Spikenipple Posted October 8, 2006 Report Share Posted October 8, 2006 Just ditch her and forget about it, my ex keeps talking to me and as much as i want to move on i cant kick this knack that i still like her. It's really pissing me off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted October 8, 2006 Report Share Posted October 8, 2006 Can you not just talk to her as a friend?Tell her straight that you don't want another relationship with her?It's pretty hard to treat somebody, who you were in a close relationship with for 4 years, like a friend. Somebody who behaved in the way she did can not be classed as a friend or be treated in this way. I think I'll do as Mr. Spikenipple wrote, just get rid of her. But the thing about women is that if you say no, they'll come back with double impact Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synergy Posted October 9, 2006 Report Share Posted October 9, 2006 I thought I'd never have to post in this thread again but today my ex thought it'd be a good idea to get in touch with me after 3 months of giving no sign of life. The worst thing is, she treated me as if nothing had ever happened. I hate her, I could kill her but I could also fall in love with her again. So, she basically asked how are things my end to which I replied nothing, so then she went on to complaining that if I swear at her in texts (probably my 10th attempt at getting my mobile back, lol), our relationship "won't get any better". WTF?!?!? She completely destroyed all of it, treated me like a piece of shit and now she's saying I'm destroying something? So then she goes onto another subject. She apparently saw me riding trials on Friday. I tell her it's not me, I no longer have a mod and it has hardly any blue parts in it, but she says she knows it was me and I'm looking for a good excuse because I ignored her. Lol #2. Then she says she's got to get up for uni tomorrow, and needs to go to bed, then says see you soon. So basically I think I want no more contact with her. But on the other hand, she WAS a very nice girl. Should I call her and ask her never to contact me again? Or should I just leave it and wait for matters to sort themselves out?stop all contact with her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 9, 2006 Report Share Posted October 9, 2006 stop all contact with her It 100% works. Sucks at first, but you wont regret doing it. Its hard at times, just get through it and you'll be better of for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted October 9, 2006 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2006 Words of experience I would basically, still talk to her if she talked to me but make no concious effort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greetings Posted October 9, 2006 Report Share Posted October 9, 2006 Told her I don't want any more contact with her, that I'm fed up with her and all I want is my mobile back (mainly because I know she hasn't got it and want to be a pain in the arse ). She kind of ignored it and started asking about me, how uni is etc. She's thick and I'm starting to enjoy myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 (edited) A rather large bump: I got dumped tother day and I think i'm over the girl, anyway, her mate texted me today and said that she still fancies me and if I try hard enough She'll go back out with me again. which is ok, apart from the fact that I now sort of fancy the same girl that texted me about my ex, so that means I could go for the relatively safe option of going with a girl who I know I will have fun with etc. and have gone out with twice before, OR possibly losing that girl and trying to go out with her mate, who I don't know as well, but do definately fancy her but also have no idea whether she feels the same way about me Does that make any sense?To sum it up:Her: (orig. GF)[attachmentid=7595]Or Her: Edited October 16, 2006 by Joe_Elding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 (edited) Well......... theres this girl i was 'seeing', but not goin out with.......we kissed loads of times n all that, held hands n stuff, goin pretty well...she told me tonight on msn she pulled some other guy last night and friday night. last night i saw her at about 10ish then apparently she pulled some other guy at like 1am.......i am proper annoyed.....but i dont really know what to do.....we werent actually going out but its pissed me off.....what do u lot thinkDo him over. EDIT: oh for f**ks sake, i always get good replies to posts that are years old *cries self to sleep* Edited October 16, 2006 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 A rather large bump: I got dumped tother day and I think i'm over the girl, anyway, her mate texted me today and said that she still fancies me and if I try hard enough She'll go back out with me again. which is ok, apart from the fact that I now sort of fancy the same girl that texted me about my ex, so that means I could go for the relatively safe option of going with a girl who I know I will have fun with etc. and have gone out with twice before, OR possibly losing that girl and trying to go out with her mate, who I don't know as well, but do definately fancy her but also have no idea whether she feels the same way about me Go for your ex's mate, loads more fun. Although watch out, depending on how closer mates they are, she could tell your ex you've been trying it on and then your f**ked for both of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe_Elding Posted October 16, 2006 Report Share Posted October 16, 2006 HAHA turns out the ex wants absolutely nothing to do with me and specifically said:''no I dont fancy you anymore. sorry but I'm seeing Morgan''Giving me the 'go ahead' on her mate, takeing her down el pub tomorrow. Woot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 BUMP!Ok just thought i would consult the TF doctors On sunday night after an awesome!(if wet) ride in Bristol, i fin out my GF has cheated on me.... twice! Now this royaly sucks, as i love her to bits, and was awesome, but now im confused as im not sure if i should try and forgive her(given that normally i would just walk away and turn my back on her), or is i should continue like previously.Really beat up about this, and after having a fairly alright ride last night im still no closer to making a decision. I know there was a cheating topic a while back, but this seems more appropriate...Any words of wisdom? Should i stay? or just walk away(after f**king her silly one last time)? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 Forgiveness with this bullshit is wrong as hell. It will just show her that your weak and pathetic, and she'll use it to her advantage.She'll do it again, and again, and again and she'll drive you mad. I for one of millions know its difficult as hell to 'give up' on someone you 'love' but as hard as this may sound, she doesn't love you.Sorry, I know it sounds rotten as hell, but take a check on yourself mate, do you want someone you can't trust? Every night when she goes out with mates you'll be sat at home questioning everything...I've been there and its not a nice thing, at all.Its not what being with a girl is about mate, find someone decent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 Yea i know, thats why i normally walk away, starting to feel like thats the right thing to do. Dont know, just for some reason i just finding it har to mke a desicion..... god knows why. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anzo Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 Do what any concerned, undecisive man would do......make a poll. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caleb Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 id settle over a cup of tea.to her face, then find the lads she cheated with and if they knew about you id suggest a more direct approach to revenge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 id suggest a more direct approach to revenge A removal of gentialia has been considered.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted October 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2006 or just walk away(after f**king her silly one last time)?*Bing Bing Bing* Thats the right answer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted October 27, 2006 Report Share Posted October 27, 2006 Don't give her the pleasure.Ask to meet somewhere, walk up to her, "shut up, don't talk, listen", hand her a piece of paper with her number on it "i wont need this anymore", "i don't want to see or talk to you again, goodbye", and calmly walk away.Show no emotion.Go forfth and conquer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted October 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2006 Lol, Blowjob first Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poopipe Posted October 27, 2006 Report Share Posted October 27, 2006 Any words of wisdom? kick her in the tits (had to - it's expected of me)er, if you want to keep her then keep her but make sure you cheat back (it always made me feel better and if you don't tell her about it you can maintain the moral highground) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willsey Posted October 27, 2006 Report Share Posted October 27, 2006 On sunday night after an awesome!(if wet) ride in Bristol, i fin out my GF has cheated on me.... twice! Now this royaly sucks, as i love her to bits, and was awesome, but now im confused as im not sure if i should try and forgive her(given that normally i would just walk away and turn my back on her), or is i should continue like previously.Any words of wisdom? Should i stay? or just walk away(after f**king her silly one last time)?Once a cheat, Always a cheat, thats how it goes and if she knows you love her to bits, of course she will use it to her advantage.My brother was with this blonde bimbo which everyone thought was fit, and they both seemed to love each other to bits, until one day she cheated on him. I went spair n stood up for him and found the boy, n basically offered him out but he shit it and went real soppy and begged Olly, my brother, for forgiveness. Olly accepted and got back with the girl (Aysha) because she was 'soo sorry and was near suicide... anyway.. was going well for a while after (about a year) until.. he was really f**ked off with her and dumped her at a party, BUT then found out the next morning that she had cheated on him with a boy thats supposed to be pretty hard called lewie, so Olly just didnt wana ever speak to her again and he didnt wana no this Lewie either, but then Lewie said how sorry he was and shizzle (which meant nothing) and i went to a party with Olly and saw this Lewie and he appologised and wasnt putting on a hard man act so we left it because my brother told me i wasnt allowed to hit him (even though Olly should of himself)So now thats 2 people i have a big grudge on... which im sure will come up next time i see them when im pissed..And now after all that, my brother is constantly getting txts from aysha saying how she still loves him and all that crap, nearly a year later, and she is suffering bad (and getting fat!)... she is also loosing all her mates because of what a whore she is..So now Olly loves being single n shagging other birds while she ccries at home and has nothing now... No-one trusts her anymore and she can rot in hell for all i care...Now who has come out on top... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monty boi Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 Hey guy's got a problem theres a girl i like who hangs down the village and when im with her were great i think she likes me i like her, but when other lads are out she throws herself at them and ignores mewhy is this im confused Adam? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 (edited) BUMP!Ok just thought i would consult the TF doctors On sunday night after an awesome!(if wet) ride in Bristol, i fin out my GF has cheated on me.... twice! Now this royaly sucks, as i love her to bits, and was awesome, but now im confused as im not sure if i should try and forgive her(given that normally i would just walk away and turn my back on her), or is i should continue like previously.Really beat up about this, and after having a fairly alright ride last night im still no closer to making a decision. I know there was a cheating topic a while back, but this seems more appropriate...Any words of wisdom? Should i stay? or just walk away(after f**king her silly one last time)?I think we all know what the keyword here is.But tell her to f**k off, think, if you cheated on her she'd be right out the door (thats just how girls work) and never want to see you again, i'll let you make your decisions but i'd dump her. Edited October 29, 2006 by Fat Pants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgun_Donor Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 Hey guys thanks for the advice!Well back to being single again, last night was great after the ball and chain was let loose! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fixed Pants™ Posted October 29, 2006 Report Share Posted October 29, 2006 YOU GO GIRL!!! Nice one, shes a hoe anyway, you don't want her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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