Greetings Posted December 7, 2009 Report Share Posted December 7, 2009 (edited) That sucks man. Do you have good friends? I know this sounds silly, but very often when people are together for such a long time, they neglect other friendships and suddenly realise that they're pretty lonely once their loved one is gone. Keep yourself occupied for the time being, the less time you have the less you'll think about everything. You will eventually have to sit down and go through everything in your head but it's not the right time for that now.edit: Oh and look on the bright side - it's about time you shagged someone else eh? Edited December 7, 2009 by Greetings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winnie Posted December 7, 2009 Report Share Posted December 7, 2009 That sucks man. Do you have good friends? I know this sounds silly, but very often when people are together for such a long time, they neglect other friendships and suddenly realise that they're pretty lonely once their loved one is gone. Keep yourself occupied for the time being, the less time you have the less you'll think about everything. You will eventually have to sit down and go through everything in your head but it's not the right time for that now.edit: Oh and look on the bright side - it's about time you shagged someone else eh?I know what you mean because some of my mates have done that very thing - got in a relationship and then you only see them twice a year. But i've always kept a good relationship with my friends so i know they will probably be there if i need them. The only thing is that i've not told anyone yet and to be honest it's not something i'm keen on bringing up in a face to face conversation just at the moment. I'm just not sure how to handle things - hit the bottle and drown my sorrows, be pathetic and sit at home pinning after her, pretend everything is ok and it doesnt bother me, look for another girl and get back in the game a.s.a.p. either way i doubt any will cheer me up right now.Shag someone else and a cheaper Christmas i suppose!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishy Posted December 7, 2009 Report Share Posted December 7, 2009 Shag someone else and a cheaper Christmas i suppose!!Jackpot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bitemybutt Posted December 12, 2009 Report Share Posted December 12, 2009 Girl i've been seeing called it off. She was absolutely amazing, a real one-off. She said she loved being with me, but her gut feeling was that she couldn't carry on seeing me. Sad times But my band is signing a record deal tomorrow so f**k it!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted December 12, 2009 Report Share Posted December 12, 2009 You lot must be tight with money... breaking up with the missus before christmas!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Has anyone seen my shoe? Posted December 12, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 12, 2009 You lot must be tight with moneygeniuses... breaking up with the missus before christmas!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dale-Hill Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 So yeah got a big ish problem. Maets "gf" (well they keep fannying around braking up and getting together) Is fit as I really like her, but would it be wrong to try get with her if they brake up again? He's like my best mates don't really want to loose his freiendship, but I think I like her too much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davetrials Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 do it, he'll be bitter about it for a while but hell get over it. i did a simelar thing to my mate didnt spoeak for 6 months though.also had his sister to though...poor lad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toyota200x Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 I know what you mean because some of my mates have done that very thing - got in a relationship and then you only see them twice a year. But i've always kept a good relationship with my friends so i know they will probably be there if i need them. The only thing is that i've not told anyone yet and to be honest it's not something i'm keen on bringing up in a face to face conversation just at the moment. I'm just not sure how to handle things - hit the bottle and drown my sorrows, be pathetic and sit at home pinning after her, pretend everything is ok and it doesnt bother me, look for another girl and get back in the game a.s.a.p. either way i doubt any will cheer me up right now.Shag someone else and a cheaper Christmas i suppose!!Hiding all your pain & ignoring it will only get you so far. It really is ok to be sad for awhile. This person was with you for a long time. Ride more trials, learn new things, keep doing positive things in your life. Everything will be ok in the end, stay positive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan6061 Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 Mate of mine met this girl, she added me on Facebook and started chatting to me. Then got my number and started texting me, was all innocent general chat y'know... then she explained how she was confused etc, cos she has a 'soft spot' for my mate, but likes someone else. Then she told me the other night she likes me, and I turned her down because I don't wanna f**k my mate about. I'm not even that interested in her! I told my mate everything, and he was cool with it! Said I should go for it etc...But I dunno, seems a bit weird really. I haven't even met the girl! Plus she's almost 16, and I'm 19. Kinda want someone around my age that can actually make their mind up!Don't even have a problem, just kinda typing it out for no reason.. While I'm at it...My dad gave me a ring earlier, asking if it'd be alright if he popped round to see us/drop some presents off. Mum was cool with it (They've been divorced around 10yrs) so he turns up, but drunk. He works at the pub, and had been drinking most of the day with his meal etc, which is understandable! My sister has her fiance round, who's a fair bit older than her.. won't go into that.Dad being drunk, says 'quietly' to me 'What's his name? ... he looks too old!' Half-jokingly I guess, he was laughing along... Which made things get awkward... Then when mum finished her wine, he says to me 'Is your mum having another?' then says 'C'Mon, your glass is empty!' being drunk he mumbled it, mum thought he said HIS glass was empty, and started getting in a stress about it! So yet another mini-domestic breaks out, mum moaned at him about being rude to her and Mark (sisters fiance) taking it all out of context, so it gets even more awkward.I offered to walk him back, was gunna have a drink with him, but he was off to his mates.Nice one, Dad. Christmas eh? haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish-Finger-er Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 Mate of mine met this girl, she added me on Facebook and started chatting to me. Then got my number and started texting me, was all innocent general chat y'know... then she explained how she was confused etc, cos she has a 'soft spot' for my mate, but likes someone else. Then she told me the other night she likes me, and I turned her down because I don't wanna f**k my mate about. I'm not even that interested in her! I told my mate everything, and he was cool with it! Said I should go for it etc...But I dunno, seems a bit weird really. I haven't even met the girl! Plus she's almost 16, and I'm 19. Kinda want someone around my age that can actually make their mind up!Don't even have a problem, just kinda typing it out for no reason.. You mean 15?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew_Gibson Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 .................what he said.............Personally I wouldnt go for anyone underage. but it only 3 year ISH I mean there 15 between my mam and dad. Just wait untill she legal! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsrider.chris Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 what i want to no is why does every girl moan about everything . my girlfriend moans about everything and it gets a tad annoying sometimes . grr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N.Wood Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 Get a better one, mine knows her place. Merry christmas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trialsrider.chris Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 Get a better one, mine knows her place. Merry christmas.haha thats made my day cheers merry xmas to all chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dale-Hill Posted December 25, 2009 Report Share Posted December 25, 2009 (edited) Twat my mate now wants me to go to town with him and his gf. Tell her and him how much I like her yay or nay? Edited December 25, 2009 by Dale-Hill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robwalker Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 nayyyyyy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Morton Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Twat my mate now wants me to go to town with him and his gf. Tell her and him how much I like her yay or nay?YAY. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Twat my mate now wants me to go to town with him and his gf. Tell her and him how much I like her yay or nay?Bang your 1 brain cell to the side of your skull and work it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l33th3tr33 Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Right! well basically I've had an EPIC last week, went out on friday, got laid. Now i find out that she likes me but the problem is I pulled on the monday and got an hours sleep I really like both of them but I cant see too much happening with the girl from monday, but waking up next to a 23 year old mrs santa wearing nothing but santa gloves and stockings was the best christmas present by far! Hope everyone had a wicked christmas! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 (edited) It seems my ex's new bloke has f*cked her off, she is pissed off and upset about this (based on Facebook status' - we havn't spoken properly for a while now), this brought me much delight. I made a comment about her karma for her doing pretty much exactly what he's done, to me, it went down a treat... <img src="http://www.trials-forum.co.uk/forum/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid="" border="0" alt="smile.gif" /> Twat twat twat twat twat twat. Edited April 21, 2010 by Jolfa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revolver Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 In unrelated news, I've got talking to this girl, she is pretty much the female version of me (in style and attitude to everything) but she's not everso pretty (but I think my standards are probably too high anyway ), and she's as shy and awkward as I am do it anyway?May as well, beats the other lass you spoke about in your post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 If your shy and awkward I can dedicate some time to 'breaking you in' if you want?This sounds potentially painful, will there be lube? Or at least a good amount of spit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolfa Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 I'll be round about 10? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simpson Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Right was seeing this girl when I went to uni, broke things off after 3 weeks and said "see how things will go over christmas" right, so christmas comes arround I ask if she wants to meet up sometime and she said she would "take a rain check" fine whatever (I didn't really like her at this point but thats not the point at all), a week later she text me asking me if i was going to this club, and she said she had got over her "wierd anti-social phase" whatver, I got kicked out the club after 25 mins so didnt end up seeing her anyway. Go on facebook "Sophie Sage is in a relationship with Tim Lock" who she had dated for like 2 years before I started seeing her, but was also one of my best mates. I feel totally side-swiped and mugged off for even bothering texting her. Do I say something? I.e. Why didn't you just tell me you were trying to patch things up with tim? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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