Rich J Posted March 16, 2010 Report Share Posted March 16, 2010 Also she might be stupid. She is stupid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arw_86 Posted March 16, 2010 Report Share Posted March 16, 2010 She's just turned 5, not like I fancy a toddler or anything, christ. o my bad! 5's fair enough! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted March 16, 2010 Report Share Posted March 16, 2010 Too late to tell me I'm right I'm not talking to you until you apologise for the next 6 weeks and generally be a complete pussy around me, hmmph She's just turned 5, not like I fancy a toddler or anything, christ. Haha, yeahs sorry it wasn't what I wanted to hear at the time. Then when I thought over it, it all made sense! So yeah, thanks for that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Koxx hydroxx 2 Jack * Posted March 16, 2010 Report Share Posted March 16, 2010 (edited) what to doo .. i got with a girl , thinking it was no strings , turns ou shes a phyco .. waiting outside my classes , knowing im not at all interested , then she starts trying to kiss me in the corridors. shouting my name across the school , so i just walk on .. also it turns out she's a satainest .. and also a bisexual .. never good :// Edited March 16, 2010 by *Koxx hydroxx 2 Jack * Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadManMike Posted March 16, 2010 Report Share Posted March 16, 2010 what to doo .. i got with a girl , thinking it was no strings , turns ou shes a phyco .. waiting outside my classes , knowing im not at all interested , then she starts trying to kiss me in the corridors. shouting my name across the school , so i just walk on .. also it turns out she's a satainest .. and also a bisexual .. never good :// Bisexual - Good, especially if no strings. Satanist - Probably just an act to get attention, tell her to grow up. Also, read back what you've written before you click post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 what to doo .. i got with a girl , thinking it was no strings , turns ou shes bisexual .. never good :// Are you gay?! If you really don't like her, you've gotta tell her to do one in no uncertain terms. Girls do not take hints if they are into you. Could always use this to your advantage though, she'll do unspeakably filthy things to keep you happy if she wants you that bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shamus Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Are you gay?! If you really don't like her, you've gotta tell her to do one in no uncertain terms. Girls do not take hints if they are into you. Could always use this to your advantage though, she'll do unspeakably filthy things to keep you happy if she wants you that bad So long as you don't mind a little bit of leather and S&M, win Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy P Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Well the problem isn't I CAN'T have her because I almost did, it's the fact that she's engaged and I REALLY shouldn't!! And trust me, that first time I deserved a friggin award for my will power! Really, from being on the other side of the fence of this at the moment DON'T DO IT. Messing with someones fiance is totally out of order - yes it takes two to tango but if you know shes engaged and you should walk away. Its a thin line between him going to the cashpoint on the way home, or coming straight home and putting your head through a wall.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD™ Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Really, from being on the other side of the fence of this at the moment DON'T DO IT. Messing with someones fiance is totally out of order - yes it takes two to tango but if you know shes engaged and you should walk away. Its a thin line between him going to the cashpoint on the way home, or coming straight home and putting your head through a wall.... Agreed on that. From the viewpoint of someone who isn't in that situation and isn't engaged (but is living with the woman), I would go more nuts at the guy if I found out she was playing away because she i untouchable as a girl. Aggression is far easier to take out on someone you don't know who's hurt you so bad. I certainly wouldn't wanna be on the receiving end of someone that angry and who at that moment in time feels they have nothing to lose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy P Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Agreed on that. From the viewpoint of someone who isn't in that situation and isn't engaged (but is living with the woman), I would go more nuts at the guy if I found out she was playing away because she i untouchable as a girl. Aggression is far easier to take out on someone you don't know who's hurt you so bad. I certainly wouldn't wanna be on the receiving end of someone that angry and who at that moment in time feels they have nothing to lose. Yeah - had I come home a few seconds earlier and met the guy in my own house I'm 100% certain that I'd have done my very best to see which broke first - his head or my wall (and I know the guy AND she had already broken up with me a few days before). When you're so in love with someone (I'm guessing he is as they're engaged) and you're hurt in such a way there's NOTHING you wouldn't do. You feel theres nothing left to loose. I'm not the biggest guy and i'm not ever aggressive but I'd have fancied my chances against ten men at that time. Trust me when I say you DO NOT want to be on the end of that. Don't even take the chance of just being friendly friends. I know I'd have been in "beat head first, ask questions later" mode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr_malcolm Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Yeah - had I come home a few seconds earlier and met the guy in my own house I'm 100% certain that I'd have done my very best to see which broke first - his head or my wall (and I know the guy AND she had already broken up with me a few days before). When you're so in love with someone (I'm guessing he is as they're engaged) and you're hurt in such a way there's NOTHING you wouldn't do. You feel theres nothing left to loose. I'm not the biggest guy and i'm not ever aggressive but I'd have fancied my chances against ten men at that time. Trust me when I say you DO NOT want to be on the end of that. Don't even take the chance of just being friendly friends. I know I'd have been in "beat head first, ask questions later" mode. Woah man that sucks, a lot. Hope things get better / resolve them self for your sake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy P Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Woah man that sucks, a lot. Hope things get better / resolve them self for your sake. Cheers mate. I've calmed down a lot over the past few days. We're back on friendly terms again. I'm still totally in love with her but I've quickly realised that it makes no difference how much I love her, if she doesn't feel the same then there really is no point. I'd much rather be friends with her than to loose her completely and maybe in a few weeks months or years if we're both still single and both want to give it another go then maybe things will be different. I still think we're perfect for one another but it just came along at the wrong time. We both want to do the things that we want to do whilst we're still young, it just turns out I was the only one that was willing to sacrifice these things to keep hold of the girl I love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Just make sure you don't mug yourself man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Harrison Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Just make sure you don't mug yourself man It does seem to be a running theme in this thread. People mugging themselves, I mean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Quigley Posted March 17, 2010 Report Share Posted March 17, 2010 Yeah - had I come home a few seconds earlier and met the guy in my own house I'm 100% certain that I'd have done my very best to see which broke first - his head or my wall (and I know the guy AND she had already broken up with me a few days before). When you're so in love with someone (I'm guessing he is as they're engaged) and you're hurt in such a way there's NOTHING you wouldn't do. You feel theres nothing left to loose. I'm not the biggest guy and i'm not ever aggressive but I'd have fancied my chances against ten men at that time. Trust me when I say you DO NOT want to be on the end of that. Don't even take the chance of just being friendly friends. I know I'd have been in "beat head first, ask questions later" mode. Hey Andy (good seeing you on Sunday in Pompy for that short period). Yeah I know to stay away and I am doing. Went out with her and some mates last night and basically we agreed to have absolutely no contact with each other for a while. I know I said I wanted her but I'm not a complete moron and would never get physically involved with anyone who was engaged, or even in a serious relationship of any kind. And I'm fairly sure her fella could and would batter me senseless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 Really confused about how I feel about this girl - shes home for the weekend and already feels empty here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 Really confused about how I feel about this girl - shes home for the weekend and already feels empty here. Same boat. Although I know how I feel, jus dunno what to do about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 Same boat. Although I know how I feel, jus dunno what to do about it. Oh we like each other just as we have both said its "too good", were on the same course, share a lot of friends and are part of a really tight click for working and stuff, so gotta take it easy cos' don't wanna wreck things later down the line.... but yea... shes dead nice Wassup Max? Don't wanna make a move? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l33th3tr33 Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 It does seem to be a running theme in this thread. People mugging themselves, I mean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Quinn Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 (edited) Oh we like each other just as we have both said its "too good", were on the same course, share a lot of friends and are part of a really tight click for working and stuff, so gotta take it easy cos' don't wanna wreck things later down the line.... but yea... shes dead nice Wassup Max? Don't wanna make a move? Yer fair. Hmmm jus general long times. This girl is literally my best mate in Bournemouth, an like you say we're part of the same really tight group of mates. She had a boyfriend when I first got to know her so I allowed it, then when she split up with him it felt like we were too good mates to f**k shit up. But now I'm realising I like her a lot more than I thought an would feel like a massive pussy if i never did anything. But it's the kinda odd situation where It's hard to flirt as we're so tight as mates, an jus straight up telling her could f**k everything up if she doesn't feel the same way, which I think she might not do to be honest. Heeaaaddf**k. Edited March 26, 2010 by Max Quinn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 High five. Same situation with the girl i'm with, we were best mates, shared the same group of mates etc and both had a bit of a thing for each other which kept getting more and more obvious but never did anything for the best part of 6 months for fear of ruining everything, losing your best mate and making things really awkward in the group etc - after some major thought I decided to just throw caution to the wind and go for it before the dreaded FriendZone set in, been absolutely incredible ever since! Give it some thought, give it a go, just don't f**k her about!* *This advice is not guaranteed to work, getting with your best mate is a law unto itself in the GREAT SUCCESS stakes. Oh and Simp - you're actually feeling some genuine emotion towards a female... f**k me, she must be good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted March 19, 2010 Report Share Posted March 19, 2010 (edited) Oh and Simp - you're actually feeling some genuine emotion towards a female... f**k me, she must be good! Shes just a good genuine girl, weve been totally straight up with each other, love the fact that theres no bullshit, I've said harsh truths to her and shes said some to me... nothing like some banter. And Max I was in the exact same situation over christmas, I manned up but she didn't feel the same, but thing is things between us haven't changed at all, I've got over it and were sharing a house next year now! lol (edit) In fact it wasn't that she didnt like me, it was that she found out one of her best mates was my f**k buddy, which ment she had that womans code thingy. Edited March 19, 2010 by Simpson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rojo Posted March 20, 2010 Report Share Posted March 20, 2010 Right, bare with me - this is probably guna be extremely unstructured and missing lots. To put it in perspective I had been going out with a girl for over a year and it was all going awesome, everything was lovely.... We got to a point in the relationship where I had moved away for uni and we just couldn't keep going... We drifted apart and agreed to go our separate ways which was cool because it was all mutual and we thought we would still be friends. Then we kept the physical side of the relationship for about another month but then she told me that she couldn't keep doing it because she still liked me and strangely enough I agreed and kinda thought it was for the best... We agreed it would be good to get some time apart and we haven't spoken at all for the last month. About an hour ago I got a text saying, "go f**k yourself! I never wanna speak to you again!" I called her back straight away only to find that she was at a mates house, pissed out her head with a bunch of her mates. This is where it gets pretty shit! I am best mates with one of the girls there so I gave her a quick call and she basically told me to f**k off. I have stuck by this girl for so many years through family shit, messed up relationships and the one time I ask a favour of her I get f**ked over. So I am sitting in my flat, flatmates all away out, wondering what the f**k I have done. Its f**king killing me, the two girls I cared most about in the world have both just f**ked me over in the last hour. So, it official, I am off serious relationships for good... May even try homosexuality to see if it is any easier... lol! I am not really expecting anyone to read all of that shit but f**k - a good rant really does make you feel better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skoze Posted March 21, 2010 Report Share Posted March 21, 2010 Wait until the morning, try again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rojo Posted March 21, 2010 Report Share Posted March 21, 2010 Wait until the morning, try again. I don't know if I want to... Do I really need them in my life if they can do that to me without feeling much about it? Im totally regretting not leaving this f**king city to go to uni... Fresh start would be super awesome right now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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