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That sucks man. Do you have good friends? I know this sounds silly, but very often when people are together for such a long time, they neglect other friendships and suddenly realise that they're pretty lonely once their loved one is gone. Keep yourself occupied for the time being, the less time you have the less you'll think about everything. You will eventually have to sit down and go through everything in your head but it's not the right time for that now.

edit: Oh and look on the bright side - it's about time you shagged someone else eh?

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That sucks man. Do you have good friends? I know this sounds silly, but very often when people are together for such a long time, they neglect other friendships and suddenly realise that they're pretty lonely once their loved one is gone. Keep yourself occupied for the time being, the less time you have the less you'll think about everything. You will eventually have to sit down and go through everything in your head but it's not the right time for that now.

edit: Oh and look on the bright side - it's about time you shagged someone else eh?

I know what you mean because some of my mates have done that very thing - got in a relationship and then you only see them twice a year. But i've always kept a good relationship with my friends so i know they will probably be there if i need them. The only thing is that i've not told anyone yet and to be honest it's not something i'm keen on bringing up in a face to face conversation just at the moment. I'm just not sure how to handle things - hit the bottle and drown my sorrows, be pathetic and sit at home pinning after her, pretend everything is ok and it doesnt bother me, look for another girl and get back in the game a.s.a.p. either way i doubt any will cheer me up right now.

Shag someone else and a cheaper Christmas i suppose!!

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So yeah got a big ish problem.

Maets "gf" (well they keep fannying around braking up and getting together) Is fit as I really like her, but would it be wrong to try get with her if they brake up again? He's like my best mates don't really want to loose his freiendship, but I think I like her too much :(

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I know what you mean because some of my mates have done that very thing - got in a relationship and then you only see them twice a year. But i've always kept a good relationship with my friends so i know they will probably be there if i need them. The only thing is that i've not told anyone yet and to be honest it's not something i'm keen on bringing up in a face to face conversation just at the moment. I'm just not sure how to handle things - hit the bottle and drown my sorrows, be pathetic and sit at home pinning after her, pretend everything is ok and it doesnt bother me, look for another girl and get back in the game a.s.a.p. either way i doubt any will cheer me up right now.

Shag someone else and a cheaper Christmas i suppose!!

Hiding all your pain & ignoring it will only get you so far. It really is ok to be sad for awhile. This person was with you for a long time. Ride more trials, learn new things, keep doing positive things in your life. Everything will be ok in the end, stay positive.

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Mate of mine met this girl, she added me on Facebook and started chatting to me. Then got my number and started texting me, was all innocent general chat y'know... then she explained how she was confused etc, cos she has a 'soft spot' for my mate, but likes someone else.

Then she told me the other night she likes me, and I turned her down because I don't wanna f**k my mate about. I'm not even that interested in her! I told my mate everything, and he was cool with it! Said I should go for it etc...

But I dunno, seems a bit weird really. I haven't even met the girl! Plus she's almost 16, and I'm 19. Kinda want someone around my age that can actually make their mind up!

Don't even have a problem, just kinda typing it out for no reason.. :blink:

While I'm at it...

My dad gave me a ring earlier, asking if it'd be alright if he popped round to see us/drop some presents off. Mum was cool with it (They've been divorced around 10yrs) so he turns up, but drunk. He works at the pub, and had been drinking most of the day with his meal etc, which is understandable! My sister has her fiance round, who's a fair bit older than her.. won't go into that.

Dad being drunk, says 'quietly' to me 'What's his name? ... he looks too old!' Half-jokingly I guess, he was laughing along... Which made things get awkward...

Then when mum finished her wine, he says to me 'Is your mum having another?' then says 'C'Mon, your glass is empty!' being drunk he mumbled it, mum thought he said HIS glass was empty, and started getting in a stress about it! So yet another mini-domestic breaks out, mum moaned at him about being rude to her and Mark (sisters fiance) taking it all out of context, so it gets even more awkward.

I offered to walk him back, was gunna have a drink with him, but he was off to his mates.

Nice one, Dad. :rolleyes:

Christmas eh? haha.

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Mate of mine met this girl, she added me on Facebook and started chatting to me. Then got my number and started texting me, was all innocent general chat y'know... then she explained how she was confused etc, cos she has a 'soft spot' for my mate, but likes someone else.

Then she told me the other night she likes me, and I turned her down because I don't wanna f**k my mate about. I'm not even that interested in her! I told my mate everything, and he was cool with it! Said I should go for it etc...

But I dunno, seems a bit weird really. I haven't even met the girl! Plus she's almost 16, and I'm 19. Kinda want someone around my age that can actually make their mind up!

Don't even have a problem, just kinda typing it out for no reason.. :blink:

You mean 15??

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Right! well basically I've had an EPIC last week, went out on friday, got laid. Now i find out that she likes me but the problem is I pulled on the monday and got an hours sleep ;) I really like both of them but I cant see too much happening with the girl from monday, but waking up next to a 23 year old mrs santa wearing nothing but santa gloves and stockings was the best christmas present by far! :D

Hope everyone had a wicked christmas!

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It seems my ex's new bloke has f*cked her off, she is pissed off and upset about this (based on Facebook status' - we havn't spoken properly for a while now), this brought me much delight. I made a comment about her karma for her doing pretty much exactly what he's done, to me, it went down a treat... <img src="http://www.trials-forum.co.uk/forum/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile.gif" />

Twat twat twat twat twat twat. :(

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In unrelated news, I've got talking to this girl, she is pretty much the female version of me (in style and attitude to everything) but she's not everso pretty (but I think my standards are probably too high anyway :P ), and she's as shy and awkward as I am :lol: do it anyway?

May as well, beats the other lass you spoke about in your post :P

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Right was seeing this girl when I went to uni, broke things off after 3 weeks and said "see how things will go over christmas" right, so christmas comes arround I ask if she wants to meet up sometime and she said she would "take a rain check" fine whatever (I didn't really like her at this point but thats not the point at all), a week later she text me asking me if i was going to this club, and she said she had got over her "wierd anti-social phase" whatver, I got kicked out the club after 25 mins so didnt end up seeing her anyway.

Go on facebook "Sophie Sage is in a relationship with Tim Lock" who she had dated for like 2 years before I started seeing her, but was also one of my best mates. I feel totally side-swiped and mugged off for even bothering texting her.

Do I say something? I.e. Why didn't you just tell me you were trying to patch things up with tim?

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