dirt jumper jake Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Sounds like a headf**k, f*ck her off. HA! Elaborate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Cheers for that but I'm afraid I can't call the cinema off now! . I could always meet her an hour or two before hand? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 HA! Elaborate Exactly that. If she's just going to mess with your head then don't bother talking to her, at all. She'll either get bored of stringing you along and piss off, or realise she's been a fanny and come back, you either lose a bitch or get the girl you want back without her being a nobhead, win win . I could always meet her an hour or two before hand? You mean you were planning on going to the cinema with a girl you've never spoken to, watch a film then go home, and nothing else?! You've not really thought this through have you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dann2707 Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Plans are not my speciality. The cinema is at 9.50pm to be honest though! X Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirt jumper jake Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 realise she's been a fanny and come back, you either lose a bitch or get the girl you want back without her being a nobhead, win win This, this is wahts happened, but i dont wanna get treated like shit again yet i still like her, help ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) Luke's on the money, you need to do something where you can really get to know her slash show her you're worthy of some attention Jake; tell her that - she'll probably take it on board given the situation and you wont lose anything... Edited July 23, 2010 by Skoze Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 This, this is wahts happened, but i dont wanna get treated like shit again yet i still like her, help ? Have a missed a few posts, 'cause it sounds like she's still pissing you around? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Cinema is weak. Meet her, have some light food, talk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirt jumper jake Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Cinema is weak. Meet her, have some light food sex, talk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) My girlfriend is the most beautiful and wonderful person I have ever had the privilege of ever having met in my life, but our relationship has all but run its course. It will break my heart but I'm worried it may be for the best. What the f**k can I do guys? Anyone on here who's met my missus will tell you she's cool as f**k, and I don't want to lose her, but we've got to the point we almost hate each other. If we break up I will be f**ked, but if we stay together any longer I will want to break up. This girl is perfect. Help, please… Edit: I spell like a twat sometimes. Edited July 23, 2010 by Bronz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirt jumper jake Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Tell how you feel, do what your well trained gut feels is right, and all will be cool... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) I still don't even take my missus to the cinema unless I just want a couple of hours of time to think without having to call 'me time'. Maybe it's just because I enjoy our conversations so much, but I can't ever imagine taking a girl on a first date to a cinema. Can't even get drunk enough to lose inhibitions there... Edited July 23, 2010 by JD™ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Bronz: You love her to bits, but you hate her? Sounds like things have just gotten stale (which may or may not be your fault), liven things up a bit and get back to having good times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) Bronz: You love her to bits, but you hate her? Sounds like things have just gotten stale (which may or may not be your fault), liven things up a bit and get back to having good times. <snip> Edited July 26, 2010 by Bronz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 Do you want to be in love with her? I've been where you are and I now have everything I want relationship wise. If you wanna chat i'm on msn on jdilworth@1stfinance.co.uk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 It's up to you guys to keep having fun - if you can't do it then you can't do it, but it's the only "fix" Random spontaneous trips/activites, pissing about, surprising her with stuff (not gifts, hell no, but little things like wake her up early and drive her somewhere lush for breakfast without her knowing about it etc), it's the way it should be. Fun won't just happen, you need to make it happen Sometimes talking about it just makes it more of an issue than it is/needs to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) It's up to you guys to keep having fun - if you can't do it then you can't do it, but it's the only "fix" Random spontaneous trips/activites, pissing about, surprising her with stuff (not gifts, hell no, but little things like wake her up early and drive her somewhere lush for breakfast without her knowing about it etc), it's the way it should be. Fun won't just happen, you need to make it happen Sometimes talking about it just makes it more of an issue than it is/needs to be. <snip> Edited July 26, 2010 by Bronz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 You're spot on right dude. I feel I don't do enough of that stuff y'know, that really could be part of the problem. But it's more low-level than that too. I shit you not, she got in a massive (I mean iceberg-that-sank-the-titanic kind of massive) mood a fortnight ago because I ordered a sandwich without mayo on that we were supposed to share. It's to the point that shit like that becomes a point of venomous argument. She ruined my birthday night out three weeks ago purely by getting in a mood over nothing (I am not exaggerating! She still, to this day, does not know what I did wrong). It's honestly like there's more hate right now than potential love. I wholeheartedly agree on the spontaneity front, but that can only go so far as far as long-term and underlying problems are concerned, surely? Man you guys are awesome though, thanks for just listening (reading). It's genuinely appreciated. And JD I may just drop you a mail fella. Probably best when I'm feeling a little more clear in my thoughts, but that's a top thing to offer out dude, thank you Harry Don't email that address, it's just my msn login. If you want to email go with jason@fifty6marketing.co.uk. But yea, it seems like you don't really want it to work - that's an outsiders view with next to no information. You need to ask whether you want it to work, if you do then you need to ask yourself why you're allowing yourself not to let it happen... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 …But yea, it seems like you don't really want it to work - that's an outsiders view with next to no information. You need to ask whether you want it to work, if you do then you need to ask yourself why you're allowing yourself not to let it happen... You're so right. Man, you're so so right. Shiiiit. Thinking time. Thanks so much fella, you have no idea. You too, Luke. Much appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 You're so right. Man, you're so so right. Shiiiit. Thinking time. Thanks so much fella, you have no idea. You too, Luke. Much appreciated. Search posts in this thread with me mentioning Emily - if that's even possible on this search. I've been there so I hear what you're saying. I really thought I loved that girl but I was subconsciously sabotaging it at every opportunity. So much fairer on everyone else to just give it up when you can't tell yourself you really love them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 You're so right. Man, you're so so right. Shiiiit. Thinking time. Thanks so much fella, you have no idea. You too, Luke. Much appreciated. Search posts in this thread with me mentioning Emily - if that's even possible on this search. I've been there so I hear what you're saying. I really thought I loved that girl but I was subconsciously sabotaging it at every opportunity. So much fairer on everyone else to just give it up when you can't tell yourself you really love them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 I think me and her are both doing the same. If I ever meet you for real I'm getting you several pints dude, and hold me to that one Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luke Rainbird Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 The other option is to get rowdy so you can have great make up sex, of course. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronz Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 That too sounds good… Decisions, end a nineteen month relationship or have filthy make-up sex…? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted July 23, 2010 Report Share Posted July 23, 2010 That too sounds good… Decisions, end a nineteen month relationship and have filthy make-up sex…? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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