dann2707 Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 (edited) Recieved a text yesterday from an unknown number saying "hey I know you're good with computers (which im really not lol) would you be able to help I can't get office on my computer with the disk as my notebook doesn't have a disktray xx" I was like WTF who is this. Then on the reply she said "Annmarie" I deleted her number from my phone new years eve but she's so dense she didn't even realise/question it. Bahhaa x Edited January 7, 2011 by dann2707 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grant_hundley Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Recieved a text yesterday from an unknown number saying "hey I know you're good with computers (which im really not lol) would you be able to help I can't get office on my computer with the disk as my notebook doesn't have a disktray xx" I was like WTF who is this. Then on the reply she said "Annmarie" I deleted her number from my phone but she's so dense she didn't even realise/question it. Bahhaa x that could have been a golden opportunity to get your willy wet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 that could have been a golden opportunity to get your willy wet I really really doubt it but what makes you say that? She's just trying to use me for my apparent computer knowledge. Bitch can eat my shorts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grant_hundley Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 every hole is a goal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 That theory is good for someone with no standards. Of which I lost, over the Christmas holidays... *Shudders* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdoku Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 SLUT. You say you want space and time alone to sort yourself out, fine, okay. But what do you do? Go straight back to your ex that's apparently changed (once a fanny always a fanny), oh and guess what, while I was back home for 3 days, you got him to come down and deny it when I confronted you. DIE BITCH. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
club_card Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Well that went badly and, if I'm honest with my self, I knew it was a bad idea. I think I posted that up on here to look for support in pursuing a girl whom I was fairly sure wasn't interested in me. It was awesome to see her and we got on really well but walking away knowing that we can only be friends hurts. Now I'm left with that empty feeling as though I've been dumped again by the only girl who's had a meaningful place in my life. I know exactly how you feel, it's not a nice feeling the only advice I can give you is to try and meet other girls. I used to really want to get back with my ex and everytime I met up with her it was nice to be with her but as soon as it was time to say bye I got this horrible frustrated feeling, now I've met another girl and seem to have got over my ex completly and the good thing is is that we still get on really well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munkee Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 I hate to say this because it usuall pisses people off in their current situations but.. us/we/humans are so f**king shallow. We definitely LOVE some person, whether it is in our past or current relationship. The problem is if we lose that person or have lost them already its really hard to "move on"... right up until the point a new girl comes around the corner and shows some interest. It is suddenly a great feeling to know someone wants and is giving you attention. It is shallow.. but it works. So as club card said.. the best way to move on is to actually move on and find someone else. If you can't then dont worry, just concentrate on friends, concentrate on a social life and get to the gym and deal some pain on your body knowing someone else can appreciate your efforts in the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarf Shortage Posted January 7, 2011 Report Share Posted January 7, 2011 Pretty much everything club_card says is the best advice you'll ever get. I was going to say period but it's verging on getting pretty grim now, so, "Full stop." Instead of seeing it as getting dumped, see it as finally getting to make the beast with two backs with that girl you've had your eye on, but can't 'cause you're in a relationship. get to the gym and deal some pain on your body knowing someone else can appreciate your efforts in the future. Lolwut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirt jumper jake Posted January 8, 2011 Report Share Posted January 8, 2011 (edited) Theres this girl i really like. she said she really likes me and the rest blahblahblah then she goes off flirting with some other cock, whats the point in saying you like me then? bitch. then she moans if i dont mail her on facebook 24/7, but then recently im lucky to get a reply within an hour or a reply at all. the f**k? sort it out. Head.f**k. Edited January 8, 2011 by dirt jumper jake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1a2bcio8 Posted January 8, 2011 Report Share Posted January 8, 2011 Cheers for the responses and commentary to my situation chaps. It's good to hear alternative perspectives on a matter that's difficult for me to think about clearly. I think the advice about finding another girl is usually good; however I've been in a year long relationship with a girl since my breakup with this girl I'm mourning. It was an alright distraction but the trouble was, like my other relationships aside from this particular female I'm being headf**ked by, I've just not managed a meaningful connection beyond poking them and having a bit of fun. And as soon as that last relationship was over straight away I was back to thinking about her. Perhaps if I meet a meaningful female I can move on but until then I think I'm a bit buggared. And as that's only one in nearly 30 years it seems that it might not happen easily or anytime soon. I think my trials bike will have to be more of a focus in my life! I hope that all makes sense. Annoyingly she contacted me again and my head and stomach are all over the place Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted January 8, 2011 Report Share Posted January 8, 2011 (edited) Forget it lol Edited January 8, 2011 by Hopping_Topsy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted January 8, 2011 Report Share Posted January 8, 2011 lol just noticed i wrote more than I intended to, which might even make you understand why I'm asking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topsy Posted January 8, 2011 Report Share Posted January 8, 2011 (edited) Lol, I know ^^ For get it and answer the question or don't post anything xD Edited January 8, 2011 by Hopping_Topsy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarf Shortage Posted January 8, 2011 Report Share Posted January 8, 2011 (edited) she's got a few fans (not male fans, fans as fans, I mean proper fans if you get it^^ [also not ventilator fans] Surely, instead of causing mass ambiguity and confusion, you could've used a different word, 'cause I still don't get what you mean. And ♥'s mean f**k all. Edited January 8, 2011 by Ninja Manatee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted January 14, 2011 Report Share Posted January 14, 2011 Need to let some steam off. In short, I have a massive problem starting any sort of relationship because my standards are very high and unless a girl plays it out well, I loose interest after a few dates and we just become friends. A few months ago, a friend of my dad's started hitting on me. She's 3 years older than me. I've known her for a while since I used to ride with her brother a long time ago. She's stupidly hot, funny, charming, bright, pretty much everything one would look for in a girl. She's an architect, currently doing a PhD and lecturing at university, also does lots of design work. I wasn't aware of how gifted she is until she showed me her portfolio, made me feel blank and dumbstruck. So that's it, she's pretty much the most amazing girl I've ever met. Only problem is, she's hitting on me and that turns me off more than if she turned out to be a man. Our relationship is really going in the wrong direction because of this, we're becoming good friends and I'm treating her in the way you'd treat your sister. You'd never bang your own sister even if she was hot, would you? Well, some perverts might. The problem is that I can't help myself. I'd like to be with her but I just can't do it. There's no chemistry between us. I'm also seeing another girl, about 4 years younger than me and things are going well but she's completely overshadowed by the one that's hitting on me. To put it short, being me sucks ass. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted January 14, 2011 Report Share Posted January 14, 2011 You should really twist your arm around your back and force yourself to take a different approach. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt Burrows Posted January 14, 2011 Report Share Posted January 14, 2011 To put it short, being me sucks ass. I think I speak for every single man on here when I say... f**k off, posts like that don't belong in here It sounds like there are much deeper issues at play than simply 'she's into me so I'm not interested.' If she's really that amazing then maybe you are scared you won't be good enough or she'll loose interest? Whatever the reason, your behaviour is only gonna push things the wrong way and make her more clingy. Give a little back, show some interest and stop treating her like your sister. If she knows that you like her then she is much less likely to be clingy. It seems silly to not even try when it sounds like it could develop into something awesome. Who knows in a few months you could be really happy together, what do you have to lose? I can think of worse things than sharing time with an attractive and talented girl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 random girl from my Sixth form with only one profile picture is back!!! Yeeehaaa! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 It really is that simple. Not being good enough for her has slipped my mind on a few occasions but it hasn't influenced my judgement. Recently she's not been in touch with me which has made me ask her out a few times but I still can't change my mind about this. I've got nothing to loose if I get with her but it just doesn't feel right. I'm sure many people on here would be put off by a clingy girl no matter how amazing she was. Men need to feel a sense of accomplishment when getting with a girl. The harder a bird is to catch, the more rewarding the whole experience and to me that's what it's all about. I know this doesn't really sound like a problem at all but it's more annoying than most other issues I've had with girls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Cox Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 She just had to be a lesbian didn't she! Ben Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 Need to let some steam off. In short, I have a massive problem starting any sort of relationship because my standards are very high and unless a girl plays it out well, I loose interest after a few dates and we just become friends. A few months ago, a friend of my dad's started hitting on me. She's 3 years older than me. I've known her for a while since I used to ride with her brother a long time ago. She's stupidly hot, funny, charming, bright, pretty much everything one would look for in a girl. She's an architect, currently doing a PhD and lecturing at university, also does lots of design work. I wasn't aware of how gifted she is until she showed me her portfolio, made me feel blank and dumbstruck. So that's it, she's pretty much the most amazing girl I've ever met. Only problem is, she's hitting on me and that turns me off more than if she turned out to be a man. Our relationship is really going in the wrong direction because of this, we're becoming good friends and I'm treating her in the way you'd treat your sister. You'd never bang your own sister even if she was hot, would you? Well, some perverts might. The problem is that I can't help myself. I'd like to be with her but I just can't do it. There's no chemistry between us. I'm also seeing another girl, about 4 years younger than me and things are going well but she's completely overshadowed by the one that's hitting on me. To put it short, being me sucks ass. I'm sorry, I know this is no help whatsoever, but there's just something about your posts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 If I had a hot sister, I fully would. I'd probably move to Texas or something first though, make it more acceptable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 If I had a hot sister, I fully would. I'd probably move to Texas or something first though, make it more acceptable. I'm pretty sure it's acceptable in some places in the UK by the looks of the some towns, either that or just less frowned upon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted January 15, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 Oh. You've been to Norwich? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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