Luke Rainbird Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 Dazzla!You really should have said something while you were up here, I would have forced you out Sunday night!Glad you have it straight now though mate, you weren't in a good way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ogre Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 Hey guy's got a problem theres a girl i like who hangs down the village and when im with her were great i think she likes me i like her, but when other lads are out she throws herself at them and ignores mewhy is this im confused Adam?could be just trying to get yiou a bit jealous or something? meh just ask her out and see what happens Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaun H Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 Hey guy's got a problem theres a girl i like who hangs down the village and when im with her were great i think she likes me i like her, but when other lads are out she throws herself at them and ignores mewhy is this im confused Adam?She's either trying and succeeding in making you jealous OR she's a complete slag.Think carefully about which one it is before doing anything.Disclaimer - I could be completely wrong and it's neither of those things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted November 8, 2006 Report Share Posted November 8, 2006 Just wondering what you people would do Two twin sisters, both pretty but one prettier than the other. Spent lots of time with one of them just because I was late for the party and didn't get the chance to sit between them - somebody beat me to it. I spent a very nice night with her (#1) but in the morning I realized that her sister (#2) is much prettier and not as tall, and that I'd rather go out with her. This isn't as easy as it may sound because I've already met up with #1 several times and I think she wants to be with me, so it'd be rude if I suddenly dated with #2.How? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smo™ Posted November 8, 2006 Report Share Posted November 8, 2006 Just wondering what you people would do Two twin sisters, both pretty but one prettier than the other. Spent lots of time with one of them just because I was late for the party and didn't get the chance to sit between them - somebody beat me to it. I spent a very nice night with her (#1) but in the morning I realized that her sister (#2) is much prettier and not as tall, and that I'd rather go out with her. This isn't as easy as it may sound because I've already met up with #1 several times and I think she wants to be with me, so it'd be rude if I suddenly dated with #2.How?I had a similar problem not too long ago. Walk away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted November 8, 2006 Report Share Posted November 8, 2006 I had a similar problem not too long ago. Walk away.explain? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalopS Posted November 8, 2006 Report Share Posted November 8, 2006 How?Pick the one you like more personailty wise, which sounds like number 1where as it just sounds like you wanna f**k number 2It wont last if you just pick the prittist one, youll get bored and want number 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 Yea go more on personality, then on looks. If you enjoy #1's company more then things will probably last longer. If however #2 is better personality and in looks... well kinda speaks for itself. From the sounds of things though, sounds like #1 is fairly cool and you got on really well with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davey Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 (edited) AaarrrggghhhhOk, I try to avoid posting in here but I need your advice guys.My girl is lovely, it's a well known fact. BUT recently she has been hanging out at this pub which I NEVER go to anymore. The reason I don't go there (apart from the fact I don't drink) is that it is full of waster scum. All they do is get pissed and talk shite like they think they know it all, and when they're not pissed all they talk about is how pissed they were the other night. They have no ambition, no drive to do anything other than bum about and they are so sad and immature it's unreal.So anyway, she's been going there, and she gets pissed off at me because I won't go with her. I have better things to do than hang around with those people frankly, when I'm in there I feel like I'd rather die than stay there and listen to them talk utter shit. But this in itself is not a problem, I'd just not go and leave her to it, she doesn't come to my gigs because it's not her thing so we both have our own stuff that we do seperately. But the thing is she has started to change, she blows out other friends and college etc to go and get pissed during the day, and by the time I see her she's a bit of a mess. She has started going on about how cool these people are and seems oblivious to the fact they are clearly idiots!This is possibly the worst thing that has happened to me ever. My girl is becoming that which I most hate. What the bloody hell do I do?HELP!Davey Edited November 9, 2006 by Small_Gear_Big_Style Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonCongreve Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 (edited) I've been in a similar situation when i go out for the night my my gf, she wants to go to one pub with her mates and i don't want to. She then gets annoyed with me when i don't want to go to this pub, but when i used to go she just ended up talking to all her mates from school, pretty much ignoring me . If i was you i'd simply tell her how you feel about her 'changing', trying to explain that you feel she's becoming what you don't like. If she doesn't want to go to your gigs and you're fine with that, then she should be ok that you don't wanna hang around with people you don't like. Edited November 9, 2006 by JonCongreve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 In all honesty i think you should tell her face to face. Let her know how you feel, and just point out that you really dont like it. But emphisise that you dont mind her hanging out with her mates. Sounds like she might also becoming quite a heavey drinker, Spesh is it heavy drinkingduring the day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davey Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 Well yeah the drinking does worry me a little but I mean all people her age go out and get pissed a lot, hell I used to so I can hardly preach just because I don't drink now. That doesn't bother me so much really, it's more the attitude that I can already see rubbing off on her, like she thinks she's grown up a lot recently but from where I'm standing she's gone backwards. Maybe I'm being selfish and sentimental, people change after all and I do love her, but the old Amy was perfect and frankly it'd be a crime if these tossers destroyed her!Davey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 it'd be a crime if these tossers destroyed her!I had that happen, f**ked me right off. Looking back on it now I wish I'd never got envolved because I ended up worse from it, and she never changed anyway.As said, talk to her face to face, compromise it the key! lol. If she wont compromise, f**k her off becuase its obvious proof she doesn't give a toss.But anyways, It can't be nice for you. How old is she? Sure shes not just havin a bit of a phase because shes found somewhere where she can get served? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dai the Socket Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 Me and the gf aren't going too well. eek. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davey Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 (edited) But anyways, It can't be nice for you. How old is she? Sure shes not just havin a bit of a phase because shes found somewhere where she can get served?Haha, she's 18, she wouldn't get served otherwise because she is tiny. I was thinking it might be a phase, but then also thought that this might just be how she's gonna grow up, as a drunken waster, I've seen it happen before. I've decided to go along with her and endure one night of that place to see what the fuss is about, and then just talk to her about it.I'll let you know how it goes!Davey Edited November 9, 2006 by Small_Gear_Big_Style Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 I'll let you know how it goes!DaveyHope things go well m8! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Clark Posted November 9, 2006 Report Share Posted November 9, 2006 If she's turned 18 fairly recently it could be the excitement of legal drinking in pubs.It died off for me in a few months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhythm_101 Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 (edited) first time ever that i talk about my love life.. basically i've been with my girl for nearl 1yr 3months, but it's all gone a bit stale, i find that i want to be with her less and less, i think i've grown out of her if you know what i mean, the thing is, if i leave her she's going to be messed up, and i'm a bit of a coward.. i've also met this girl, well woman, whos got me all giggly in the stomach, and i really like her i han't got a clue what to do!! leave my girlfriend and be free, or stay with her for convinience and not to hurt her? HELP Edited November 10, 2006 by rhythm_101 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tom e Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 my girlfriend uses predicted text and when she sends me drunk text messages i can't tell what they say, HELP! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew_Gibson Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 (edited) its funny wen u read urs back and there are random numbers in words, and there about 5 "y" instead of "x" Edited November 10, 2006 by Matt Gibson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Token Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 im 17. shes a very fine 24 year old, we text each other an to be honest i can see its not going to go anywhere so: A - do i do my upmost in trying to bed this female that is interested but turned off by my age Or B - forget it and spend my time trying to get a real girlfriendmeh?! maybe i can do both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onza Kieron Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 I say go for both, no harm in tryin for a while, you never know, you may get in there lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 [...]Had the same thing happen to me a while ago. The thing you might want to consider is if you leave her, how will you react when you see her with another guy. I got a bit bored with my ex, didn't meet up with her that often and everything started falling apart slowly, but I really started to care when she wrote to me that she's got a new boyfriend. If you want to be with this woman then go for it and in the meantime slowly start ignoring your girlfriend. Don't tell her it's over, just behave as if it was. Much easier for her and for you.And one other thing. We're all young - no matter if you're 13 or 22 this is an age when you should get your balls to work hard. When you're 30 you might want to think seriously about another woman but not now. Just play around - it's now or never. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew_Gibson Posted November 17, 2006 Report Share Posted November 17, 2006 (edited) ......... Edited April 10, 2007 by Matt Gibson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Nichols Posted November 18, 2006 Report Share Posted November 18, 2006 Girls don't like me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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