Dwarf Shortage Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 The ony angst I'm having atm is knowing that the girl who I oh so much desired to be with last xmas time is in to me now, and I could be with her now. But I'm at Uni... She doesn't drive *or hasn't passed yet* and I don't drive now.. Just not feasable (word of the day). I went out with a girl who lived about 40 miles away for 16 months-ish, distance gets to be a bit of a ballache after a while. And your word of the day calendar needs binning or a spell-check Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Similair vein. The girl I'm getting with at the minute lives in Nottingham, I live in Bournemouth. Thing is, it's not like we even got to know each other when we lived close to each other so it's a bit wierd. Kinda don't really wanna get more involved cos it's such a mission but not sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeanuckleJive Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Similair vein. The girl I'm getting with at the minute lives in Nottingham, I live in Bournemouth. Thing is, it's not like we even got to know each other when we lived close to each other so it's a bit wierd. Kinda don't really wanna get more involved cos it's such a mission but not sure. Might be worth a go one day when you got a few quid you can spare on the ticket right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgnoseat Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Got a sister of whom wears makeup...? Nope The weird ass shirt isn't a solution either I'm wearing a scarf 24/7, seems to work but might raise some suspicion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Might be worth a go one day when you got a few quid you can spare on the ticket right? Oh I've been up there a few times to stay with her recently, just dunno if it's worth taking it further then that. I'm at uni, have more than one job, run a night and dj a lot so I can't just swan off 300 miles away all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 where's she live, is it a major city? If so, there's almost definitely dirt cheap bus tickets available Yeah, Leeds. She lives right near where I live, like 3 miles from my house or so. I'll ring her tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeanuckleJive Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 It's been a while since I've posted in here, which is obviously a good thing! But I'm back now >.< To put it simply: How to be more trusting in a long distance relationship? I'm mostly feeling very secure with the whole thing. Just now and again I amplify the little bit of doubt into my mind into a big thing and it sends me under. Any long distancers able to shed some light? I've never done this before, But you have no idea how much I want this one time to work... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 Communication! Me and A used to talk to eachother all day every day (much like you and Caitlin) and phoned every now and again, that worked out pretty well 'til she went all weird - we've not spoken in a year What's getting to you? If it's not t-f friendly feel free to go to the SkozenuckleJive e-hugs thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted November 17, 2010 Report Share Posted November 17, 2010 Communication is KEY. Not smothering and all the time, but frequent and meaningful. Don't call for the sake of calling, that's just stupid, but reasons can be all sorts of stuff so make an excuse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canardweb Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Got dumped for the second time with the same girl. Story is: first time she said we lived too far from each other and she wasn't ready for some serious business. That was a long time ago. Few days later, she got f**ked by her best friend. Later on she asked me if you could be together because she couldn't understand why she dumped me and that I was perfect for her etc... She said she would move this year as she could work in another city. We spent last week together and it was awesome, she kept telling how much she loved me etc... But yesterday she said she didn't felt that much things for me anymore. And she dumped me. The worse thing is I proposed her last week, and she said yes,... Who has a rope now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 (edited) …Who has a rope now? Tying her up is probably not wise. Edit: So as not to sound like a total heartless b*****d, sorry to hear it man Go get your rope and be as happy as this man clearly is Edited November 18, 2010 by Bronz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Got dumped for the second time with the same girl. Story is: first time she said we lived too far from each other and she wasn't ready for some serious business. That was a long time ago. Few days later, she got f**ked by her best friend. Later on she asked me if you could be together because she couldn't understand why she dumped me and that I was perfect for her etc... She said she would move this year as she could work in another city. We spent last week together and it was awesome, she kept telling how much she loved me etc... But yesterday she said she didn't felt that much things for me anymore. And she dumped me. The worse thing is I proposed her last week, and she said yes,... Who has a rope now? As much as this is unhelpful, it's the cold reality of the situation: She's a proper mindf**k. Avoid her. Honestly mate, she sounds slightly mad to be pronouncing her love for you, then one week later saying she has no feelings - it's impossible to switch feelings off like that unless you do something major like kill her family or something (Which I assume you've not done?) It sounds like attention seeking / playing and it's something nobody should ever get caught up in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canardweb Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 I just don't know what is in her head. I know what is going on in mine... The rope was for me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Skipping isn't going to solve any of your problems right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canardweb Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Skipping isn't going to solve any of your problems right now. I know... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeanuckleJive Posted November 18, 2010 Report Share Posted November 18, 2010 Communication is KEY. Not smothering and all the time, but frequent and meaningful. Don't call for the sake of calling, that's just stupid, but reasons can be all sorts of stuff so make an excuse Communication! Me and A used to talk to eachother all day every day (much like you and Caitlin) and phoned every now and again Lines up with my thoughts, guess I just need to settle into the routine Seeing her tomorrow for the entire weekend, I think once I've seen her again my mind should calm the hell down a fair bit more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 Ok, so me & Hayley have properly split up this time. And a local girl really likes me. This could get messy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 The worse thing is I proposed her last week, and she said yes,... Who has a rope now? You're 20, you proposed to a girl that has already pissed you around once, open your eyes and calm down tonto! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 Where is she? You can get train tickets and coach tickets pretty dirt cheap if you book them in advance dude. Seriously, give it a go. My girl is 93 miles away from me in York, It makes it absolutely amazing when I get to see her, It could work for you too Ha ha!!! My girl is 3429 miles away from me in New York City, so I'm hoping (given the price of the plane ticket) it's going to be absolutely amazing to see her in 10 hours' time. Ain't see her in over 3 months. You boys don't know you're born!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 Ok, so me & Hayley have properly split up this time. And a local girl really likes me. This could get messy. Poor Sci Reeey, Sci! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 Why the f**k would you text me for me to reply with a quite long text, then you to reply with 3 or 4 words (of which were not "My house. Right now ) Stupid and pointless and it just goes on and on. Get me back to Sheffield plsss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 Over 1 year now since my breakup and I still look back at my last relationship. The annoying thing is that we broke up very peacfully and with great respect towards each other so I very much miss the person that she was. Such a shame it didn't work out. No luck finding anyone good enough yet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimpanzyyyy Posted November 23, 2010 Report Share Posted November 23, 2010 Got dumped for the second time with the same girl. Story is: first time she said we lived too far from each other and she wasn't ready for some serious business. That was a long time ago. Few days later, she got f**ked by her best friend. Later on she asked me if you could be together because she couldn't understand why she dumped me and that I was perfect for her etc... She said she would move this year as she could work in another city. We spent last week together and it was awesome, she kept telling how much she loved me etc... But yesterday she said she didn't felt that much things for me anymore. And she dumped me. The worse thing is I proposed her last week, and she said yes,... Who has a rope now? if you have respect for people, don't let people disrespect you she doesn't seem to treat you in a fair way IMO I m sure its not easy but best way to go is just avoid her or if you want revenge you can play games with her aswell, telling her you love her deeply then drop her like a shit. good luck, girls are such a pain in the ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted November 23, 2010 Report Share Posted November 23, 2010 good luck, girls are such a pain in the ass You're doing it the wrong way round. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeanuckleJive Posted November 24, 2010 Report Share Posted November 24, 2010 "If we're in a relationship and we're NOT arguing, there's something wrong." Apparently being able to get past arguments and carry on loving each other and all that jazz are an integral part of making a relationship stronger. To me, it seems to just be a way to tempt fate, to push the limits so to speak and generally put the whole thing on edge. Discuss? Because I don't really see the logic behind that theory. Seems to me that getting past arguments doesn't make it stronger, it just gives you more things to think about and use against each other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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