Teenage Angst Communal Agony Aunt Thread

[JD™]

want my girlfriend back, why are girls such headf**ks.

Maybe you'd still have her if you weren't such a whiney little bitch. Seriously, every post from you for the past couple of weeks has been 'oh my god my life is so bad'. Quit complaining and do something about it. Yep, that's my sympathetic approach.

[Revolver]

Maybe you'd still have her if you weren't such a whiney little bitch. Seriously, every post from you for the past couple of weeks has been 'oh my god my life is so bad'. Quit complaining and do something about it. Yep, that's my sympathetic approach.

Good ol' JD

[Simpson]

3 days.... im getting better at this! hahaha

Oh well chin up, working in London this week see what comes of those shindigs!

edit: to clarify im single! lol

Edited June 20, 2010 by Simpson

[Skoze]

What the deuce happened?

[Simpson]

She works 50 hours a week

I'm going to work in London, then as soon as I get back its roadtrip (woop woop), then im going back to pompey (and i never come home)

So it was a dumb idea, yea we still love each other but just because we want things to work doesnt mean that they can.

[Joe O'Connor]

The girl I like doesnt want to go to the school ball with me. I know the ball is kinda lame, but still.

Its got me feeling rather depressed

[Luke Rainbird]

So take someone else, be awesome, and make her wish she's said yes.

[Fish-Finger-er]

been played hook line and sinker, could of turned out way worse like. but yea. girls are c*nts.

my mate slept with a girl about 5 years ago, who was mighty fine, whilst he was between relationships, i know hed been back for some more meaningless sex a year or so later. but thats all it was, he never wanted to date or go out with her.

for the last 3 years, on and off, ive been seeing her, not behind his back, since he has a gf, (and the girl he tried to get with to replace his current girlfriend, was a girl he kinda stole off me, when i lapsed on seeing her for a month or so) but wever never really spoke of it, partly because he didnt care, partly cos i dont go making a habit of tellin everyone my dirty little secrets, when theres people in our circle of friends, whod id like to date. he knew what was goin on, and wasnt overly arsed with it, but he didnt know it was still goin on, or how often it had gone on.

last weekend he let it slip he was textin her(borrowed a mates phone to text her, when his was dead), she at this point told me hed just started texting her. I then found out shed been round to his flat 2 weeks ago whilst his gf was away, although nothing happened, and that every night this week hes been to see her for several hours a night, and last night, as his parents where away, he payed his bro to feck off out, so he could take her back to his rents(alltough again aparently nothing happened)

now turns out, he has been seeing her on the sly, for the past 3 years. and shes screwed us over royally. I cant tell him, because its like im nicking his bit on the side, he cant tell me, because he then tells me hes been cheatin on his gf.

thankfully, as she turned him down for sex last night, hes currently ignorin her, and hopefully thatll be that, but it was lookin on wednesday/thursday like they were gunna get together, and that couldnt of been pretty,. the girl id been seeing on the quiet for 3 years, who had also been seeing my mate on the quiet for the same amount of time, living with my mate. Or what if id of got with her, would she still of been seein him on the sly, would he of just straight up told me she was a hoe, or what ?

but yea, to summarise, some girls are c*nts.

[Simpson]

Oh man I feel for you!

[dirt jumper jake]

What a hoe

[Duncy H]

Women fack with my head

[Hendrix]

Women fack with my head

+1.

My girlfriend and I have been going out 6 months this Thursday. I take her to almost every gig I play at, travel hours to see her, spend a bloody fortune to see her sometimes and make loads of time spare and I never once get a 'thank you'. Also, in the past 6 months I've only gone to ONE family gathering of hers, vs. I've taken her to about 10 of mine. It's starting to piss me off too much now and I'm just gonna flip at her soon.

edit: She NEVER makes time to see me. EVER!

Edited June 20, 2010 by Hendrix

[Revolver]

Lol, put less effort in, get more results.

[Hendrix]

Lol, put less effort in, get more results.

I've been thinking about knocking it on the head all together recently, just due to how much of her 'I don't give a f**k' attitude I've been getting.

[Revolver]

Could do, depends on actually how much of a dick she's being.

Certainly leave her to her own devices for a while, see what excuses she comes up with, ha.

[Hendrix]

Could do, depends on actually how much of a dick she's being.

Certainly leave her to her own devices for a while, see what excuses she comes up with, ha.

One minute she's free Monday, next minute she's going to a family BBQ. Fair enough, but why aren't I invited? I talked to her cousin and she said she was taking her boyfriend as well as her brother was taking his girlfriend.

[Revolver]

Cool, leave her be then.

[Luke Rainbird]

To be fair, I wouldn't want to take you to a family BBQ...

[weirdoku]

To be fair, I wouldn't want to take you to a family BBQ...

Oh buuuuurn.

[MikeCottTrials]

been played hook line and sinker, could of turned out way worse like. but yea. girls are c*nts.

my mate slept with a girl about 5 years ago, who was mighty fine, whilst he was between relationships, i know hed been back for some more meaningless sex a year or so later. but thats all it was, he never wanted to date or go out with her.

for the last 3 years, on and off, ive been seeing her, not behind his back, since he has a gf, (and the girl he tried to get with to replace his current girlfriend, was a girl he kinda stole off me, when i lapsed on seeing her for a month or so) but wever never really spoke of it, partly because he didnt care, partly cos i dont go making a habit of tellin everyone my dirty little secrets, when theres people in our circle of friends, whod id like to date. he knew what was goin on, and wasnt overly arsed with it, but he didnt know it was still goin on, or how often it had gone on.

last weekend he let it slip he was textin her(borrowed a mates phone to text her, when his was dead), she at this point told me hed just started texting her. I then found out shed been round to his flat 2 weeks ago whilst his gf was away, although nothing happened, and that every night this week hes been to see her for several hours a night, and last night, as his parents where away, he payed his bro to feck off out, so he could take her back to his rents(alltough again aparently nothing happened)

now turns out, he has been seeing her on the sly, for the past 3 years. and shes screwed us over royally. I cant tell him, because its like im nicking his bit on the side, he cant tell me, because he then tells me hes been cheatin on his gf.

thankfully, as she turned him down for sex last night, hes currently ignorin her, and hopefully thatll be that, but it was lookin on wednesday/thursday like they were gunna get together, and that couldnt of been pretty,. the girl id been seeing on the quiet for 3 years, who had also been seeing my mate on the quiet for the same amount of time, living with my mate. Or what if id of got with her, would she still of been seein him on the sly, would he of just straight up told me she was a hoe, or what ?

but yea, to summarise, some girls are c*nts.

To be honest, I know it can be hard when it's a friend. BUT your friend is a f**king wanker, he steals girls off you that he knows your in the process of whatever with AND he will do it to you any chance he gets

[Shaun H]

Back to square one yet again with whatever it is that's actually up with her - it's driving me f**king insane.

Literally, every week when she sees her dad she's a bit down about it all which is understandable, but ever sice she last saw him she's been reeeeeeally weird, ended up having a big heart to heart last night when i was with her which resulted in her "thinking about it" with regards to actually telling me. Argh.

If i had the slightest idea of what was going on it wouldn't be anywhere near as bad as right now it's pure speculation on my part, and what she says hardly helps;

(we finally got somewhere with it last week and she tried talking about some stuff)

Her "i dunno, sometimes he just looks at me like he wants to punch me"

Me "if ever he does i'm stabbing him in the face with a brick"

*silence and her avoiding eye contact*

Other memorable quotes;

"It's not that I don't want to tell you, i just can't - i promised i wouldn't"

"other people go through a lot worse"

"everyone's got troubles in their life, this is just mine, i'll be alright in a few days when i sort it out in my head"

me; "well does anyone know about it?" "they used to..." this was pretty worrying, some properly bad shit went on a while a go and there was a loot of police and counselling and the like....

"i've dealt with it my whole life, it's not something new"

"i know you want to help but you can't, it's not just gonna change overnight"

I then worked my arse off doing some of the worlds best ever persuasion and whatnot, which kinda worked then she just went into a whole world of;

"i don't see why you put up with this, you deserve better blah blah blah" 'cos i love you?

"you shouldn't go through this every week" f**king tell me then!

And many others not too dissimilar....

Just ended up with her telling me she's going to sleep and me taking about 45 minutes to walk home when i'm only 10 minutes down the road at about 1 in the morning.

There's a lot of really nasty shit in this world and i don't want her to be part of it... I can't see what's so bad she can't tell me, or any of her mates or family? Always shrugs it off and says it's nothing when it clearly isn't, people don't cover up little things.

Pure speculation here but sounds a lot like her dad is the violent, threatening type...

[PeanuckleJive]

To be honest, I know it can be hard when it's a friend. BUT your friend is a f**king wanker, he steals girls off you that he knows your in the process of whatever with AND he will do it to you any chance he gets

+1

Been there, done that. I've lost my chance with a few people because 'friends' get sneaky and compete with you behind your back

@Skoze:

That all sounds f**ked up man, Does she HAVE to go see him? Can she not just stop going round?

Other people should have noticed what you notice but nobody seems to have done anything?! Doesn't make sense at all.

[Luke Rainbird]

Skoze, there's not a huge amount you can do to force it out of her, so don't try mate.

Men with a problem -> Listen, think of solutions, win.

Women with problems -> Listen, do no more.

Just make sure she know's you're there, there's not a lot more you can do unfortunately. It's frustrating!

What's also frustrating is that due to wank internet, minor time differences and generally being busy both ends, Charli and I have hardly been in contact this week. Bad times

[Fish-Finger-er]

To be honest, I know it can be hard when it's a friend. BUT your friend is a f**king wanker, he steals girls off you that he knows your in the process of whatever with AND he will do it to you any chance he gets

yea, but.... crucially ive nicked this girl back off him, so ive been a bit of a wanker about it, i just didnt realise shed been seeing him on the sly, as well as seeing me on the sly. the fact he nicked a girl i was in the process of getting with is water under the bridge, im a twat when it comes to girls generally. and i generally lose interest, if he liked her, he should of gone for it, cos there was every chance id of started watching lost or summit and ignored her for like 3 weeks ( as in im sure he got in there, cos id gone like 3 weeks without seein her),

Its more the fact that this girl has played us both for fools. hes cheated on his bird, but thats life and is irrelevant, me an him have both been twats, but neither of us can admit it.

she spent last night askin me to come over cos she was horny, with recent events i didnt, then despite her telling my mate he was a lieing cheating scumbag, he picked her up from the pub, and went back to hers, like a chump. wether he knows that an hour earlier she was asking the same from me is unknown, do i spill the beans and we both get a lil arsey with each other, then fck her right off, an go for a pint. keep totally quiet about the whole thing, as if shed never told me, but not speak to her again, or pretend ive never found sh*t out and go on blissfully unaware/

[Luke Rainbird]

I know man, that's the most annoying bit about it! I'm never gonna push it with her or make her do anything she doesn't want to, but it's turning into something she needs to let someone else know about as it's reeeeeeally not doing her any good.

PS, Faecebook tells me a bunch of my friends know Charli?

She sails, wouldn't surprise me