But we did have a bit of contact over my facebook wall, and she, aparently was actually having fun. But if i text her, it's like the text doesen't arrive, or she's changed the number or, or, or I mean, I once texted such bad news, I'm sure even a stranger would have answered.. :/ Now I just sometimes wish her a nice journey when i get to know that she's going somewhere, hoping that she'll rondomly text back.. Would still be interested to know what happend... It's like she doesen't know herself x) To make the whole thing a bit more strange, I all of a sudden am getting flooded with messages from girls. Pretty strange, as they hardly took any notice of me even a month ago Dunno what's going on. Feels strange xD I'm probably thinking about stuff too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted March 7, 2011 Report Share Posted March 7, 2011 Girls are complicated bla bla bla In a nut shell: you're trying too hard with one girl. In doing so you've been ignoring other girls and so they want to know. Look at it the other way around, she's ignoring you and it's driving you crazy, ignore her and it'll drive her crazy*, simple *eventually. Time scale varies but results are guaranteed. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted March 7, 2011 Report Share Posted March 7, 2011 Haha, i hope you're right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jt123 Posted March 13, 2011 Report Share Posted March 13, 2011 Got introduced to a girl the other day by a friend, basically I ended up shagging her and now shes accusing me of rape, she has apparently done this quite a few times including to my uncle (which I only found out today), all of her friends have taken my side as they have had enough of her. Obviously I didn't rape her but I did film her without her knowing, it basically shows me handcuffed to a chair and her on top of me pretty much proving I didn't. If she takes this to court then I'm going to show the video (its time/datestamped etc) to clear my name, anyone think there's any chance of me being charged with something different for filming her without consent? Anything's going to be better than being labelled as a rapist though. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted March 13, 2011 Report Share Posted March 13, 2011 Wow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Southend Trials Posted March 13, 2011 Report Share Posted March 13, 2011 (edited) you shouldnt hace addmited to being tied to a chair, hand cuffed.. school boy error. Edit : filming with out consent i beleive? it might be different if your keeping it for personal use haha Edited March 13, 2011 by Southend Trials Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted March 13, 2011 Report Share Posted March 13, 2011 Interesting one... It's not illegal to film someone, but I don't know if filming someone committing an act like you describe would be treated the same way. You probably want to avoid court for all the trouble it would cause. If she keeps pushing it then hint that you have some evidence, and it'll only embarass her. Not least because they may decide to play it to the jury!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted March 13, 2011 Report Share Posted March 13, 2011 Got introduced to a girl the other day by a friend, basically I ended up shagging her and now shes accusing me of rape, she has apparently done this quite a few times including to my uncle (which I only found out today), all of her friends have taken my side as they have had enough of her. Obviously I didn't rape her but I did film her without her knowing, it basically shows me handcuffed to a chair and her on top of me pretty much proving I didn't. If she takes this to court then I'm going to show the video (its time/datestamped etc) to clear my name, anyone think there's any chance of me being charged with something different for filming her without consent? Anything's going to be better than being labelled as a rapist though. had a similar thing happen to me(minus the filming and handcuffs) basically after i told her there wasnt an us, she said it was rape, few people had seen her on top of me, so it was clear that it wasnt, I ended up spending 6 months on bail, before the CPS decided to drop all charges, which kind of sucked in a way, as it was dropped due to lack of evidence proving my guilt,(as i wasnt) it meant she didnt get done for wasting police time, despite police officers at the time telling my solicitor that their view on it was it was just a woman scorn. things you need to be sure of, 1) at no point did she say stop, 2)that she either instigated the sex, or you asked, and she consented( this rules out any chance of her using the she didnt know what was going on/was to drunk to function excuse). if those 2 things happened, then the long and short of it is, its not rape, and your not guilty, unless shes got people backing her up, its your word versus hers and the cps will be unlikely to pursue it any further. other things of use, i believe(although am not 100% certain) that anything shes done in the past, will be taken into account by the cps before they decide to charge you. so if shes cried wolf before,and its got that far, theyll know about it, if it hasnt got that far before, no reason it will do this time. the police may be researching you, so may be monitoring what you say on here. if filming without consent is a crime, i wouldnt admit to it. supposedly the amount of fake rape allegations to the police is around 8% of all reported cases, so they will be well versed in dealing with it without evidence. your also innocent till proven guilty and as your not guilty, and theres zero evidence to prove you are guilty, there is no way unless you confess to something you havent done that youll be convicted for it. (supposedly only 1% of reported rape cases end in prosecution anyway) however you will quite clearly be guilty of filming without consent, (i guess itd be exactly the same as you sticking cameras in the changing rooms at topshop) youd still be viewed as a sexual pervert, and a criminal, and most likely be stuck on the special register, and not allowed to work with kids(sure you may not want to be a teacher, but i work for bt, i still had to be CRB checked before i could work for them). either way, if you get arrested for rape, say goodbye to getting to the states for a holiday or the like, without some major ballaches regardless of conviction or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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