Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[CalopS]

Ill also go with number 2 then

[munkee]

I go with number 2 also. Sadly dont know why because i only read the answer above in this whole thread.

[Joe_Elding]

I hate how some days it feels like I'm in love (ha) with my gf, but other days I just wanna stab her in the face.

[Si-man]

I hate how some days it feels like I'm in love (ha) with my gf, but other days I just wanna stab her in the face.

sig'ed hahaha

[anzo]

Number 2...but be cautious. Shes never been banged (or so you think) and if you break her in, as well as having a rather appauling bed to wash, she WILL sink her claws into you.

Which if you like that kinda thing, fair enough, kinda means they'll be more honest with you because your 'special' (not needs...although sometimes I wonder ) and you'll break her big breasted heart if you f**k off somewhere. OR you may bang her and she'll start sleeping around more than a gypsie.

Usually I'd not encourage the 'destruction of relationships' but seems that no other lads take it into consideration so yea, torch his house, smash his car in and then smash his girlfriend in...

[Davey]

Right guys listen up got a problem for you:

Girl 1 - Hot as hell nicest arse, may be interested in me, has a boyfriend. We chat loads, shes really flirty almost beyond that at times.

Girl 2 - Hot again, Largest breasts and nice arse (not as much as above) but has never had a boyfriend before (before you ask, shes all innocent and stuff, im not resorting to fugly people).

Girl 3 - Really pretty face and large breasts, she has the worst figue out of the lot though. Has had a boyfriend but never had sex.

1,2 or 3

Is number 1 the person I think it is (J***) or is it that other one you were telling me about? I'm gonna guess it's not J*** because her arse is not all that nice, so I'm gonna say go with number 1 because the other two have never had boyfs and will probably be all wierd and frigid, and no one wants that do they! Cal wants a bit of action I feel!

Davey

[Has anyone seen my shoe?]

Number 2...but be cautious. Shes never been banged (or so you think) and if you break her in, as well as having a rather appauling bed to wash, she WILL sink her claws into you.

Which if you like that kinda thing, fair enough, kinda means they'll be more honest with you because your 'special' (not needs...although sometimes I wonder ) and you'll break her big breasted heart if you f**k off somewhere. OR you may bang her and she'll start sleeping around more than a gypsie.

Usually I'd not encourage the 'destruction of relationships' but seems that no other lads take it into consideration so yea, torch his house, smash his car in and then smash his girlfriend in...

HAHA

I get what you mean though, im not sure what to do, thus the consultation.

I kinda like the idea of going out with a girl whos never had sex before, but then again as Davey says, she could be all 'wierd and frigid'.

God I sound like sex is all there is (shut up Dave)

Is number 1 the person I think it is (J***) or is it that other one you were telling me about? I'm gonna guess it's not J*** because her arse is not all that nice, so I'm gonna say go with number 1 because the other two have never had boyfs and will probably be all wierd and frigid, and no one wants that do they! Cal wants a bit of action I feel!

Davey

It isnt J***, she has a bigger arse (but is still hot and I would hit it).

Lol, im gonna see what happens, and flirt wildly with numero uno for now.

[poopipe]

they aren't always weird and frigid - some of them are well up for an education (66% of them in my experience).

The major advantage with unsullied girls is that not only are you the best hump they've ever had but yours is also the biggest willy they've ever had up em . There are no worries about inadequacy with virgins.

you also get bragging rights in the pub which is excellent.

[Has anyone seen my shoe?]

Haha I suppose that is some of the appeal,

Forgot to mention I had a 'f**k I could've kissed her there' moment with Girl 3

[Dai the Socket]

they aren't always weird and frigid - some of them are well up for an education (66% of them in my experience).

The major advantage with unsullied girls is that not only are you the best hump they've ever had but yours is also the biggest willy they've ever had up em . There are no worries about inadequacy with virgins.

you also get bragging rights in the pub which is excellent.

Hahaha lol. Oh my god that made me laugh.

I know what you mean though. It's always something along the lines of 'thats massive' or 'thatll never fit in me'.

Lolllll. Hah.

[poopipe]

Haha I suppose that is some of the appeal,

Forgot to mention I had a 'f**k I could've kissed her there' moment with Girl 3

kissing's for poofs

and nick, if it's that big I want a go

[nmt_oli]

arrrrrrghhghghggg feck feckety feck feck.

long story!

[Smo™]

I'm worrying.

[nmt_oli]

Dont worry, its not anything like "i got drunk and shagged another random fat girl" or " i just got someone pregant".

Its more "why does my love life always have to be this f*cking complicated"

Edited November 25, 2006 by nmt_oli

[Smo™]

Dont worry, its not anything like "i got drunk and shagged another random fat girl" or " i just got someone pregant".

Its more "why does my love life always have to be this f*cking complicated"

That's exactly why I'm worrying mate.

[Dan6061]

You can't leave it at that though..tell the 'Agony Aunts' of the forum!

[nmt_oli]

You can't leave it at that though..tell the 'Agony Aunts' of the forum!

Are you sure- it is a LONG story! and im very hungry- tell you what, il go get some food- and if your ready for it, say so and il post when i get back.

[nmt_oli]

Right, here we go;

Moved into uni, obviously made friends with people in my halls. Of these is a girl called Stevie, shes great, get on with her really well and we have a laugh- were good friends.

Stevie has a sister, Kaleigh, also at our uni, in the year above (which is actually my age- retaking 1st year at diff uni). I really like Kaleigh. She seems to have everything I like in a girl, looks wise, and personality.

I haven’t had a chance to really get to know her, but so far I like her, but I don’t know how she feels about me, if at all- Im a generally nice guy and good at making friends with girls, which can lead to problems trying to take it further than that, they all just think I’m there sweet friend.

Anyway, I had put most of these thought to the back of my mind till last week as Kaleigh had a bf, but with the break up the feelings came back. I don’t want to just jump in there 1) I want to give her time and space, 2) I don’t want to look desperate 3) I don’t want some dodgy rebound relationship.

However, me Stevie and K went out to the cinema with some of Stevies friends last night, and ended up back at K’s house as her housemates were home for the weekend.

As the night went on I didn’t get the opportunities I was hoping for, someone else did! As the evening progressed this guy (who I had just met last night, don’t know his name) was getting closer to K, and they ended up pretty much arms round each other.

People eventually went home, Stevie and i crashed on sofas downstairs, K went to bed, followed about 20 mins later by this guy with some excuse about his phone being up there, didn’t see him again till morning.

Im prob worrying over this too much, as it very soon- so its prob just a rebound reaction, and I doubt much happened. But i still felt physically sick knowing I was downstairs and they were upstairs.

Now, 1) do I wait it out and see what happens?

2) Approach K directly, tell her how I feel and possibly jeopardize 2 friendships?

3) Approach Stevie, as there quite close and she may be able to explain situation/K’s behavior a bit more?

I’m thinking 2 or 3.

Any ideas?

Edit: spelling

Edited November 25, 2006 by nmt_oli

[Fish-Finger-er]

Im prob worrying over this too much, as it very soon- so its prob just a rebound reaction, and I doubt much happened. But i still felt physically sick knowing I was downstairs and they were upstairs.

Now, 1) do I wait it out and see what happens?

2) Approach K directly, tell her how I feel and possibly jeopardize 2 friendships?

3) Approach Stevie, as there quite close and she may be able to explain situation/K’s behavior a bit more?

I’m thinking 2 or 3.

Any ideas?

my honest opinion, right now, just wait. If K is on the rebound, and shes with a new guy, and you say this, will mess her head up even more.(which surely isnt what you want if your her friend). at the end of the day its her life, u cant expect her to have every feeling you have for her mirrored. and jumping in now really wouldnt be to wise i wouldnt think.

Also in the last 4 weeks,ive ended up in another girls bed twice, but didnt sleep with them either time, because i generally wanted a place to sleep, rather than my hole. just because he went up there doesnt mean he even slept in that bed, never mind slept with her. if there mates, there probably more than happy to share there bed.

and bear this in mind, if K is mates with this guy, and he did go up there to try and get on her.if you get into a relationship with her right about now, then chances are this guy, who wanted his chance, may well be not to happy with you(bearing in mind he only met you last night, same as you met him), and having one of her good male friends wanting yo kick you up and down the street isnt a wise move, cos itll be extremely awkward.

[nmt_oli]

my honest opinion, right now, just wait. If K is on the rebound, and shes with a new guy, and you say this, will mess her head up even more.(which surely isnt what you want if your her friend). at the end of the day its her life, u cant expect her to have every feeling you have for her mirrored. and jumping in now really wouldnt be to wise i wouldnt think.

Very good point indeed about the confusion ect. I also don't expect her to have the same feelings i do, which is why i want to talk to her, to find out where i stand. but i think your right, i should leave it a little while.

Also in the last 4 weeks,ive ended up in another girls bed twice, but didnt sleep with them either time, because i generally wanted a place to sleep, rather than my hole. just because he went up there doesnt mean he even slept in that bed, never mind slept with her. if there mates, there probably more than happy to share there bed.

I agree, not a lot probably happened, thats not nessesarily why i was anoyed. I thnk it was just jealousy, which i dont usually get.

also, as far as im aware, they also only met that evening, or if they have met before its only been briefly.

and bear this in mind, if K is mates with this guy, and he did go up there to try and get on her.if you get into a relationship with her right about now, then chances are this guy, who wanted his chance, may well be not to happy with you(bearing in mind he only met you last night, same as you met him), and having one of her good male friends wanting yo kick you up and down the street isnt a wise move, cos itll be extremely awkward.

Again, apreciated, bute i refer back to i belive they are not good freinds.

After talking to a couple of others, i am pretty sure it is an insucure rebound reaction, as she was dumped and it was a shock to her. So as much as i hate it, i think i will need to keep waiting.

Any views on talking my feelings through with stevie? (the sister i live with?)

Edited November 25, 2006 by nmt_oli

[Prawny Baby's Baby]

Ahh my poor baba Oli *snuggle*

1) Girl just split from a guy so will be messed up not sure how it ended to possibly feeling rejected etc so at the time any male attention seems great because it means your not a complete looser! Although looking back she will probably regret anything that happened with that guy so be happy he wasn't you!

2) If you are good mates with stevie then yeah chat to her, although don't think she will be able to give you all the answers just because they are sisters doesn't mean they always know what is going on in the other ones head.

3) Basic advice give it time. If she has just split up pouncing on her will not get you very far, one night if you are lucky and no more. Just be a mate until she is ready to move on maybe drop some subtle hints but only subtle ones at the moment!

[Fish-Finger-er]

depends how good mates you are with her(stevie), ultimately after hearing this, K may want nothing do to do with you"doesnt want you as a pervy mate seeing her drunk and being in her house etc(who knows wat goes through womens heads, ive had real good female mates, then once they learn im interested, they dont even want to be friends) and stevie and K are close, ultimately bloods thicker than water an all that crap. may lose both there friendships.

is talkin to her about her sister gunna possibly jeopardize your relationship with her.

[nmt_oli]

Ahh my poor baba Oli *snuggle*

1) Girl just split from a guy so will be messed up not sure how it ended to possibly feeling rejected etc so at the time any male attention seems great because it means your not a complete looser! Although looking back she will probably regret anything that happened with that guy so be happy he wasn't you!

2) If you are good mates with stevie then yeah chat to her, although don't think she will be able to give you all the answers just because they are sisters doesn't mean they always know what is going on in the other ones head.

3) Basic advice give it time. If she has just split up pouncing on her will not get you very far, one night if you are lucky and no more. Just be a mate until she is ready to move on maybe drop some subtle hints but only subtle ones at the moment!

1) Cheers for confirming that thought Tori- 3) was my origonal plan, but seeing 1) happen wa sliek "wtf is happening here, this shouldnt be happening" so got my head very messed up.

2) i realy would liek to do this, and i know not all the answers are available. Trials Punk also makes a good point, i need to be sure and it may pay to wait a little here too.

[anzo]

A girl in the Girl Trouble Thread! It'd nice to not have some sex starved, male, in their 20's...a kid on the way perhaps?...Polluting this thread and warping the minds of his prey.

Not naming any names...

[yoyoyo]

Why is it the only lass's i get on well with are always taken and in a relationship they are really happy with.

Unfortunatley i am uncapable of coming up with a plan that would split them up without it ending up in killing him.